When I finally learned to talk openly to my dead Twin Flame, there was one question I just couldn’t deny…
As time went on and I finally began to get more and more comfortable with the fact that my long lost Twin Flame was actually there with me in spirit every single day, things began developing at warp speed. Although this situation was completely new and foreign to me I knew I could trust him. I just felt it, that everything he shared with me was for my own good and he wouldn’t ever let anything bad happen to me.
I had recently discovered a psychic development course that would let me learn how to communicate with him on the other side, but couldn’t really afford the cost. Somehow within a few days the money to pay for the course mysteriously showed up as an unexpected gift from a family member, and I had a feeling that a certain someone might have something to do with it… I bought the course, eagerly awaiting each single new class on email so I could learn to finally speak to my Twin Flame.
After a few weeks of learning methods for how to open up to and expand our telepathic communication, we started talking in my head, as if we were conversing. First it was short and simple, like using a foreign language to start with, but we became able to talk more and more fluently. Our intense desire to talk with each other plus the energy clearings I’d been doing really opened up the channel for us to talk more openly. Sometimes we’d laugh at the fact that we were actually talking in our minds, able to hear each other so clearly. It was so exciting, like being ten years old and having secret walkie-talkies under our pillows to talk in the middle of the night.
Catching up after centuries
As you can imagine, when I finally started being able to hear my Twin Flame telepathically, there were about a gazillion questions I wanted to ask him. Imagine you had a best friend you hadn’t seen in 20 years and so much had happened since then, and you were beside yourself with excitement – it was like that. Only it was a few centuries, not decades, that had passed.
I knew my Twin had died young in his most recent life, I knew his name, I knew that we’d been together in life before and I knew I loved him and he loved me. Apart from that, I drew a blank. We had so much catching up to do! One of the biggest things for me was accepting the fact that he was dead even though he was actually there with me, seemingly bright and cheery and all the things we normally associate with life, not with death…
To start with it also freaked me out that he still used earth expressions like “You’re killing me”, “I’m dead serious” and “I’m dying to…” – I soon realized he was doing it to lighten the mood. He wanted to show me there was nothing to be afraid of. He laughed a lot, hugged me a lot, kissed me and joked around for me, and laughing at death seemed to be one of his favorite things to do.
Life and death questions
One afternoon he suggested I ask him what I wanted to know, and he’d do his best to answer. I wasn’t someone who’d had much experience with death, barely even been to a funeral, and I had grown up in an atheist family where the belief in life after death was considered ludicrous. When you died, your body was buried and you were gone forever, is what I was taught.
So either my family had been wrong (or hasty to make judgment, at the very least) or I was beyond crazy. And judging by how incredibly autonomous my new friend was and especially how helpful and loving he was to me, I wasn’t quite ready for committal to an institution. (I don’t know about you, but my own mind was never my best friend – the internal monologue was more along the lines of “you’re not good enough”, not the “I love you infinitely” and “I’m so proud of you” that my Twin Flame kept saying).
My questions came tumbling out: What is it like to be dead? How does it feel? Are you scared when you die? Do you know what is happening? Who greets you when you pass away? Does your soul really leave your physical body? What happens once you’re dead?
My Twin Flame patiently explained everything to me, making sure I wasn’t getting caught up in death when I was still alive and well and on earth to live – like he said: “Life is a gift, don’t waste it thinking about dying!”
He explained that although he had felt his end coming for a while when he was last on earth, he was still afraid when the moment came – because he didn’t understand fully. He made sure I understood that all human beings are spirits in bodies; your spirit is eternal and knows what death is and it’s not afraid because it has died and been reborn many times and knows what comes next. Your earth-based ego self, on the other hand, is scared because it doesn’t understand.
He said once the moment finally came, he was at peace. Like being lifted up and out of pain, peaceful, transcendent. You see yourself lying there and you know this is it, I’m going now. The spiritual beings that have looked after you in life come to take you home, because that’s really what it is – you’re going home to where you come from.
There’s no pain. The only pain comes from seeing those you left behind being afraid and in grief – that’s the worst part of it, seeing them in sorrow and unable to understand what’s happened. You want to help them, show them you’re still there and you love them but they can’t see you. Most souls stay around until after their funeral, until their loved ones have come to terms with their passing to some extent. Making sure everything is OK and trying to say goodbye. Many visit the dreams of their loved ones after passing, to communicate one last time “I love you” and “I’m never really gone for good” or “I’ll be waiting for you on the other side”.
All souls that have left their body and are done with their earth experience are taken through a transition – that’s what people have traditionally described as “going into the light” – you pass through to a higher dimension and are received there, and you gradually phase back more and more to who you are as a spirit on the eternal planes. You remember who you are. Later, you and your spirit guides from life go through a “life review” where you assess your life experience and see how you impacted others, how you influenced the world with your actions and your energy and what choices you made and how things could have turned out differently if you made different choices.
Eventually you get to choose whether you want to come back and reincarnate to have new experiences on earth and hopefully correct and adjust anything you weren’t pleased with in your past life – getting the chance to learn the lessons you missed that time around; whereas some souls decide to help others who are incarnate on earth, by working as a spirit guide and assisting people who could benefit from your particular areas of expertise and experiences.
Heaven and hell
I took in every word eagerly, noticing that it mostly made sense to me. It felt right and truthful. He then asked me what I thought of heaven and hell, what they meant to me. I thought about it for a minute and said “… I think hell is yourself, I think it’s you making yourself relive the pain you may have caused others and the negative experiences you had… and I think heaven is being happy with what you did in life; feeling content that you did the best you could and that there was value in you being on earth – being at peace with that.”
He smiled and kissed me on the head. He seemed to agree, and explained that no one will punish you except yourself – but sometimes people die with fear of being punished or made to suffer for something they feel guilty for, and this can draw more fear to them, frightening visions of what you could term “hell”.
Stories of fear
I noticed that he was very careful in telling me too much, and was attentive in making sure I understood him clearly: he said “there’s really nothing to be afraid of, so many stories and myths in human culture breed fear of death and dying but there’s really nothing to be afraid of. No one punishes you, you don’t feel pain, there’s no eternal damnation if you’ve been ‘bad’ – it’s just spirits existing as energy, manifesting in different forms. It’s hard to explain in earth language because humans don’t have reference points for this, but we’re all spirits. Even on earth, we all know on some level who we are and where we come from. And when we die, we go home. We’re at peace, at one with source energy, which is the highest vibration of love and light there is, the origins of creation.
“I’m really here, I’m really dead and I really love you”
We discussed how modern Western society is actually quite unusual in how it focuses so much on the physical remains of the dead person, rather than maintaining the spiritual connection the way many traditional societies do, with rituals to communicate with ancestors and helpful spirits. He indicated that traditional rites and rituals are powerful in dealing with grief and also maintaining a sense of the life-death continuum and the cyclical nature of life, as opposed to the stop-start perspective we often have in the modern West. Later, he would also show me that the two of us had stayed in touch across the spheres throughout several lifetimes, and that the Twin Flames (or Twin Souls) are never truly apart.
My mind felt like it was about to explode with all this new information, and I completely understood why he’d been holding back for a while before he told me these things. He seemed to know (in general he really knew me better than anyone ever had, even at this point), and he suggested we talk about something different for a while, telling me that “death is really not a big deal”.
“Don’t worry baby cat,” he said (his nickname for me – if there was ever proof that I was really talking to another individual, this was it; there was no way in the world I’d come up with silly pet names for myself!) “I’m really here, I’m really dead and I really love you.” We laughed together at how crazy and silly and enormous this whole situation was.
Looking back, this was truly a milestone moment for me – knowing that there is life after death and that we are eternal beings, there is nothing to truly be afraid of. What a gift to be given. As the weeks and months went by, my Twin Flame would show me more and more vividly how the afterlife of a spirit can be, as we started exploring the astral realms together and delving into our past lives together on earth…
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what happens to the spirits of those people who suicide and how does life review take place is it seeing your life like a tv show on screen or is it something else
and what about god ? Do the spirits meet god?
Hi there thanks for your question! – as far as I’ve understood it from my guides those who take their own life will not really experience the afterlife any differently than any other person who died of “natural causes”.
Life is a Free Will experience, so it is ultimately up to each person what they choose to do, however after dying, a person who took their own life would be shown what alternatives they had available to them, how things could have been different and what energies and beliefs influenced them to feel that this was their only option… If there is one thing I’ve learned about the spiritual realm it is that the higher vibration beings are very gentle and understanding.
The way I interpret it, God and “source”, Allah and the holy spirit are different names and traditions for describing pure light consciousness. When you die and leave your physical body, any separation is removed, so you could describe it as “becoming one with source again”…
My boyfriend of seven years was murdered, i watched him die. Five days before he was murdered we found out i was pregnant. I have a set of angel cards and they alwas seem to show me the twin flame card when pertaining to him. And i also went and saw a medium several months ago and she said the day before our meeting when she was meditating and preparing for our visit together she said that his spirit kept shpwing her the twin flame card. This was the first thing out of her mouth before we even began the session. My question is this, can a twin flame die in order to be a guide in the spirit realm? I truly believe he is watching over me and especially over his daughter.
I discovered that the intense mourning I had over a musician that died- that I never met in person- is my Twin Flame. I couldn’t figure out why I was suffering so badly & figured it must be something about myself that was triggered by his work. Until one morning I woke up to his head kinda floating above my bed… all light, no fear energy at all. I’ve experienced “ghosts”, shape-shifters, effects of witchcraft etc but my Twin Flame is delightful.
Can you please share the psychic development course with us?
Oh geez, I think I might be going crazy till I found this ! I never believed in this sort of thing before to be honest, being very “straight” minded & ‘normal.’..haha, yet there’s someone (sort of famous, but ages ago) and died who I have loved before, about 7 years ago. I first saw him on an old clip, and felt something really weird – like I’d seen him before but I’d never evenmet him he died when i was 3. I fell in love with him from 1st sight- not normal for me as I’m not one for silly immature celeb crushes. I told myself after a long period of love, that I was crazy and put him out my mind. Now, again, out of the blue, I am in love with him again, extremely heartbroken over the death, cry, shiver, shake, feel sick to the pit of my stomach. I’m not even into celebrities that much. For the most part I can’t stand em. But he’s (was) different. I have definitely seen this man before, before I even SAW him, iyswim. I want to badly go to his gravesite and sing for him ..it’s like he’s asking me to sing. I was told that i resemble the man facially as well – that freaked me out a bit. Can someone try and explain this? Anyone? I feel like I’m a nut job. Help!!
Dear Helen,You’re not crazy! Let me tell you a little about my experience:
years ago, I started to be a bit obsessed about a certain celebrity who
had died a few years earlier. (When that happened, I was upset about it
without understanding why, I was never into celebrities although I had
always had a soft spot for this person and for some reason had always
thought I would meet him…)
Anyway, I didn’t understand my obsessive
behaviour so I used my goddess cards and asked them about this person. The answer I
got was: ‘The person you have a question about, knows you from an
Oh! That explained a lot!
After that, I felt him around me, hugging me and so on. But I didn’t know what all this meant.
decided to ask a psychic about this. She saw the bond we had and became
emotional and finally said ‘maybe I shouldn’t tell you this, but it
feels like a twinflame connection’.
A what? I had heard the term before but had thought it complete nonsense.
I was so wrong :))
of him being a celebrity, it’s a bit weird. I sometimes feel like a
teenage girl with fantasies. But he tells me the fame isn’t important.
good thing about it, is that a psychic has written a book with
interviews with people from the other side, also with him (he directed
me to the website so I found the book), and after I had read the book, I
emailed this woman. Within 1 hour she replied! And you know why?
Because she saw HIM, telling her she should write me back (I hadn’t told
her who it was I had a question about!)
That gave me the confirmation I needed. So it was really him.
Don’t get me wrong, I still think it’s almost unbelievable.
But he tells me that one of the reasons he was famous, is so that I could recognize him when he would get in touch.
I guess the same applies to you.
Maybe you can start with Cassady’s free Twin flame breakthrough kit?
Much luck to you!
Do we get to be with our twin flames on the other side then? One of my biggest fears is time and not having enough to bask in the beauty of being with my twin flame in this life and so young. I don’t want to take it for granted either. I just can’t stand the thought of potential separation after death. I would want more than just contact, I’d want to be together you know?
Thanks for your beautiful writing and being brave enough to share your experiences with the world. They make an incredible impact on those who find them.
Thank you Sarah.
Dear Cassady. I have been talking to my “dead” twin soul for 3 years. I know he has help me alot. But now I am a little bit confused. Sometimes I feel like he could be alive. I don’t know if a soul could be in 2 bodies here in earth? One that died in the 80’s and another one that is here. Is it possible?
Dear sweet Vincent,
How awful to hear how you are feeling right now.
I am not sure about the knowledge saying twinflames die not far between.
But please hear this:
My twinflame is also on the other side, but it doesn’t mean he is not with me.
On the contrary, he is with me ALL THE TIME, which is just wonderful.
Sure, sometimes it’s hard not to be able to be together physically, but actually we even have that sometimes. I have felt him next to me in bed, while dancing, hugging me and so on.
And I can talk to him whenever I want.
I guess what I am saying is this: you don’t have to die to be with your twinflame. She is already with you. If you can get around the grief, just a little, you’ll probably feel her, sense her and be able to communicate with her.
Please give it a try, maybe you’ll feel better soon.
Much love to you,
It’s different when you meet the twin in the physical
Hey Joana, I can relate to you. I guess it’s obvious first of all that no two people are alike so no one’s experiences are going to be identical. I had a dream one time about a man who had died some time ago. I knew it was a different kind of dream because of the setting and the realness of it. The man I dreamed of said nothing but stood silently. The remarkable thing was that there was a woman with him. She spoke to me directly, I had never seen her before. She was young, long brown hair, very friendly. I didn’t get a name but she showed me her hands, the backs of them and then the front. She then said to me, “See, it’s the same.” I instinctively knew what she meant, she was saying that although she had died she still possessed a body and that she was recognizable. She was saying, that it’s okay. This experience was unique but I have had many others that were also unique. I suppose you could call me someone who has great empathy. I am someone who gets lots of these types of things happen because they (other beings in spirit) can see me and they know right away. I’m not sure I like it, but it is what it is I guess. Just know that you’re not alone,
Hi Hailey, Thanks for sharing, it’s nice to hear a similar story 🙂 Especially when most stories are about both twins being on earth.
Hello, my name is Cilla, i have just found this account of others peoples experiences, and it’s very comforting to know I’m not alone in this!
So I had a spiritual awakening in 2009, and I remember it like it happens yesterday. The feeling is so euphoric and out of this world that it’s very hard to explain it unless you’ve felt this kind of love for yourself, so obv its hard to talk about this with people who haven’t awoken yet. They’ll look at me like I’m nuts!! Just reading these stories. My twin got in contact with me after he had died. I’ve always tried to find more info on other peoples experiences where they have a twin in the afterlife. I haven’t been very successful until I found this site. Anyway, he made it very clear who he was, and it’s someone famous and at first it’s very unbelievable, but at the same time you look past their fame they had as you actually feel the person who they really are inside. It never phased me as I felt complete love and total bliss in his presence. Little things he gave me that were signs and I ended up going to a medium, she found this twin flame connection and I really did it just to see if she’d bring it up and see if she could find what I knew deep down. Apparently he’s here to help me find love, but I feel he’s already helped me find this love by him showing me this, and the love I feel for him compares to nothing I’ve ever felt. I’m not sure if I’ll ever find someone in the physical world because of this love I have for him, he feels like home and always will do. I don’t care if I’m alone in the physical world as I know deep down I’m not alone. I’ve always felt never alone. My parents worry about me as I’m now 26 and I’ve only ever had one relationship in the physical, but it wasn’t love. And only reason I’ve never really been in relationships is because I’ve always felt happy and content thanks to my twin flame. I haven’t wanted to jeopardise that.
Sorry for the long message, but so much has happened in the past few years since his death. I’ve had highs and lows also. I’ve actually gone through a rough patch we’re ive been really low, not wanting to do anything, not very sociable and just felt like I’ve moved away from my twin flame, but it’s all down to me as I have let the ego rule me and this has been since I had been in that one relationship. Now I regret it as I miss those feelings and I just know I want to be the person I know I am, the person that keeps my soul happy and nourished. I want to be that person again. I know this is super long but I pray it gets easier, like it used to be. I want to feel like as if life is good again. And I want to feel connected to him (my twin) again. So much happened to me when I was being awakened! I honestly, feel very blessed to have this happen to me though, even through all the hardships, I really thank god for everything that’s happened to me!
Another question. After the soul left as you’ve mentioned after the funeral or after some time, would you still be able to communicate with your TF as you have been doing? I’m curious because I’m going through a very similar situation now…