When Skeptics Get In The Way Of Twin Flame Love. Plus, New Moon In The Sign Of Sex, Death and Rebirth – What’s Your Love Karma? And: Learn How To Tell If Your Twin Is Lying, A Simple Yet Powerful Trick To Always Knowing The Truth?…
First of all I want to thank everyone who writes to me and leaves comments on the articles – I’m so grateful all your positivity! And if you’ve contacted me for help with a difficult situation, know that no matter what’s happened before – things can change for the better!
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Rising Up Into Twin Flame Love
The end of October is set to be eventful, particularly with Venus interacting with Neptune (a challenge between the “real” and “unreal”) between the 24th-26th and on the 26th we have a high impact sextile between Venus and Jupiter, with a simultaneous square to the Node.
This last one is an interesting energy current. We’re now set to be dealing with the Twin Flames’ desire to reach up above and into idealism, celebrating the power of love – but being challenged unpleasantly by humanity as a collective…
Skeptics might seem to be all around right now, either as residue of other people’s opinions in your own mind or through actual people putting blocks on your excitement, pointing out flaws and using “realism” against you.
Dealing With Skeptics on the Twin Flame Path
Most Twins experience this on their path – the dour face of skepticism and “realism” saying “it’s impossible”, “you’re imagining it”, “love isn’t real” and so on.
Even if you don’t hear this from an outside person right now, expect these kinds of thoughts – the old 3D patterns and even low vibration influence from spiritual parasites (learn more about this here) – to rear their ugly heads.
Spirit’s advice is to go within. If others are positioning themselves against your happiness or hopes, simply choose not to listen. It’s your journey, and not everyone will understand. It is not their right to judge.
Go within and connect with your soul’s truth and your guidance team’s support and love instead. They know you, they understand the Twin Flame journey and they know the truth – love is always real, and you have what it takes to be happy and experience love beyond what other people even dreamed of.
Allow the higher vibrational energies and the resonance of truth to carry you back up if things feel challenging right now.
The Truth About Realism
Spirit shows us that realism the way human beings operate is actually untruthful. It’s based in old experiences by other people. An agreed upon belief that it’s often not possible for good things to happen and that we better shield ourselves from disappointment by opting out of hope and faith.
The truth is, it’s just as unlikely for the “worst case scenarios” to happen as “best case scenarios” – it’s just that people have collectively agreed that negativity is to be expected. As co-creators of our life experience, this can be severely limiting and it’s not truthful. Negativity is no more likely than positivity.
When you learn to listen to your intuition and clear your energy of any congestion, you can literally feel the difference between truth and lies/illusions.
You can go here to read more about how to deal with out and out sabotage, jealousy and negative influence from outsiders on the Twin Flame path, something Twins contact me about every single week…
Keep in mind if your energy connection with your Twin is congested, it often feels like things aren’t going very well and like you’re growing apart even when you’re not. It’s because of the congestion.
We go through clearing the Twin Flame connections between you – and more – in this comprehensive Complete Harmony Healing for Twin Flames. Again, becoming familiar with how energy works and clearing negative baggage and others’ influence out of your space can work “miracles”.
Finding a New Compass for the Journey
Twin Flame Love is truth. Always. Arguments or humanity’s stories about justifying conflict, on the other hand, are based in low vibration energies. These are always rooted in “lies” – meaning, they’re not what they claim to be.
For Twin Flames, opposition is always based in illusion.
Tune into the energy of someone’s skepticism, and you’ll find past disappointment.
Tune into compulsive lust and you’ll find an inner sense of emptiness desperately trying to be filled.
There is always a motivation behind negativity – a deep seated fear.
Love, on the other hand, is free. Energetically pure. Try experimenting with these things yourself. You can literally tune into the energy of things and people.
A Simple Yet Powerful Intuition Exercise
Try it right now. Visualize a basement, damp stone walls and barely any light. A dusty window up high on a wall, a locked door, some chains along the corner of the floor. What feeling do you get? Most likely a heavy one, constrictive.
Something is wrong. Limitation.
Now, visualize a sunny meadow full of blooming flowers and birds singing. What feeling do you get? Most likely a positive, light one.
Relaxation. All is well.
You can use your intuition to know the truth about things once you learn to listen to it. To listen and tune into your intuition, it’s imperative to quiet your mind and clear out congestion. To be in touch with your intuition, clearing your energy and meditating regularly is very powerful.
If we’re busy thinking, analyzing there’s no room for intuition to come forth.
And if you find it tricky to focus when meditating, try my Free Deep Alpha Level Guided Meditation for Twin Flames here to get you going.
The Difference Between Intuition and Fear
An interesting side note is, fear energies can often cloud our intuition. Often people tell us to follow the gut feeling.
But the truth is our “gut feeling” isn’t our intuition, because it’s fear based. Fear is based in past experience and embedded beliefs – whereas intuition deals with literally tapping into the energy of something and knowing what awaits “down that road”.
True intuition is about reading the energy of situations and people, not about reacting to fear.
If you get a weird vibe from someone’s eyes – that’s your intuition. Your spirit telling you, this person isn’t good for you.
If you stand at the edge of a 33rd floor balcony and feel yucky when you look down – that’s physical body fear. Programmed genetically.
Fear can be deceptive, but energy never lies. If someone is sad, you’ll feel it even if they tell you they’re happy.
If someone is lying to you, you can feel it even if they’re telling you something else… When your own energy is clear enough, you can literally know the truth about anything.
To get in tune with your intuition, clear your energy and learn how to avoid all the confusion, stress and struggle of the Twin Flame path, go here for my Complete Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames. There’s even a tool to make any soul (living or non-physical) tell you the truth about anything!
Karmic Lessons Rising
October 29th sees a rare and highly significant love event: Venus conjunct Saturn. The classic marriage and proposal date in astrology. Saturn/Venus interactions stand for commitment for the long term, reliability and loyalty – and this is a strong indication now.
In traditional astrology, this would be a highly advisable time to get married or engaged – as it would support a long and faithful marriage.
However, Saturn also deals with past life experiences and is the “karmic taskmaster” of the zodiac. The downside of his influence is heaviness, depression and a pressure to cut what’s redundant and to “slim down” for an easier journey onward.
If you’re feeling low right now, especially feeling as if there’s no hope for your Twin journey, spirit is showing me – this has to do with karma. It’s being highlighted now so that you can clear it for good and open up your path for the future.
Past life experiences are coming up for resolution to help you experience more joyous love and smoother relationships.
Most people are living their karmic cycles over and over – repeating patterns of ancestors and past experiences. We Twin Flames and Lightworkers are fortunate to have this shown up for us so we can step off the “wheel” and create our own destiny.
True clearing of Karma is one of the most transformational things I’ve experienced on this journey – it’s the deepest form of energy clearing I know and it can literally change things overnight.
Reincarnation and Relationships
Right now Jupiter is also in the house of marriage and relationships, interacting with the Saturn/Venus conjunction. This is an amazing time to clear up old karmic debt to open up to harmony – the universe is supporting you in this right now!
Especially love related karma based in abandonment, betrayal and heartbreak from the past, or remaining cords of attachment to past lovers. Most Twin Flames have shared past incarnations together and we carry baggage from these experiences.
Repeated cycles of Running and Separation are for Twin Flames nearly always caused by traumatic experiences of hurt and betrayal from either childhood or past lives.
To learn more about karma and how it can impact the Twin Flame journey, have a look at how I experienced this – and discover simple yet powerful tools to put the past away for good here (we go through clearing cords to past lovers in both the energy sessions for Twin Flames and in the complete harmony healing).
New Moon In Scorpio
We cap off October 30th with a New Moon in Scorpio – how fitting for Halloween to have both the Sun, Mercury and Moon in the sign of Death and Rebirth!
Death and rebirth are being highlighted right now all around us. Every fall in the northern hemisphere, nature shows us the importance of putting the past to rest and allowing for a period of respite for the new to grow forth. Bear in mind that sometimes, closing one door is what’s necessary to open a new one.
Beginnings and endings are all around us. Be on the lookout for these themes this week and know that when something ends it means that something else is beginning. There’s never a void and there’s always hope – it’s just that when things are shifting it can feel uncomfortable. Being forced to let go is never pleasant.
Venus is also positively interacting with Pluto (the ruler of Scorpio) at this time, bringing strong Scorpio/Plutonian energies to the table in love.
In essence, we’re hitting the reset button in terms of power and sexuality, but other potentials include old karmic love being brought back to life, or old tendencies recurring.
In some way, the past is likely to be expressing itself. For many Twins who’ve been doing their inner work and resolving past issues, this marks the end of an old cycle and the beginning of a new and more harmonious era.
New Unity Between Twins
With Mars also close to Pluto on this day, this New Moon symbolizes a new connection made between Masculine and Feminine, a deeper cycle beginning for the Twin Flames in terms of sexuality and coming together physically.
The end of what has for most Twins been a challenging cycle of clearing up the past and opening up to deeper love. This next period promises new themes, new opportunities for love, new learning.
As always, it’s up to us what to make of the cosmic energies – but know that you have everything it takes to make your journey a happy one. I believe in you!
Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
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I feel this completely right now. I almost cannot handle the pain. Inside I have let my twin go, I just don’t know how to survive this.
Dr Voll, this week can be intense, call in the light for support. Love from the universe can help you if you feel far from your twin <3
Sending you love and light x Cassady
Hi, Cassidy. First of all, I would like to thank you for helping me see Light, when I thought I never would again. My twin flame passed thru the veil in January, and I have had a very hard time with it. I’m only 34, and we didn’t even make our 1st wedding anniversary. Before him, I had no idea what it was to love and be loved so completely. I miss him terribly. But being so young, I believe he has handpicked the man I’m currently in a relationship with, as I still have a ways to go in this realm, and need the companionship of someone still in this realm too. Does this happen? I guess the fear in me is still looking for assurance that I’m still on the right path.
Thank God for you Cassady…right when I am feeling like I am unsure of myself and the situation, you give me hope. I know my TF is returning to me and I cannot let 3rd parties ruin it! Thank you again, so excited I found you!!
As a person who suffers from severe anxiety and OCD, I sometimes find it difficult to concentrate during meditation due to the amount of intrusive thoughts I get. I’ve been using both, cleansing and connection tool and they’ve helped me lots( they’re beautiful by the way). I wanted to ask you something, and I know it might sound a little silly, but what are the chances of those thoughts interfering with the clearing energy process ? I’ve been trying hard to stay postive and have positive thoughts, but it’s hard. The last thing I want to do is to send the universe mixed signs on what I want. Again, I know it might seem a little silly, but, have you got any advice on how to clear those thoughts?
(I apologize for using words like “difficult and hard” I understand they bring negativity, but I don’t know how else to explain)
Have an awesome day!
Hi Murphy, anxiety and OCD are all based in energies of fear, so this can be cleared – I’m glad you’ve noticed a difference. your guides show me you’ve shifted a lot. There’s stuff relating to your physical body, try talking to it and letting it know you’re taking good care of it and it’s safe with you. Some of the anxiety/fear compulsion relates to ancestral energies being released from the cellular/genetic parts of you. Using energy clearing still works!
I’d recommend guided meditations to stay positive even when you don’t feel like it – it’s like allowing someone else’s positivity to lift you up! The new Higher Heart session could help you open up to more positivity, because it deals specifically with removing blocks to manifestation and we actually together plant new seeds for positive manifestation : )
I’m personally experimenting with seeing the effect of subliminal hypnosis meditations this week to see if it’s something that can benefit the Twin Flame community – it’s basically calm meditation music, with nearly inaudible positive messages in the background, only noticeable to the unconscious mind.
You can go here and see if you find something you like, this person who’s a clinical hypnotherapist has some of those meditations specifically for OCD and anxiety… http://bit.ly/2eMZpia Go to the section that says “subliminal”
Your guides jumped in to say, remember you’re an infinite being! They’re always there with you and for you.
Sending you love and light! <3 x Cassady
Thank you Cassidy! Thanks a lot! I will see if I can try some of that guided meditation! 🙂 have a beautiful day.
Thanks for posting your question about the intrusive thoughts while doing the energy clearings. I’ve struggled with this too and have wondered about the effectiveness. I use the free kit and have purchased and used the new Higher Heart meditation and the other recently released Twin flame chakra cleansing meditation. I’m much more aware of when I need to do the clearings now.
Dealing with intrusive thoughts can be quite challenging. I sometimes get headaches from trying to avoid having such thoughts. I’m getting better at focusing when meditating.
I am definitely feeling the karmic lows right now, but I believe that I will be able to shift out of this with energy work.
Last Friday’s post was so beautiful, and really spoke to me. Thank you for channeling such a beautiful message.
I was wondering if any other TFs have seen ‘Cloud Atlas’? The beauty of the love that Hae-Joo shares with Somni strikes me as a TF relationship, especially when it plays over their other lifetimes. I remember watching it in the theatre, and all I could think about was my twin– before I knew of Twin Flames.
I would like to learn about any past incarnations I’ve had with my twin, but I’m not sure how to do so– is this where accessing the sacred Akashic Records comes into place?
Thank you, Cassady!
Thank you for the film tip, Anyte! I’ve heard of it but I’ve never seen it – it’s on my to watch list now 🙂
The Akashic records is the store house of all our past life info, yes! Sometimes our guides and higher self show us unresolved karmic issues through dreams though – dreaming about earlier times, historical situations is a key sign there’s something karmic being highlighted to you!
Sending you love and light! <3
Hi, that’s so much fun! I’ve had others say the same – it was the twin souls’ way of showing “proof” that they’re loving and committed!
And, water always signifies emotions! x
Seraph, astrology just shows the energies present and it’s always up to us how we deal with them. Nothing is set in stone.
Seems you wanted to learn that love doesn’t come from the outside, you *are* love… It’s in you – you set yourself a challenge for life because you chose to be born at that time! Of course you can experience love, don’t believe it’s impossible because if you do you’re aligning with it and making it true.
Sending you love and light <3 x
And happy birthday in advance!
It works in “layers” – energy clearing is a lot like archaeological work. So there could be deeper “layers”. Your guides are hinting, there might be an aspect to past life issues you haven’t considered. You might have not realized all the ways it’s impacting your current life so you can shift out of it. Ask your guides to assist you in making the process easier.
I’d advise once a week unless something is urgent, as karmic clearings can take a few days to settle in. Try to shift out of the thinking pattern as that lets the old energy leave faster, you won’t be activating it again. Focus on something fun, like a sitcom or playing or singing a song until you feel a bit better
Sending you love and light <3 x
When it came to my twin, it took me awhile to learn the difference between energy and fear because the energy was SO STRONG. When I was a teenager, I felt very strong energy when my twin was nearby and I mistook it for fear. We were very attracted to each other, despite a large age difference and it seemed reasonable to be was scared of having this type of connection with a much older man, who I barely knew. I was afraid he would hurt me.
A few months ago, I spoke to him on the phone, hearing his voice for the first time in many years. The energy was so strong, I was shaking. My heart was pounding so hard I could barely hear. It was difficult to speak. I did not expect to have this type of response. After all, we were friends now, right? I wondered if part of me was still scared of our connection.
I meditated, asked my guides, and waited. Weeks later, I was met with a scary situation and a loud voice told me THAT (the scary situation I was in the middle of) is what fear feels like; resonance is different. Just like that, my perspective started to shift. What I had previously assumed was fear was really just the interaction of our energy. Prior to meeting him, I hadn’t felt anything quite like it, so I was scared of it. And honestly, I’ve never felt a similar physical response to anyone else since. I recognized his energy over the phone, before I even knew who was on the other end of the line.
I share this in hopes of helping others who’ve had similar experiences. I’m often reminded that perspectives can shift over time and I frequently tell myself to look within, trust the process. This journey is full of miracles, but it’s not for the faint of heart!
Thank you for sharing this! The first time I encountered my twin it really shook me up. I truly felt what I thought at the time was fear. We locked eyes for probably 10 seconds which is a very long time with someone you’ve never met before. A few months went by before I even saw him again (it was a public place). But these subsequent occasions he was in the same place and every time I looked up from across the room, he was looking back at me! It kind of was freaking me out. One day he went outside and I had to leave to go back to work. I had to pass right by him to go to my car. I decided to sort of confront him. We exchanged first names only and I felt much better. Then we didn’t see each other again for about two months. After that we started to acknowledge each other and start to have brief conversations. Then we exchanged contact information, met deliberately a few times to just talk and get to know each other better. I didn’t know anything about twin flames and really had no idea what was happening between us. It’s been over a year now since we first met. Our situation really seems to fit the descriptions of the twin flame experiences. I am married and I don’t know if that will ever change and he moved to another city about 2000 miles away but we do keep in touch and love each other very much!
Hi Tamara, thanks for the question – incidentally someone asked a similar question below:
The truth is Astrology just shows the energies present and it’s always up to us how we deal with them. Nothing is set in stone.
Seems you yourself as a soul have set yourself challenges for life because you
chose to be born at that time, with those astrological factors! It’s all your choice. It could be reflecting past life karma, but the main thing is the energies described are present. So just clear them! I’ve had some “astrological challenges” personally, but keep being told and shown we can clear whatever it is. The clearer you get, the less the astrological energies impact you.
And of course you can experience love no matter what your birth chart says! Don’t believe it’s impossible because if you do, you’re aligning with it and making it true. That’s another lesson you’re dealing with from your soul – creating your own reality instead of others dictating and you aligning with their interpretation of things.
Your guides are suggesting you ask them to help you transcend any limitations, and to help you experience that love is real and for you, so you can move past any fears and negativity.
Sending you love and light <3 x
This was helpful to read thank you.
Everything you describe I experience just days before you blog about it. Kind of strange. It happens and then I read about what I just experienced or am already in the process of dealing with. But that would be off right? Since what you’re predicting is supposed to align with the sun and moon cycles that haven’t occurred yet. I’m still new to all of this so maybe I’m confused. But thank you anyway for creating a place where I can go to learn and not feel alone in my journey <3
Hiya Cassidy u don’t need to post the last post I found my answer and more of my resolve and spirit again. The classical emotional rollercoaster, it all comes back to Love anyways ;). Will see where life takes me but I choose to stay happy and keep believing in Love and spreading it The way I can to myself and others. Take care and peace & Love..
Hi, Mrs. Cayne.
Just wanted some insight or advice.
Well, I have been talking to this guy for almost a year now that I really think could be my twin flame but now all of a sudden doubt has been passing through my mind. We made an agreement to not be together now that maybe it’s the wrong timing for us right now since we haven’t got to meet yet due to distance, vehicle problems, etc. He was the “runner” at first around August, near my birthday. I am a Leo, he is a Scorpio. Call in coincidence but he is born on 11/11, and I keep seeing the time 11:11 several times. He was listening to others back then though that said we would never meet. But then we reconnected shortly after that and now I decided to end things for now until the timing could be right. I think I made the right decision but I feel as though he took it pretty hard this time, he also brought up his first ex the other night and maybe it’s still a bit of karma there for him. He has also been going through a bit of depression lately. But, just because it’s not working for us to meet physically now that maybe it could still work in the future or maybe not. But whatever is meant to be, will be. He made me believe in love again though and even if we don’t work in the future I am still glad he has been in my life. What is your opinion on all of this? Oh, also we talked before in the past about a few years ago then got back in touch the beginning of this year around March-April.
Hi Cassady, just wanted to say hi. We appreciate the good and loving work you guys are doing and are glad. Thanks!