This week’s question comes from Melissa: “I haven’t met my Twin Flame yet – what can I do to bring them to me?”

A: Thank you so much for your question, Melissa! This is another situation I encounter a lot in my work as an intuitive coach for Twin Flames. I would like to add that all the advice given in this Q&A also applies to any Twin Flames that are in separation.

The very first thing I would suggest to focus on is the idea (the energetic fact) that you and your Twin Flame are already connected on a soul level. You have never separated fully, and there is still an energetic cord connecting you.

You Are Already Connected

Even if you have not met your Twin in the physical yet (and this goes for those who have met their Twin but for some reason are in separation), you can strengthen your energetic and emotional connection in order to manifest a physical meeting.

There’s a great meditation to do this in the Free Help Kit for Twin Flames.

Spirit often compares the Twin Flame journey on earth to a masquerade – because behind the scenes on a soul level we all know our Twin Flame intimately, and we are aware of why we’re here; to experience unconditional love together. However, our “masks” of ego selves present the situation as completely different, that we are strangers somehow, when this couldn’t be further from the truth.

Remember that you and your Twin Flame already know each other intimately, you are already connected on a deep spiritual level – having this as your starting point allows for a very powerful intention in terms of ensuring a reunion in the physical.

Increasing Attraction

Energy attracts its like, and you and your Twin are perfectly identical in origin so you are by default “magnetized” to each other.
The issue that often crops up is that as we go through life (many lives if you believe in reincarnation) is that you take on energy and negativity, congestion and so on from other people who are of a different vibration, and from situations that pull you into lower energies such as fear, worry, stress and so on.

Clearing yourself of others’ energies and any lower emotions will be powerful in opening up your inner connection with your Twin Flame again, and once we do this the two of you will increasingly attract each other on the physical plane as well (physical manifestation comes as a result of the energy being in place beforehand).

This is why I’ve included a powerful energy cleanse tool in the Free Kit For Twin Flames.

Methods for Strengthening the Connection

There are many ways to actually start interacting with your Twin energetically and telepathically before you ever meet in the physical, and through this reconnecting on the non-physical planes you are paving the way for an actual meeting in the “real world” happening much faster.

You can, when learning to tune into your intuition, sense where your Twin Flame is, who they are in terms of age, location… When you clear your energy sufficiently, you will be more and more attuned to your Twin in all ways.

My first suggestion right now (spirit always guides my clients to do this with everything they desire to manifest in life) is to start spending some time meditating and focusing on your desires every day. As little of 5-10 minutes a day to get you out of your thinking mind/ego and into your heart will help strengthen the connection between you and your Twin.

Creating With the Mind and Emotions

Creative visualization is such a powerful modality that top athletes and leading lights such as Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey and Tiger Woods name it as one of the most important parts of what lead them to success in life, and there are numerous scientific experiments supporting this.

Quite simply, Creative Visualization involves meditating on your ideal situation as if it is already here. So you would visualize already being with your Twin, and disregard any feelings of worry, skepticism and so on. It’s important to get into the feeling of it having happened already.

This helps your subconscious mind reconfigure its activity to support you in getting to your desired goal (the subconscious mind stands for 96% of our brain activity, and science shows we have thousands of subconscious thoughts each minute – so you can see that getting this part of us “on board” for the Twin Flame journey and giving it a goal to work towards is a big help!), and you are matching your energy to your desired goal, which makes you able to attract it and manifest it in the physical.

Asking for Help on the Journey

You can ask your guides for assistance in bringing you and your Twin Flame together in life, and with creative visualization. These methods are also extremely powerful for anyone who’s in physical separation right now.

Remember that the manifestation process can test our faith but don’t lose hope –

Like a seed of a flower grows quite a lot under the ground before we can see it sprout forth over the surface of the soil, energetic work lays the foundations and brings manifestations forth closer and closer to physical reality – but it might take a little while before it breaks through “the surface”.

Don’t lose hope in the mean time, but know that as you are applying your spiritual and energetic work and methods, your desired manifestation comes ever closer. There are many tools in the Vibrational Alignment Program that can help you achieve this, including a Creative Visualization guided audio meditation designed specifically for the Twin Flame connection.

Thank you so much for your question! Sending you love and light for your continued journey <3

Cassady x


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  1. Hi cassey , me and my twin flame are on the running stage now. First i was confused about the connection and i ran (due to my negative past experiences), now shes running from me. All this information started appearing in my life, and the number 11-11 as well. Today i was feeling sad and depressed and i started meditating and asked my guides to help me with my twin flame (Im doing this has been like 5 days). Then your website appeared to me. I’ve read a lot of information on the internet about it, but i can feel that you gathered your information through a lot of research and experience (my intuition tells me this. We broke up have like 3 months, i send her a message the last 2 weeks , opening the channels of comunication again, she was receptive, we talked for a while about things in general, i told her that our connection was very intense and we could be at least friends. Then she messaged me 2 days straight in a row, to me that was a good sign, so i tryed to make a connection again showing pictures of the past, talking about the signs that was appearing to me (she is not ready for this yet i realized this now.). Ok, she deny our connection even that i could feel that she was not speaking the truth, it’s something that u can feel inside your heart, im also a very intuitive person and usually it’s not the words that matter to me, it’s the energy behind the words that i feel, and i could feel our connection. Ok, my question is, should i wait for her to contact me now?? should i contact her and open again our communication ? Im confused about this, all websites are saying to wait for the runner to heal, etc. Im doing my inner work, i have issues and negative things to clear, but im wondering which one would be the best option!!! THANK YOU so much !! You are a great soul .

  2. Hi Mark, I set myself some ground rules when answering here on the blog to cover questions that will help all readers so unfortunately I can’t get into the specifics of your situation. I hope you understand <3

    Remember that the "Running stage" is not inevitable - I often see Twin Flames inadvertently drawing this to them energetically by "buying into" it and accepting it as a reality. Not to say you've done something wrong, but I'd suggest revisiting your beliefs around the whole Twin Flame relationship to make sure you're not framing your reality around something that doesn't serve you.

    I would advise you to shift your focus right now to your *inner* connection with your Twin Flame - this can actually become very enjoyable; experiment with meditating and connecting to your Twin. Set the intention that you're connecting with them and visualize conversing with or embracing them, and so on. Really this is an actual, true interaction on the energetic soul level. The more you practice this, the less your ego self will block this kind of interaction.

    Working on your inner connection with your Twin deeply strengthens your emotional bond, and will help your Twin feel safe to open up again and come back to you.

    Sending you love and light on your continued journey! <3

    Cassady x

  3. PS: Regarding getting in touch with your Twin again – listen to your intuition; you know best. If it feels light and happy and good, go for it! x

  4. Hi Cassey first I would like to thank you for all the support out here and the free kit .
    It’s been 2 months since I’ve been using it , now my twin flame who ever she is still doesn’t want to contact me now I know how I sound I’m trying to do it all too fast .
    But what I saw as progress was days ago when nothing was quite happening(I was feeling her presence or something) and in my meditative state I told her come on what are you waiting for and I felt that that upset her , so the next day I apologized and I was more positive (way far more positive) and I felt this happiness and this warm from my upper body to my head . Now if killed a big part of my ego these days. But she didn’t want to contact me I found myself writing again to the person that I though was my twin flame I’m still not sure if my right about her but my looking at her photos i felt feeling this from inside similar to the one during the meditation (the one that doesn’t show much emotion but the one that I get all the time that rises my heart rate ) she didn’t write to me back for 2 reasons if she is my twin flame ( she didn’t see me who I am but I know who she is well never saw her in real life) 1. she is in a relationship 2. my facebook is anonymous . I don’t know what to do I want to things to happen fast but my negativity mainly comes from what if she who ever she is gets married and also I’ve read a few blogs sites and also from some people that you shouldn’t be searching for a relationship with your TF if it doesn’t work sometimes it isn’t because you’ve done it wrong but because your TF maybe doesn’t want you .
    I really don’t want to fail or to be too late but I don’t want to be only connected to her without relationship because this is painful in my opinion.

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