Wounds of Love Surface To Free Up The Future for Joy. Taking a Truthful Look at the Twin Flame Mirror – How Many Times Has Your Twin Flame Disappointed You? Plus, Energy Shifts In the Masculine Sex Drive…



Twin Flames and Lightworkers are sailing out into uncharted areas more and more as the year progresses – moving into new terrain to pave the way for Love and Twin Reunions in the physical.

Coming up in late September light waves are set to flood into the “house of marriage and relationships” – and the energies will open up for more support. In preparation, we’re getting pushed to release whatever blocks and karmic negativity may get in the way.

It feels like the universe is playing tough lately, rattling Twin Flames to get to grips with the baggage so we’re finally open to the love we came here for.

Remember that energy is everything – once your energies are in alignment, your connection flows smoothly and you’re open to the Reunion/Harmony/Love. Twin Flame Running and separation and struggle are all indicators of energetic disruption.

The causes are old wounds, ancestral negative programming, collective entanglements and other low vibrational energies holding your frequencies low and in a state of imbalance.

To be able to benefit from the upcoming light waves, it’s imperative to deal with the energetic baggage that’s been blocking you and weighing you down.

I was asked to create the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames to help as many other Twins as possible reunite in love. You can also download my Free Help Kit for Twin Flames with a powerful energy cleanse tool to get you started on raising your vibration and clearing your chakras.

Have a look at the amazing experiences other Twins have had with my energy tools here.


Disappointments – “Reality” Getting in the Way

From 22nd-26th August Venus in Virgo is challenging and challenged by Chiron in Pisces – the indication is that deep wounds are brought up to heal, especially around issues of the male not living up to the Perfect Ideal. Disappointments due to “reality” taking effect.

Most of us had big dreams as children, and get disappointed as we go along. We learn to become “realistic” through repeated setbacks and others imparting their negative experiences to us – these issues are being highlighted now as a source of disruption between the Twin Flames.

This energy current is all about necessary adjustments being pushed for in Love and creating the future – old wounds have been clouding our vision and causing us to shy away from opening up and fully going for our dreams. And our expectations have been too rigid to allow for the new templates of Love the Twins are here for.

We’re not here to repeat the human drama of romance, but to pave the way for unconditional unions of love.

To help with this, spirit recently channeled to me complete harmony clearing for the Twin Flame pair, to cleanse out sources of triggering and negativity between the Twins and importantly to unify your timelines and uplift you into the highest vibration and dimensional alignment possible at this time.

It includes a deep chakra cleanse for both Twins as well as shielding, cord cutting, downloading new light codes as well as unifying and uplifting your energy fields – so that your continued journey may unfold with as much ease and harmony as possible. Have a look here.


How Many Times Has Your Twin Flame Disappointed You?

To manifest your dreams and Reunite with your Twin, the patterns of expecting disappointment (from men, from women, from the world, from the universe/god, from yourself) have to be eradicated.

Otherwise you’ll have an unconscious self fulfilling prophecy going on, manifesting disappointment every time. So how many times has your Twin Flame disappointed you? There’s an indication of what you’re working with…

Our Twin Flame is always a mirror showing back to us our own issues, blocks and wounds… It can feel heartbreaking but the key is to really honestly take a look at what the mirror reflects, so we can know ourselves within and resolve what being shown up. Only then can we truly move on in freedom.

Remember that letting past disappointments go now, it doesn’t mean you have to give up on your dreams coming true for the future.

In fact, clearing the energy of past disappointments will open up your energy field to a new and higher vibration – to shift you out of that very cycle of negativity. It’s how you can finally open up to receiving your “dreams”.


Masculine Twins’ Souls Rising – From Sex to Love

On the same day Mars in Sagittarius conjuncts Saturn in the same sign – this can be a heavy one. The upside of Saturnine energies is concentration, focus, ability to manage, while the downside is disillusionment, disappointment, hardship, tendency to depression.

There is a sense of the masculine being “brought down to earth” now, sometimes by force. A reminder of his true responsibilities – as the Twins are the same original consciousness divided, all our actions/thoughts/feelings have repercussions for each other.

Mars is the ruler of physical sex drive (not love) – when he is right here with Saturn in Sagittarius this clearly deals with a firm cooling touch and reining in the masculine sex drive and archetypal adventurousness. Saturn says “enough is enough”. Things are set to change from now on.

A lot of the baggage dealt with in the masculine collective fields during this spring’s Mars Retrograde is allowing for this shift to happen.

The Masculine Twin’s inner situation is different now from just six months ago. The soul is in the driver’s seat and the soul is eager for Love, not just sex.

Unconditional Love deals with love no matter what, but it seems the balance of the universe is now very sternly calling for an end to the “party” mentality of the past and for the masculine energy polarity to focus, to remember what’s at stake.

Many Sleeper Twins seem to be dealing with sexual confusion under the surface at these times – questioning previous habits and values… There are big shifts happening.

(Keep in mind that some females have a predominance of masculine energy, and some males have a predominance of feminine energy – however, all males in physical incarnation are tied into the collective masculine energy fields.)


How Is Your Garden Growing?

As always Saturn deals with karma, and now he’s moving direct again he brings a warning for Twin Flames to be mindful of what signals we’re sending out and what manifestations we’re often unconsciously working on. 

Thoughts become things. Make sure you’re “planting flowers”, not “weeds”, otherwise your “garden” might not look the way you’d like it to later down the line. ?To read more about “Twin Flame Lessons” and why karma can be such a problem for manifesting harmony on the Twin journey, have a look at this article.

I created a guided Visualization track specially designed for the Twin journey to make it as easy as possible to align with and manifest positivity and harmony on a daily basis. You can have a look at that here.

Lightness and Optimism in Love

Happily, we end the month on a potential high note as Venus and Jupiter – the two most beneficent energies in the solar system – join together on their way out of Virgo around August 25th-29th.

This is set to feel pleasant and happy – the convergence of two high vibrational, graceful energies propelling us forward on our journey and helping us rising up above any heaviness. Helping us to see the bright side no matter what the situation might be for you right now.

Expect to feel lighter and more optimistic around this time, and be aware that the Universe might be bringing you “gifts” – pleasant encounters, answers to prayers.
There is a sense of opening up and solutions arriving to help you up to the next level.

To get the most benefit of these positive energies, make sure you’re in alignment – the higher your own vibration, the more you’ll be able to benefit from this current of energies.

Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x


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  1. Dear Cassady, once our energies are in alignment and we’re ready to physically merge, how do we come together if say my twin is trapped in his marriage because of his infant son? Does the perfect energetic alignment mean that he’ll leave the marriage overnight regardless of his child, or do I still have to wait for a harmonious solution to appear? Please could you talk about this, I’m dying to know because I’m so excited, I feel like our union isn’t too far away! Xxx

  2. Hi Aquarius girl!

    Good for you being an optimist! : ) Your guides want you to know that optimism is the “truth” – it really is just as logical for good stuff to happen to us as anything else. Pessimism is just a story people have gotten used to tell themselves! They say your positive outlook is a divine gift! <3

    Twins being afraid of hurting each other is a very common theme – many actually unconsciously hold off from coming together in the physical to "avoid" hurting each other with getting into the "messiness" of real relationships on earth. It's a very good thing your twin is showing you this – now you can clear it! It also shows you he's working with you in the journey, for the two of you to come together <3 All love for you!

    Sending you love and light xoxo

  3. Hi Caitlin!

    Yes, this is such a typical Twin Flame thing, sexual desire is one of the most instant forms of energy message from one twin to the other! His soul giving you a message. Both that yes, he desires you and misses you so much but also to signal that you’re connected and can communicate this way : )

    Why don’t you try “messaging” him back energetically? This stuff is often a precursor to “real life” messages and contact too. Enjoy!

    Sending you love and light x <3 Cassady

  4. Hi Annie,

    Spirit is indicating you could actually have been picking up at his anger towards himself… The Twin relationship can be such a labyrinth: often what we think is us feeling something towards our twin, is this mirror effect. You feel his energy like he feels yours, so you get “inexplicable” anger or resentment – which is him feeling it towards himself.

    Clearing this energy will help him too! Your guides are also suggesting that sending him love and letting him know you accept and love him no matter what, will be very healing for the two of you <3 xx


  5. Hi Susan,

    Thanks so much for your question. Spirit has a few suggestions – they know it’s been difficult to deal with this situation but they feel you’ve been doing amazing work in seeing the light and the soul of love inside your twin “behind the facade”. “He’s been busy hiding”, they say, but your love for him and recognizing who he really is, is nourishing his soul. The reacting he’s been going through lately seems to be a flare up of old patterns coming to the surface. Overall things are going in the right direction, they say – like with a course of antibiotics sometimes the symptoms flare up on their way out, so just keep going.

    The September Eclipses seem to be big moments of change for your Twin – from the inside out – which is why these flare ups are coming now. They show me veils being pulled off him at those points, so he can “see clearer”: both you and himself. They indicate patience will pay off, and that sending him love really strengthens the two of you.

    Consider that he really is *you*, and you are him. Meditate on that if you feel like things are too heavy. They want you to know they are always with you, and there’s good stuff moving into your reality field over the coming months – indicating blossoming spiritual gifts, and things like joyous interactions with your twin in dreams and outside of the “human realm”. Respite, they’re saying.

    Sending you love and light <3 xx Cassady

  6. Wow, Alex, that’s so beautiful!

    A few years ago my Twin guided me to this story about a man who fell in love with a girl from his dream, and later met her – it all matched up, down to the girl’s name and appearance. Really incredible. I think you’ll find it very inspiring:


    I have no doubt your Twin is out there, thinking of you too. Your guides are “smiling”, like… there’s stuff in the works that will really blow your mind : )

    Sending you love and light <3 Cassady

  7. My tf&i are in a push&pull for almost a year now, it’s been a month since we started something like a relationship…he is a wonderfull person & treats me with so much love & tenderness but he keeps saying he doesn’t want to connect with anyone on a deeper level, that he is dead inside. I see that it’s just a shield but he tends to witdraw if i get to emotional for his look on things. When we are together the world stops and i see he doesn’t have the need or desire to protect himself from me, from his feelings & all we share. But he insists we see each other as little as posible, now wanting it to be just once a month. I know we’re just at the begining of our story but it scares me to think that by that pushing away he tries to do, he will just want less cause it’s to intense for him & i guess that’s what scares him. I try to go along without drama, sometimes acting like he is a scared animal i’ m trying to aproach so i’m extra carefull…but it hurts me to see he can be so selfcontroling that i’m considering to stop seing him cause i think we would both be less hurt…
    I would really appriciate it if you could advise me, Cassady:)
    And thank you for everything that you do to help us all on our way to the divine love:)
    Lots of Love&light!

  8. Hi there.. First of all, thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this sight, and all of the insightful comments and questions within.
    My tf and I met in 2006. I had two young children and he had one, and we were both leaving unhappy unions with the parents. We shared an amazing 8 months together before I ran. I didn’t know any of these terms at the time, and even myself didn’t know why I left.
    Ten years later, he crossed back into my life in the most unusual way. He had another child with a new person and I had married and had another baby myself.
    We fell into each other instantaneously again. We announced our “together” despite living situations, relationships and kids and had an amazing “second romance” that rivalled the first.
    At the same time period – 8 months – he left me, literally out of the blue. No reason, explanation.. nothing. I found out shortly after I was pregnant by him, but though he knew he was not part of the pregnancy, and has done nothing for (and barely ever even seen) our 5 month old son.
    He knows there is something extraordinary with us, but harbors so many core wounds and commitment fears.
    We are in touch, see each other on far between occasions, but apart. I’ve held hope of us reuniting steadfast. I’ve begun to read and study as much as possible, hoping to come to a place where we can be back together.
    I appreciate this sight more than words can express..

  9. sometimes I wish this had never happened to me as its opened up so many feelings with no outlet for them. Maybe I’m just dreaming that this was the kind of experience I had. I never knew of these kinds of connections before that’s why I went looking for something that could explain it. Then I think maybe he just said the things I wanted to hear and it wasn’t real. Time will tell or maybe I’ll never know.

  10. Hey, Cassidy. Thank you so much for the generosity of your help. I wondered if we can touch to talk about the man I’ve been feeling a strong connection with recently. Thanks so much


  11. Hi Samantha!

    I’m so glad you’re taking action steps on your journey and getting the program – that’s such a strong intention to send out to the universe <3

    Spirit is jumping in immediately suggesting you focus on your ideal situation with your Twin – making a vision board, manifesting by focusing on your ideal. They want you to know you have "magic gifts of manifestation" – you seem to have an etheric realm background and you're a strong manifestor, so use your ability to create what you desire instead of inadvertently creating worry scenarios. They indicate if you do that for just 30 days, focusing on your ideal and "ignoring" what you're unhappy about right now, you'll experience some shifts that will surprise you positively! So focus on what you desire, and try to let go of anything that's making you unhappy.

    The vision you had is about emotional baggage being brought to the surface for your Twin. Water symbolizes emotions and this is what he's "struggling" with in waking life without realizing it. He loves you, but old heaviness is being released through the emotional body and this is feeling like "too much" for him. Visualize a wave of light cleansing any heaviness away from him, it will help.

    His soul is very eager to get in touch with you – he's trying to reach you to show you that he loves you. If you're not meditating already or noting down your dreams, it will help to do so <3

    Sending you love and light! x Cassady

  12. Thank you everyone who’s written in, both this week and before – if I’ve not had a chance to answer you, I’ll do my best to get to you in some way.

    Please don’t lose faith – you are infinitely capable! Focus on love: self love, love of your Twin, love for love’s sake, love for the universe – centering yourself in the knowing that you are an eternal soul of light in a body.

    When you begin clearing negativity from your energy field, resolving karmic wounds and shifting your core beliefs – your reality and twin connection shift into a higher dimension too. Opening up to more and more harmony and love.

    If you haven’t already, ***please get yourself the Free Help Kit (link on the upper right hand side of the site) to begin cleansing and uplifting your energy**** and have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program, which is designed as a step by step roadmap to twin harmony – helping you re-center into your own strength and light so you can manifest the relationship and life you deserve and desire.

    Because I get contacted by so many Twins every day, this is the best way I can help – the vibrational alignment program is a clear and concise course with me as your personal guide, showing you the tools, insights and shifts that empower you and take you to your happy Twin connection and the life you’ll love.

    Sending you love and light always xx Cassady

  13. Hi Cassady,
    My situation is a little different. We are both married to different people and our spouses are starting to become our friends. I think they are starting to see the very similar qualities that my TF and I share at the same time we are finding this out. We are just friends and I am not sure if he knows I am his TF but I can tell he knows something by the way he looks at me. He is now frequently coming into my dreams where we tell each other we love each other in my dreams. Not sure if this is me dreaming or him coming into my dreams and communicating with me. We are both very positive, spiritual people who have the desire to help children in some capacity. I feel we are meant to do something together to better the lives of children, I am just not sure how yet. Can it be possible that we remain very close friends and full fill our love of charity together? I feel we both are good people who do not want to hurt out spouses. Thank you for showing me that this process can be all positive as it has made me feel so much more love for my twin! LCP

    1. Hi LCP – have you seen this article I did a while back with spirit?

      Q&A “What If My Twin Flame is with someone else” – I think you’ll find some useful insights for your situation: https://twinflames1111.com/blog/q-a/what-if-my-twin-is-married-to-someone-else/

      Ultimately, many Twins are in shifting situations right now and the best advice in would be to clear any congested energies and ancestral limitations so you can align with your soul and intuition – then you’ll always be able to “feel your way” to what’s best for you xx

      Sending you love and light <3


      1. Hi Cassady,
        I have to be honest, once I started listening to the clearing sessions, I got brave and showed him a gesture of squeezing his hand to let him know how I feel. I chose this gesture bc he mentioned once that his grandfather use to do this to show his love for him. He didn’t reciprocate and ran emotionally. I felt stupid, rejected for a few hours. He saw how sad I was and I know his soul so well, he felt really bad. I kept hearing your words of positivity and knowing this is not his fault. Next time I saw him, I made sure my actions showed that I was not hurt any longer and I pulled away from him just a bit. In doing this, it has allowed him, in his own time, to start approaching me again and in his little way, showing me he is still here for me. Since we are married, it’s just so hard for us to get past our “shifting situation”. I sense that he wants to move slowly. I want so badly to talk to him about this but I fear he will run. You wrote in one of you articles, that over thinking this TF stuff could cause a negative affect and it did. I was so consumed with him that I stopped listening to him on a soul level. I took your advise am now just enjoying him and enjoying learning about him. He is so much more relaxed around me and that makes me so happy. Your clearing sessions has taught me that I have a lot of congested energies yet to clear and its so hard. But he is worth every second I spend try to figure it all out. I’m so thankful that I found your website!
        P.S. The best part of just being friends now with my TF, when we are completely relaxed, our inner child comes out and we are giggling and smiling and happy and just playful. It feels like we have played like that before many times. It is just so amazing! Anyway, thanks again! Love and Light!

  14. Hi Cassady,

    I’ve been told who my twin flame is, but it’s hard to believe because he is with someone else. There has been plenty of times where we could have been in a relationship but he has pushed me away. I really don’t understand it. I guess the only thing I can do now is try meditating to remove any negativity and try aligning our energies. My only problem is it’s hard to meditate. I never feel like I’m doing it right.

    1. Hi Tiffany,

      It’s a common misconception but meditating on its own doesn’t actually clear energy at all. Energy clearing is something different completely.

      Try the free cleanse tool in the free kit – it actually cleanses out negativity. You’ll feel a sense of purpose and clarity about your connection more once you rinse out congestion. Alignment comes as a result of adjusting your energies, it’s not something you can think or try your way to.

      Get the free kit, the meditation to connect with your twin in there is a guided meditation too – you don’t have to “try”, just go along with my voice as I take you into the alpha state and to connect with your Twin.

      Sending you love and light x <3

      1. I did download the free kit. Now that I know I can just go along with your voice I will continue using the meditation. Thank you so much for the explanation. I think Im overthinking everything and I’m overwhelming myself. I realize this doesn’t have to be that hard.

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