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Beware of Love Gurus: The Powerful Aquarius New Moon calls for a return to Self Acceptance, Soul Wisdom and Inner Strength – plus the Twin Flame “Game Changer”, Union with the Self.


Another eventful week for Twins, and not just because of Valentine’s Day…! This whole week we have a square between Venus in Capricorn and Uranus in Aries – continuing the strong purging and upgrading theme of old fears and attachment from recent weeks. We are still being pushed to get out of old modes of depending on others for safety, direction and reassurance.

The message is to seek our own inner strength and wisdom. Union with the Self, in order to Unite with the Divine Complement – our Twin Flame.

Uranus is above all about expanding into new territory, the unorthodox, the untraditional – if there is fear on any level: of moving forward, of things going wrong, of pain coming… these energies will now be throwing it up so you can recognize it, clear it and move on.

The Illusion of Lack

Victim mentality and clinginess is likely to be triggered now. The point is to rattle us enough to help us realize how incredibly strong we are inside, and that we never really need someone else to take care of us. Negative worldviews and limiting beliefs are core to these identities of “small”, “weak”, “flawed” or “ordinary”, which we’re now being called on to move past.

The message is that we are perfectly whole as we are, even though we desire to unite with our Divine Complement. This is a big lesson, the Twin Flame journey to Union is not just about uniting with and loving your “other half” but to unify with and Love yourself – Darkness and Light alike. Union with the Self. 

Uranus and its home sign Aquarius (which are both strongly active right now) have a core energy of certainty – you might know people like this, the classic “indigo child” person, who knows exactly their strengths and are completely unembarrassed about it.

People who don’t buy into power games and don’t let anyone tell them who they are or what to do. Because they are so strongly rooted in their core identity and sense of purpose. The truth is we can all benefit from cultivating this side of ourselves – and now we’re being supported to.

The Power Of Self Love

With Uranus in Aries still (and for years to come, as Uranus is a slow moving planet), we have two energies combining into inspired action and growth from a place of self respect, self value and self love. A strong theme right now is valuing you and taking care of yourself, so you can function from a stable and secure foundation.

We start this week with a New Moon in Aquarius, echoing these themes. Independence and Self Love are huge themes now. To make the most of these New Moon new beginning energies, keep an eye out for where you might be fighting yourself, belittling yourself, making yourself dependent on others…

You are strong, but you might have been telling yourself “stories” about smallness and helplessness in the back of your mind. Beware, and write down some intentions now for the next month. How can you love yourself more? How can you prioritize your aims and goals more? How can you make sure your life becomes more filled with what you truly enjoy? 

Uniting With Yourself in Love

Twin Flame Union is underway for all, and these tough energies are a part of the preparation. To root out old “3D” programming of separation, survival and polarity, so that the Twins can move up into a new higher realm of unity and togetherness. Emotional and energetic equilibrium, where all blocks are removed. So that we can all approach Love from a place of Love, without attachment or negativity in the mix.

We’re being alerted to this strongly by spirit right now – if you’re still not feeling whole on your own or good enough on your own, there might be some work to be done on the inside before things can fall easily into place on the outside.


High Vibrations, Relief in Love

A positive space for Breakthroughs in Love opens up midweek – On February 10th we get a welcome boost of support through the Trine between Venus and Jupiter, which is conjunct the True Node in Virgo. A message that our souls’ development in this life relate closely to the learning of the profound lesson of Unconditional Love (and Self Love). To Love no matter what.

We are receiving assistance in the form of high vibrational energy right now, to boost us up out of recent purging and heaviness and up into the collective soul purpose, which for Twin Flames is to come together in unity and assist Earth’s own Ascension from a place of Love. This influx is set to feel like a welcome respite, with the energies feeling pleasant and light. Enjoy!

For Twins in Ascension who have been doing their inner work and clearing old negativity, this is also a behind the scenes “filling up time” of new light – when we clear out old congestion and heaviness, we make room for new high vibrational energies to come in. This is happening for many now.

Paradigms of Lack – Valentine’s Day

Spirit has another clear message for us now in the run-up to Valentine’s Day: Be mindful not to get tangled up in the collective energy fields – many people are hurting right now. Shame, loneliness, guilt, comparing ourselves to others… Society is full of people focusing (with the “help” of tv, news, advertising and other people) on what they lack rather than what they have to be grateful for.

If you’re feeling the pressure right now, spend a few minutes writing a gratitude list of all the positive things you’ve experienced in the last year, small and big. This can be a warp speed entry to a powerful positive shift. 

Remember that Valentine’s Day is one (3D) idea of Love, but it’s not the only. This is “conditional love” being displayed. If you feel uncomfortable with that stuff, you have the right to opt out. A lot of the information and energy around right now is distorted, based in a constructed idea of perfection. An ideal that’s very different to most people’s reality.

Be mindful you don’t buy into this created lack. Your happiness can look completely different from someone else’s.

The Problem with This Blog…

In the spirit of the Aquarius New Moon I’d like to raise an issue that was brought to my attention by spirit recently. Make sure you’re not on this blog reading every week because you’re deferring to someone else’s (my) experiences and authority and becoming sucked into a feeling that you need constant new information or advice to make things work for you as a Twin Flame.

The truth is, you have the map inside already. You have the wisdom. It’s just been covered by layers of energetic congestion, limiting beliefs and other baggage the world gave you as you were growing up. Ultimately, you are your own authority once you learn how to to tap into it. (To reach back to that, my advice is to start clearing your energy system.) 

If you told me two years ago that I’d be running this blog, receiving emails from Twins from all over the world and that people would be coming to me for advice, I would have considered you more than just a bit crazy…

However, as I went along, cleared away old congestion and negativity, learned more and more about myself, my Twin, the nature of energy and my true soul identity beneath it all, I began to tap into wisdom I never even knew I had access to. Things completely changed for me. And I genuinely wanted to help others.

The Twin Flame Drama

That’s why I’m telling you this: Information Addiction is a real form of addiction, so much so for Twin Flames. Many Twins become so absorbed in the stories, the rules, the developments (and honestly, the myths) of the Twin Flame journey that they end up focusing on the Twin Flame Drama of analysis, others’ experiences and “answers”, instead of going within and centering themselves in their own soul’s wisdom.

It becomes an energetic pattern for to look outside for answers instead of within. The brain learns to run the program of “I don’t have the answers/resources/solutions”.

I started this blog to help other Twins after having been through a challenging journey myself. I did not intend for you to become dependent on any advice from me. The Vibrational Alignment Program is meant to give you tools and methods to empower you and serve you on your journey.

Keep this in mind right now. The ups and downs of the Twin Flame journey aren’t meant to be all you ever experience in life. You are here to experience joy, to come together so you can move on from a place of unity. 

Your Dreams and Goals – Why You’re Really Here

Don’t lose sight of your big picture. You don’t want to be just “a Twin Flame” – no matter how special that connection is and how exciting the journey can be. You’re much more: an individual who’s here on this planet with your own aims and desires and hopes and dreams. In my experience, you’ll regret not following these hopes and dreams if you get swallowed up in the “self help maelstrom”.

Ultimately, I’m not here to make a career as a “guru” or to keep you dependent on me for any reason. The truth is there’s nothing in you that needs “fixing” – it’s just a matter of clearing away what’s covering up your deeper soul resonance so that you can tap into your own wisdom and unlimited resources once again.

It’s partly why I don’t do one on one sessions anymore. It just didn’t help enough Twins – I could only help a few a day that way. I wanted to reach out to help and empower thousands, tens of thousands, even hundreds of thousands of Twins. The way I was guided to do this, was by providing a full program to help you step by step on your way back to Union with your Twin

Consider the difference: One person travelling from town to town telling stories to people, versus a modern library where anyone can come and get the books they need and want. In a world with over 7 billion people (and counting), I know what I’d go with.

If you haven’t yet done so, you can get started with one of my Free Energy Clearing Tools and other Free Downloads right now.

And as always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x

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  1. Cassady, I just want to affirm how much I appreciate your work on this blog. I found it at just the right time about six months ago and eagerly read every post. I appreciate it because of your focus and that you regularly affirm the fact that ultimately we have the map within us to follow. Every now and then Spirit guides me to search and then I find someone else who has another piece to my own puzzle but 99% of what I’ve seen and read about twin flames I’ve rejected. From the 1% I found helpful I still glean what rings true to my own guidance system. I get a lot of information from my Higher Self, Angels and Guides from quiet meditation, journaling/automatic writing, card reading and just being in nature, but I have also been shown that Spirit wants us to learn from each other too. Thanks again for your work.
    I have a question that is not on topic with this blog, but whether you or other readers could answer I’m curious if anyone else has experienced what I have. For almost a year I have had an increasing sensation around my heart chakra that is pretty much like the way you feel when you’re really excited, anticipating something joyful, elated, and feels very “high vibrational”. but the feeling lingers very long. Over time it increased in length and intensity until for the last six months I feel it most of the time, although it still decreases and increases as well. For the last couple of months the feeling has spread to include points across my upper chest that are very distinct. I think I’m literally feeling a connection to my twin through my heart chakra and that other chakras are activating and intensifying our connection as well. Has anyone else had this or have you?

    1. Dear Kimberly,

      To me it sounds a bit like the feeling of love I get from my TF.
      I don’t feel it al the time, but when I focus, I do.

      Your guess sounds correct to me.


    2. Hello Kimberley,

      I’ve been searching for the same answer. The sensation around my chest area 1st took me by surprise and I thought I was having some health issues 🙂 The sensation 1st happened about 7-8 months ago, and has been more frequent and stronger since. We are also ascending and adjusting to higher vibration, higher state of mind and hence the symptoms(I guess). I am not sure how much of that sensation is related to the connection with our TF. And I don’t think it should matter. I believe this journey about falling in love with life and ourselves without waiting for the love from another.
      But the sensation is of unusual nature, indeed. Hoping to find more info on that.

  2. Is it possible that twinflames come together for a certain time period to have an experience and that’s it. Then part away and continue thier life journey. Also, is it possible tf can be brother and sister? Thanks

  3. Thank you for your words. I think, at the heart of my struggle, your comments help me realize things are not as dire as they feel. You lift my hopelessness by marking this journey exactly. I don’t feel alone in this and I am following my own wisdom by setting my intentions for my twin on this New Moon. Knee-jerk reaction is to suppress the feelings and walk away, as if union never took place. It will only fester with the denial. I will keep going, knowing I am living my truth.
    One question, tho’, how does one ‘clear’ the negatives? How do you know you have ‘cleared’ them? I get the idea, but how is the clearing accomplished?
    Thank You,

  4. I loved this section: “The truth is, you have the map inside already. You have the
    wisdom. It’s just been covered by layers of energetic congestion,
    limiting beliefs and other baggage the world gave you as you were
    growing up. Ultimately, you are your own authority once you learn how to
    to tap into it.”

    This is such truthful and powerful words. We all know our destination. We have our maps. Trust our inner voice and move forward with conviction, our spiritual friends as our cheering session. The universe loves us. The universe is the power, energy in the horses pulling us forward….We hold the reigns to harness this power that is lovingly given to us as we align with the flow around us. The passion and power live within. Listen to that and trust this compass, knowing the map is imprinted in your heart.

  5. I recently spoke to my twin on the phone. I hadn’t heard his voice in over 15 years. I was literally shaking throughout the entire conversation. My heart was pounding so hard I could barely hear. My hands were dripping with sweat. It was difficult to speak. I did not expect to have this response.

    In the past, I used to feel this way when I saw him, but I always attributed it to the fact that we were very attracted to each other, despite a large age difference. I always thought I felt vulnerable around him because I was scared of having this type of connection with a much older man, who I barely knew.

    But I thought things had changed. I’m no longer the high school kid I was when we met. We’ve been in regular correspondence over email and we’ve become good friends, but my physical response was well beyond normal nervousness. Has anyone else had a recent experience like this? Cassady, have you seen this before? I was really looking forward to speaking with him, but when I did, my physical response made it difficult to communicate. I just did not see this coming.

    Is this type of physical response a good thing? Sign of ascension?
    Or is my physical response a bad thing? A sign that I’m majorly congested?

    Perhaps I’m still scared of our connection and didn’t even realize?

    I plan to communicate with my guides, and look within for the answer, but I also wonder if anyone on this forum has any words of wisdom that could help us all. I love the way this site has brought so many people together. Thank you all, in advance. 🙂

    Love and light to all!

  6. I echo many of the comments expressed by the followers of your blog. I don’t feel so alone on my twin flame journey. Admittedly, I had no idea what a twin flame was until I was physically with mine last summer. Since that time, my life has unfolded in the most mysterious way. I am currently separated from my TF, working on my own issues so I can finally leave the past behind me. I feel my TF everyday and am so thankful for having this person in my life even though we are not together right now.

  7. Dear Cassady,

    Thank you so much for sharing all this with us.
    My twin flame ‘alerted’ me to your message on Keen and for me it felt like a personal message.
    So does this one, you pointed out all the things I am working on.
    Again, thank you so much,


  8. As I struggle with the separation – again- I have been told that he is breaking the ‘contract’ by refusing to do his work. Can he do this? Can we refuse to join?
    If we can, how do I remove him from my heart?

    Can you speak to the FALSE Twin Flame? Does this exist?

  9. I was surprised to read that we have Twin Flame Spirit Guides. Are these separate from our other spirit guides? How do they help us? Can we spesk to both of them?

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