Self Love, Twin Flame Magnetism In Focus: Are You Willing To Silence Old Voices Of Criticism And Doom, And Open To Your Divinely Imperfect Perfection? 


Welcome into a brand new week in the cosmic energies!

Highlights this week include: 

Virgo season starts, and brings a powerful New Moon – are you ready to let yourself off the hook and be your authentic self, flaws and all?

When you do, you become magnetic to the Union you seek and guidance shows up from within as you sleep.

However, challenges call: beware self criticism and old wounds of “not good enough” rising…

Discover more below!


Changes, Changes…

Because the North Node is still conjunct Uranus, everything this week happens with a backdrop of instability and shakeups of “destiny”.

It means old outworn connections, habits, dynamics and situations can come to an abrupt end – if they are not aligned with your soul purpose.

(For Twin Flames, our soul purpose always involves the desire to reunite).

The purpose of this transit is to push us into our highest potential, by breaking up stuck situations and lower connections/dynamics and circumstances.

The Universe Gets “Involved”

As always, our free will means we CAN choose to stay in the outworn situations/relationships and habits…

But we are strongly pushed now to 1) recognize them, 2) release them fully and 3) stake a new and higher course.

To make sure you and your Twin are not held up by outsider attachments, outworn soul contracts or other complications, make sure you deal with these now as the universe is supporting you in releasing them for good.

(I help you with all of this, completely in alignment with free will for your counterpart as well, in the Twin Flame Oneness Activation)


“I have been doing (the Oneness Activation) every week since you made it and now the karmic relationship my twin was in is over and I know it is because of this …I can’t thank you enough Cassady…lots of love…x” – Diane (via Disqus)

“I began to use oneness activation code every day. I began Saturday because I have felt so heavy for many weeks. Immediately I felt better. Then I ran into my tf by “accident”. He called and texted and came over later that day. I continued with this practice and still he is reaching out at a much higher level, which is ironic considering it had been months the last time we spoke. Thank you so much!” – Julie

(Click here to learn more and download)

Twin Flame Dreams Speaking

With Mercury opposition Neptune Retrograde, this can feel like a foggy and confusing time.

Dreams are set to be extra active and full of messages.

It may at times feel like change is happening FOR you. That you are somehow an observer – this is your soul and the universe manoeuvring on your behalf.

Synchronicities and signs will be seeking to guide you – both to show up blocks so you can clear them, and to show you the guided steps forward.

Old Masks Dropping

It can be a time where you feel like making big changes happen in your life to follow your dreams, or feel inspired and guided to shake things up.

This has been going on for a few weeks already.

What are you being asked to change? What is it time to leave behind? Including perspectives, habits, thoughts and emotions?

What outworn ways of seeing YOURSELF are you being asked to leave behind, says spirit?

When you release the old limitations, the higher “version” of your life and Twin Flame connection can show up.

Feel Under Scrutiny?

This might sound easier than it is, however.

Virgo season begins on August 22nd, and the cosmic atmosphere changes from the exuberance and passion of Leo into a mood of perfectionism and service.

Virgo’s biggest shadow is criticism and lack of self love.

This coming month, you may have to work harder on being kind to yourself, and being a bit easier on yourself and others.

It will also tend to highlight old wounds around being told or shown that you weren’t “good enough”.


Problems Come When…

Needless to say, this can put a dampener on the Twin Flame connection from both sides. Be deliberate in self love practices and don’t go scanning for problems with your counterpart.

Lessons of forgiveness will likely come up. (Get help with this here).

The blessing of Virgo season is that it helps us sort out practical matters, find out what is wrong or missing in our lives and work to correct it, and more.

But for love, it tends to bring a controlling, closed-off tendency.

Looking For An Apology?

With Mercury also in Virgo, opposite Neptune Retrograde, unfortunately it will likely not be easy. The Virgo focus on perfection and “right/wrong”, is being challenged.

It could be you have been looking for a specific solution in the 3D such as an apology from your counterpart, before moving on…

But you have been guided to forgive, so you demonstrate unconditional love.


Or it could be that you’ve been focusing a lot on the ABSENCE of your Twin Flame (or your ideal situation) in the 3D physical…

When your guidance has been trying to show you to focus on their spiritual, eternal, unconditionally loving presence – so you call in that love also in the “3D”.

In short, there is a challenge in how you’ve been perceiving or thinking about things.

Unconditional Love

As Neptune rules the collective unconscious, it involves cultural perspectives on love.

You are being asked to release any rigid perceptions and “rules” – and open to the unconditional love that is there for you if you just ALLOW it.

If you go to your heart, instead of your mind.

It will help break open your entire connection.

It’s not about going there in your MIND or controlling it, the way Mercury in Virgo wants to.
It’s about opening up. Allowing unconditional eternal love to be FELT by releasing control.

(To experience that unconditional love with your Twin’s higher self guiding you through it, so you can anchor it in to the 3D physical together, go here.)

Previous Guidance

Neptune retrograde shows us, this is not new guidance.

You have been guided for some time, to release any focus on “problems” or “lack” in the 3D physical, in order to open to love.

Because love IS always working to reach you.

Pay attention. Whenever Neptune is strongly involved, sleep and dreams are key.

You may notice feeling extra tired during this time, or having meaningful dreams about past relationships or even your Twin Flame.

This is working to show you any places you have blocked love, have been too critical of yourself – or important messages from your Twin.


Self Perception Detox

This whole week we also have a trine from Mercury to Pluto, which adds to this tendency.

Spirit shows us that (self) criticism and judgment is a DEEP block for Twin Flames.

In short, it causes an energetic deflection to love. Because it’s aligned with “this is not worthy/good enough” or “I am not worthy/good enough”.

If you have been operating with this common pattern on any level, it’s crucial that you clear it to open to love. Because otherwise it is silently deflecting the togetherness you want.


Spirit highlights childhood as the root cause. If someone is often criticized in childhood, or felt that they had to EARN love, this causes big issues in the Twin Flame connection.

Because the Twin Flame connection is all about the soul – the authentic self.

When we can love ourselves, flaws and gifts, and every perfectly imperfect part of ourselves, is when we are magnetic to unity.

Twin Flame Triggers

People can get touchy when Pluto is involved, especially when retrograde. Any conflicts you experience right now are rooted in childhood, not the present.

If your Twin Flame “acts up”, it’s due to this. It’s not you, it’s not the here and now.

It’s their childhood programming and attachment trauma expressing itself. (You can help them with this here)

Uranus Retrograde

On August 24th, Uranus turns retrograde in conjunction with the North Node.

It’s a time where you get to reconsider, go within and become conscious of which path you want to take and why – and how things have gone in the past.

For Twin Flames it will deal with love path turned “inward”, in other words, self love and the “inner” Twin Flame connection of the soul and unconscious.

In short, it moves the focus from outer 3D reality shifts in the connection, to the inner plane. Encouraging you to love YOURSELF unconditionally.

So you are an effortless match to “OUTER” love and unity with your counterpart.

New Moon in Virgo

The New Moon in Virgo on the 27th asks you to “let yourself off the hook” and accept yourself for who you are.

We’re shown that so many have had their energy and effort tied up in “trying” to be good enough and to reach some level of perfection – so they haven’t moved forward.

Resolve to unapologetically accept yourself, (perceived) flaws and all.
When you do, it helps make you magnetic to your counterpart.

Unapologetic Authenticity

Yes, make progress. Yes, reach into your potential. Yes, have discipline.

Yes, work to get to your goals (it will be easier with Virgo’s “can-do” energy on your side).

But don’t judge yourself for any “shortcomings”. Don’t berate or criticize yourself.

Spirit’s words are, if you can release negative self talk and critical focus, you will move forward at warp speed.

Soul Strengthening 

This is important work, as love can feel challenged this week.

When Venus squares Uranus R/North Node late this week, you might feel like your connection isn’t going anywhere.

Like the same frustrations are still around and “nothing is getting better” – but the lesson is to change your approach. Change how you view your Twin Flame, if there have been problems.

How? When you focus on their soul and their highest self, they BECOME more and more that version of self.

Don’t make the mistake of focusing only on their lacks or problems, because for Twins it strongly keeps things stuck. (Read more here)


This transit can indicate temporary disagreements/breakups or challenges in the connection, especially based in seeing things differently.

Freedom is a big factor, and if your counterpart feels smothered or that you don’t encourage their dreams, it could cause problems. 

With the Sun also square Mars, it’s likely the Masculine Twin is the one lashing out or seeking away. Above all, Ego can get triggered.


The thing is, they are only too aware of their own short-comings. So the risk is if you trigger this, or point out flaws.

Be aware of how you speak, because Pluto R in opposition also means you are “too good” at knowing just what to say to hurt them most right now (if you wanted to).

Work to see the soul instead of the fragile Ego that is so afraid of wounding. And remember, their highest self is there the whole time, wanting to express.

Wishing? Hoping?

On the 28th Venus moves into opposition with Saturn.

It brings practicality to love, and can create heaviness. You could feel that love is “missing”/out of reach or that people are being cold.

This tends to be a downhearted transit, but you can use it to your advantage. It could mean Saturn is looking to “teach” you something (it usually does).

Have you considered the long term perspective? If you haven’t, what about figuring that out and actually taking action to make sure things work out?

Rather than just HOPING and WISHING?

Taking Action

And regarding your dreams and goals: are you just hoping and wishing? Or are you taking consistent action to make them come to fruition?

Saturn Retrograde says: if you haven’t been taking action or approached love and your goals pragmatically in the past, you’re likely frustrated that things haven’t worked out.

Really, this is a reminder to change gears. To not be passive, but commit to your own future and yourself.

(This is a form of self love that many forget).

Momentum Shifting

It may seem hard to get going, but once you do, you will realize how fast things can improve once you are an active participant, taking the RIGHT steps!

One easy way to start changing your Twin Flame momentum for the better, is to use the 12 minute Free Twin Flame Session here, to open your connection to light and cleanse out any blocks or old hurt between you.

This has changed the dynamic between so many Twins I hear from, often literally overnight. And it’s so easy to do. 12 guided minutes where all you have to do is listen along for the benefits.

(For deeper work, go here)


Balancing Acts

Saturn tends to bring up your fears and worries about the future, so keep this in mind. If you feel pessimistic and down late this week, know that it’s temporary.

Do your best to treat it as a reminder to take action, so you make sure your future turns out as amazingly as you WANT it to!

This is set to be a week where you’ll have to balance gentleness and practicalities, progress and kindness.

Stay in your higher focus, and you’ll see what needs to be done.

I believe in you!

Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your journey <3

Cassady x

“Your Vibrational Alignment program and Harmony Healing have been so valuable to me and I use them daily. I also use the Higher Heart session weekly. Thank you!!! My Twin Flame and I reconnected again in a way that was better than I ever could have imagined.” – Joy, California, USA

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