Sexual Tension vs Power Blow-Ups – The Male is Taken to Task this week as the Twin Love’s darker Chapters are brought up for resolution. And How many Reflections of your Twin were you “set up with” before meeting the Real Thing?
Some significant energy currents stir up the Twin Flame dynamic this week, insisting on a final purge of any past Love Troubles between the pairs. This means, don’t be scared if it seems like the past is coming back with a vengeance – it’s a mirage and might be pushing you to realize that the situation that hurt you so much was an illusion all along.
Love’s Misdeeds
As Venus, the feminine, interacts with asteroid Lillith all week on her way into Scorpio, we are given the message that enough is enough. It’s time to deal with any past misdeeds on behalf of the masculine, and Lillith – the energies of the female’s deeper, darker power – is not going to let him get away easy. These energies denote the shadow side of the feminine emerging and taking the masculine to task.
When we experience hurt and trauma this gets stored in our energy fields. Incidentally, these things are the basis of Twin Flame Running and Chasing. There is “darkness” in us all – but the lesson we’re being pushed to learn is that there is also light in us all. We are all pure as souls, and the purpose of releasing this shadow side of the female for resolution, is to clear another block to Twin Flame Union. To help you be able to see your Twin as the pure light they are, instead of seeing any acts of darkness.
To purge pockets of hurt which may have been preventing us from forgiving the past. If we don’t forgive, we keep negativity hanging on and it lowers our energy vibration, thereby contributing to more unhappiness and delaying Union.
False Twins – Real Help
How many “false Twins” did you encounter before you even met your Twin? And what lessons did they have to show you? If you look back, you’ll realise your whole life has been preparation for you to come together – giving opportunities to heal old wounds before you came together. On our journey through life, we meet endless “actors” – people who show us different aspects of our Twin’s personality and their “issues”.
We meet these actors who express to us some aspect of our Twin Flame in all their shadows and light. If you think back, you’ll remember where you’ve met aspects of your Twin in other people, maybe even with family members or past relationships. The key to these encounters is to rattle us enough to release the issues, get over them so that when we come together with the “real deal” we will be ready to love unconditionally, to see beyond these issues.
It can even help right now to do this – take a quick reconnaissance through the past and try to find a pattern in the people you were attracted to or drawn to in life. Most likely, it’s the essence of your Twin Flame in some form. What bothered you about those people? What problems came up? What can you see as lessons here?
Anything that came up in those connections, you can uproot with energy clearing tools in order to help you now with your Twin – looking at things from this perspective, you might discover underlying issues that have kept you blocked with your Twin.
Spiritualization of Sex
As Venus enters Scorpio – the depths are being stirred in romance. This transit can mean simmering sex or disturbing subconscious resentments – the Scorpio tension can go either way. Human sexuality is receiving an overhaul now, for Twin Flames this is especially true for the balance in your relationship. Venus in Scorpio’s tendency is to go so full on in one direction that you hit the wall (the energetic block and wound that’s been holding you up) and are forced to confront the imbalance and rectify it.
These next few weeks the energies in romance support clearing buried issues relating to the functioning of the Sacral chakra – issues of power, dominance, violence, sexual aggression – especially for the female.
Scorpio demands depth work, so don’t be surprised if subconscious issues relating to sexuality and power come up to be addressed in some form now – whether it’s you being forced to stand up for yourself at work, or whether it’s something like you needing to take the reins in bed in order to demonstrate how to make you feel more loved.
The “Death” Of Old Love, Return of “New Love”
Scorpio is the house and sign of death and rebirth, so before Venus is done with her time here, expect some old part of you or your Twin Flame connection to exit the stage so a new and “higher evolution”can take place (most likely this won’t be pleasant but make it easier by doing some inner work and actively releasing rather than it being pulled away from you).
We are constantly evolving and growing, usually at a slow, even pace – but for Twins on the Ascension path, epiphanies and sudden realizations can completely change the situation (and you) for good.
Dealing With The Shadows
Simultaneously we have Mars – the masculine – square Pluto in Capricorn. With Venus and Mars both being strongly affected by Plutonian/Scorpio influences this week and next, we’re given a clear message that the feminine and the masculine are being challenged to deal with buried negativity and wounds around sex and power, and to integrate the shadow aspects of our sexuality.
A highly active and intensive period behind the scenes for Twin Flame pairs – this is where a lot of the preparation work for Union happens. Earth has been a place of repression and sexual violence for millennia, and in order to get back to that unconditional shared love the Twin Flames originated from in spirit – all the past negativity is being brought up to be cleared.
Try to keep this in mind with any issues that crop up now – could this be an expression of past negativity being released? Remember we are the genetic result of thousands of generations of human beings’ energy – we are carrying the collective energies of fear, survival, power abuse. This is an intensive time but the result will be increased freedom both emotionally and sexually for those who learn the lessons and clear the negativity.
This is all about spiritualization of sexuality, where the feminine and masculine energies are in harmony rather than in battle trying to outpower and outwield each other. This necessary restart is reinforced also by the New Moon in Sagittarius on December 11th, signalling the start of a brand new cycle.
You’re the Master of Your Journey
Remember that we always have Free Will on our Journey – no one will release things for us, so my best advice is to learn how to clear negativity using energy clearing tools; this will really help you eradicate the blocks instead of trying to figure them out in recurring cycles of difficulty, running or separation.
The simple truth is – the main point is to clear the blocks and negativity so you can get back to harmony with your Twin that way you’re meant to. We’re here to assist humanity’s collective evolution, not to suffer.
If you need help with clearing negativity and unblocking your journey – have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program I’ve created for Twin Flames,
Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
Cassady x
PS: The Complete Twin Flame Energy Forecast for 2016 is now ready!
Thank you, Cassady! As often, you write your blog about something I just realized last night.
One question about free will:
Even though me and my twin share the same frequency, my twin has also free will. I have free will to choose to clear energy (or not), but so can my twin.How does that work then, in particular when the other twin is not (consciously) awakened?
You often say that when one twin clears energy, it is for both, but how does that clearing come together with free will of the unawakened twin?
Does it help to awaken the other or does it cause the miracle that the other is also suddenly ‘there’, or does one twin take over the negative energy of the other and is it a more gradual process?
I am very curious for your answer, because I noticed that not understanding the functioning of energy between twins keeps me from believing consistently that I can affect my twin in such a way that he will release all negative energy as well (because of his free will to choose to remain in pain and fear).
Thank you for everything, I cannot find the right words to express my gratitude for your guidance, explanations and help to find my inner truth, my journey, my purpose. It is all so much bigger than my twin and me, and it is a bliss. I love you dearly.
<3 E.
I am very curious about this, as well. Particularly because my twin is currently involved in a new relationship with another female, and isn’t awakened to the fact that we are twins.
Hi Me,
The ultimate truth is that we can clear anything for anyone anywhere. We can clear negativity for our families, anyone who’s feeling unwell, for our pets – any sentient being. We could even clear a stranger’s energy if we wanted – because energy is limitless.
However, it’s considered good practice and “polite” to only direct energy in alignment with Free Will. However free will goes deep. Spirit often shows me that the ego self is akin to a “mask” the soul is wearing in this lifetime.
So please know that although your Twin’s earthly ego self might have their “free will” this is only a part of their being – your Twin Flame’s soul and their infinite spirit self has a very firm purpose set for this lifetime on earth and it is to come together with you.
Your Twin’s soul and even their guides will always assist the two of you in coming together. This has been demonstrated to me in dozens of readings with Twins – no matter what’s going on with the “sleeper twin” on the surface, behind the scenes their soul and guides are doing everything they can to get you together.
I’ve connected remotely with Runners whose soul is agonized that their ego self is hurting their Twin, and is working desperately to change things.
Please know that energy clearings do work for the both of you – it shifts the dynamic between you completely.
Sending you love and light <3
Cassady x
Thank you Cassady. This is making sense to me now. I too had questions about twinflame connection and free will. God bless you.
Thank you so much for this! I have hanging on doubts that my Twin will choose me on the physical plane. I feel his soul and mine already connected and getting closer and closer. It is helpful to read these words for my own ego self. 🙂
Hello. Thank you for asking this question. You took the words right out of my mouth. I have read Cassady’s reply and things are clearer now for me concerning twinflame connection and free will. God bless you.
Great question! This has to be the biggest question I have about this whole process.
Thanks for asking, i had the same question since long but didn’t know how to word it.
Oh my gosh!! I can’t even begin to tell you how helpful this post is! I asked my soul what was one of my main blocks from Union after your last post and my dream was of me or the collective, female having no say, under the masculine control entirely and also included rape and genital mutilation. Maybe that’s too dark to post but it was so real and this dream showed me exactly all this old stuff that needs to be cleared for me personally or the collective. Talk about HUGE healing for the planet! This twin thing is enormous!!! And just like last year, same time, my dreams have started up with my first ever boyfriend, that I never got over to some extent, and I couldn’t figure out why, now I do! It’s up for healing!! It’s ridiculous how all these puzzle pieces come together and with your help! Thank you so much!!! Just figuring it all out is almost reward enough, it’s mind boggling and so beautiful.
Cassady, I was also wondering as I am married, with all the clearing I do, am I held up regardless until I cut ties with marriage?? I assume that’s a block and wondered as we cut cords if that will start to disipate all on its own. Obviously, it will take action but want to do this with as much love as possible for all involved. Any thoughts or insights? Thank you so much!!!!
Wow! This week’s article really resonates with me. Just yesterday, I kept having spontaneous memories of past relationships – especially my most intense, tumultuous relationship. I remembered how devastated I felt when it ended. Then, I immediately thought about how much I have evolved since then. It catapulted me into new life that is more productive and fulfilling. I have achieved so much since then. These memories then led to thoughts/feelings about my TF relationship. It became clear that meeting him catapulted me into complete spiritual growth, despite the 3D hardships. I now know why things never worked out with anyone else. Perfect timing as usual, Cassidy! Thanks!
I always look forward to the energy updates; they are a great way to start my week! This is off topic, but where do you get the images you put into your articles?? They are always gorgeous!
Extremely spot on again, Cassady. Thank you <3 I was literally just thinking in bed -instead of sleeping- last night, about all the guys in my life prior to him. Granted, they were mostly little boys or teens 🙂 🙂 and thus, nothing serious, because I met my twin when I was about 20 – but they had certain similar characteristics for sure! I was particularly reminiscing about this guy in preschool – don't laugh 🙂 – he was such a gentle soul and we planned on being together forever – he was so soft spoken and kind and introverted and intellectual but funny, his energy was so similar to my twin. And my classmate guy in high school..he had my twin's eyes. And smile..nothing ever happened except being super good friends with him, although it was a big secret crush for both of us, beneath the surface..I always imagined that my real "man" out there has those eyes when we meet one day. When I first saw my twin, I saw the eyes and smile and felt his energy and instantly sensed that it's him..Of course not just because of the physical characteristics, but it seemed like it all made sense then..And beyond all this, I was at most 3 or 4 year old when I was "shown" from "above" (can't explain it any other way) what country he is going to be from. From that moment on even as a kid, I took interest in that country and language, of course not fully consciously understanding what was going on, but it was like an "aha" moment, like remembering my earthly mission from that point on, and training up for it! Surreal but it's true. And it came to be true as well. However around the same time after getting to know my twin and recognizing him, I got to know another man from the same country, and he literally pushed me and swept me off my feet and blinded my ego for a while, pretending to be the real thing – so I silenced the little voice in my head/heart about my true twin and followed the false voice of this mirage male, who not only turned to be a big fake, but date raped me – 15 years ago exactly to the day today. He is the real reason why my twin's and my reunion didn't take place then..causing too much pain, prolonging our journey and delaying union. It all doesn't hurt anymore and I'm at peace, I'm even grateful for how it went down – there was a lot of evolution needing to take place..and definitely, deep sexual healing, on both my and my twin flame's end (on his end for a different reason though..) I know that I am healed from mine and I am witnessing him starting to heal from his issues just these days, which I am extremely grateful for..Bottom line is, the process Cassady is talking about is definitely happening. And I thank you again Cassady because even though I do have faith in where this all is leading up to – it can get very discouraging during the process.. your messages keep reminding me that it's all necessary and not just random painful "tease" from the Universe, but very specific purging process for a very specific beautiful purpose I'm so longing for, for so long <3
CrystalDrop I use that term surreal about this connection as well. 🙂 It feels that way for sure. I also knew at a very young age about this connection even if I did not understand completely! I am sorry to hear about your past though it seems you have a very spiritual view of it all.
Had an epiphany just last night! A wave of wholeness washed over me. I’m so ready for this. Thanks again for your posts! 🙂
Thank you very much, your blog always relates. I have been meditating, I can feel the energy clearing and being released; however, my heart still hurts as who I believe my twin to be is back with his ex. I see them as such a reflection of them selves, right down to a tattoo they both have, identical, in the same place, they both had done before meeting. When I met her I saw her as more so his negative reflection and myself as his positive reflections. I have been in separation now for over three months and they back together for this long. I didn’t believe it was going to last as prior their relationship was based on addictions and dishonesty, now they are stronger then ever, they are sober together, they are loyal, healthy, I’m starting to be told from friends, who thought for sure they were poison for each other and that he will come back to me because we are perfect for each other, that they are happy, they see them together for the long run, and in all honesty I’m starting to think that too. I see myself in her but in an opposition, its difficult to hold hope as I have done so much inner work these last few months to only see him grow deeper in love with her. I really start to think, is he not my twin? But we woke each other up, we have experienced the twin flame stages, not them, he is always with me, especially when I have these thoughts, whether it be a street name, or a random pop up on my phone. Is it possible we aren’t meant to be, or is that a negative pattern I am falling into? Is trying to date or actually completely let go of the idea he is/was for me, only going to continue separation and prolong it? Or is it possible that the one who woke me up, who I experienced all you talk about, the runner the chaser, our relations always reflect your article, not the one for me? A little lost and confused, but starting to think I should be open to the idea there is someone else, I don’t know, I feel it has to be him but it seems likely impossible as of now. Thank you so very much, love and light.
Thank you very much, your blog always relates. I have been meditating, I can feel the energy clearing and being released; however, my heart still hurts as who I believe my twin to be is back with his ex. I see them as such a reflection of them selves, right down to a tattoo they both have, identical, in the same place, they both had done before meeting. When I met her I saw her as more so his negative reflection and myself as his positive reflections. I have been in separation now for over three months and they back together for this long. I didn’t believe it was going to last as prior their relationship was based on addictions and dishonesty, now they are stronger then ever, they are sober together, they are loyal, healthy, I’m starting to be told from friends, who thought for sure they were poison for each other and that he will come back to me because we are perfect for each other, that they are happy, they see them together for the long run, and in all honesty I’m starting to think that too. I see myself in her but in an opposition, its difficult to hold hope as I have done so much inner work these last few months to only see him grow deeper in love with her. I really start to think, is he not my twin? But we woke each other up, we have experienced the twin flame stages, not them, he is always with me, especially when I have these thoughts, whether it be a street name, or a random pop up on my phone. Is it possible we aren’t meant to be, or is that a negative pattern I am falling into? Is trying to date or actually completely let go of the idea he is/was for me, only going to continue separation and prolong it? Or is it possible that the one who woke me up, who I experienced all you talk about, the runner the chaser, our relations always reflect your article, not the one for me? A little lost and confused, but starting to think I should be open to the idea there is someone else, I don’t know, I feel it has to be him but it seems likely impossible as of now. Thank you so very much, love and light.
I am so confused right now! I suddenly got a wave of anger toward my twin today, whereas my compassion for him and his situation existed hours before. But now I feel like not talking to him, blocking his contact and just letting go. I confused and don’t know what to do.
Advise is appreciated!
This happened/happenso to me a lot onicer my journey. I feel like a ping pong ball at times. What I do is, I created a Playlist of songs on how I feel about her and play it when I feel anger or resentment and what I recently did that helped was a Chakra balancing and release of trapped emotions. It helped tremendously.
Thank you so much for addressing the “false twins” section! I have been thinking about this so much lately. There have been some very intense experiences for me through others which I am trying to see clearly completely. It helped me find who my Twin is and to come to a place where I know I cannot be the highest potential in a relationship with anyone else. He and I are the apex. I don’t want anyone else! In fact, the last man I was with I found I could not even engage sexually without being in contact with my Twin. That soul mate and I spoke of the way the harmonics are so similar but not an exact match.
Still, my Twin seems to communicate through masks. In a way it is fun, but I want so much to talk to HIM. As far as I know he is still in another relationship. I have been asking the higher guides to please help her find her own Twin and sending her love and thanks for loving my Twin. Direct physical communication has been a challenge between my Twin and I. I am working on affirming and clearing that it will be easier for us. I am grateful for the connection we have on deeper levels. It is getting better all the time! I feel that the power struggle is equalizing, even inside of my own masculine and feminine. Sending unconditional love has been a key to this for me! The hardest part is waking up just wanting to be physically with him. Connecting on the energetic is wonderful, but I want all of him with me. That brings up negativity, going back into that sense of needing which I am then clearing and trying to release the sense of grasping.
The death and rebirth process happened again for me as well. I welcome it now and the depth that it brings. Clearing has amplified and I am dealing with some pretty deep energy. Depression wants to sink in and I am having to work really hard to stay clear at times. It is worth it though as I do the highs are getting more clear, more intense, more beautiful! I welcome this intensity and feel that my Twin and I are closer every shift that is made. Thank you for your tools and insights!
Wow… I feel like I could have written your post! 🙂 I’m right there with you. This journey is not a straight, linear path so
we just have to do the best we can and do the clearings to open things
up. Today was a rough day for me… even though she made contact with me I was
overcome with an intense feeling of wanting so much more. I just wanted to pull
her aside and tell her that I love her but I can’t. Thankfully I have a
very close connection to her higher self and that makes things easier. She has a “false twin” boyfriend of 2 years and that is something i still struggle with at times although I do understand that she is meant to learn lessons from this relationship. The Universe has a plan for all of our journeys and we have to learn to trust in that. Scott
It is so difficult to understand how one Twin can feel so strongly pulled while the other one can somehow not feel that and be with someone else! I know while I was with every single man I was with before now I was still yearning, still searching. I knew deep inside me that I was not with my Twin even before I let myself give into the concept that is what it is. Your Twin has to feel it somehow. I have been working with the sense of NEED. I tried just opening up to it because I couldn’t stand it that pull is so STRONG!!! And he came closer to me! Our chakras started matching up and it was so blissful! What I realized is that I was tapping into a different sense of “needing.” This is magnetic and more like a WANT than a need. It is not a feeling of lack, but a feeling of intense pulling towards each other. There may be something to that! Maybe if you can tap into that allow that with her higher self and see if she responds. She may just find she cannot be with her boyfriend anymore. Then again, I may just be too pushy. 😉 It may be that this is teaching you unconditional love. Is she happy?
It’s strange, but a few days prior to this article, this guy I used to be friends with suddenly started talking to me again on Facebook, after we haven’t talked in six years. We were only friends but its silly how the timing was, with this article. And it made me realize, how much he is like my twin. Lol. Not personality as much, but the way he looks and stuff. It’s funny. I had only been in like 3 relationships, but yesterday I realized that my fear is indeed abandonment. In each of my relationships, its always been where the other person would just stop talking to me altogether and that’s it. That even happened with my husband in high school but we got back together. Even with friends though. Like this guy that just came back up from my past. And I realized that’s what is driving me mad with my twin. He just stopped talking to me and I can’t stand it! Well, I’m in full surrender stage, and it doesn’t hurt anymore but I’ve taken on the attitude that I’m done with this being one sided and if he really cares, he will tell me directly because I’m no longer allowing him to hold that power over me! And my twin knows my number, where I live, ect. It’s not like he isn’t capable of contacting me. He knows I will always be there for him, I just don’t know if he will be always be for me so I’m hoping he is “taken to task” and maybe he will start feeling how I have. And I’ve stopped trying to clear negativity for him, I’ve stopped sending him love, everything. Ive been giving him my energy to help him feel better, but its exhausting after so long. He needs to deal with his own feelings, issues, ect. It may prolong our reunion but he is soley responsible for his crap. If he cares, he needs to reach out to me. I can’t keep wondering if he does or not, and I’m no longer willing to put in any effort, because I have been for quite awhile now! Sorry for the rant lol.
I feel very similar to you…it is a difficult place to be. The physical pull to be near your twin flame is normal. Forgive yourself for feeling that need. From what I have read, you may be picking up on his feelings as well–hence the intensity you describe. Even though we may feel intrinsically connected to our twin, it is hard to negotiate social barriers in what is referred to on this site as the 3D world. My best advice is to keep striving to be your best self. I have read elsewhere that finding a twin does not always lead to happily ever after, but that there is always a back up plan. Loving unconditionally is never a bad thing. I hope you stay open to other opportunities as well. Feeling love and joy instead of pain is more likely to attract your twin to your spirit than not. I have anxiety about my twin returning when I’m in the midst of another relationship, and hurting someone I also love–even if it’s not the same as what I feel for my twin. But I think that finding love, happiness, peace, and joy in ourselves as well as others is a positive step that may help repair us and prepare us better for our twin, whether in this lifetime or another. Sending you light, healing & positive energy for the new year and beyond!
I tried to reply here awhile back but I think my comment got deleted. I am sure there was something I said that was not healthy for my Twin connection. I trust Cassady on that! However, I have to say I am still not going to be able to be in any other relationship. Not without feeling like I am letting myself and my Twin down. We are close I can feel it. Also, I have started seeing that to be with someone else I am then taking the place of someone else’s Twin… This could work out I know as long as everyone is aware of the situation. For me, though, it feels wrong to try to be in any relationship that is not my Twin anymore. I spent enough time with others still looking for him, knowing he was out there somewhere looking for me. I can’t go through that again. I can’t put any other man through that. It would not be fair to him at all. Plus, my Twin has told me how much it hurts him to see me with someone else. We are too connected already. I want to be with my Twin and I am in line with our divine plan! No matter how hard it gets, this connection is all I want.
For me, it seems it is just the opposite. My twin isn’t being taken to task (how I wish he was, but he never is). He is simply able to continue terrorizing me endlessly, as he did again last night. I now know that that peaceful spring I was dreaming of so much at the end of this long winter will not happen and there will only be darkness and sadness. All I can do is add to my ocean of tears. 🙁
I’m slightly confused about this post…. I have already cleared my sexuality issues a good month or so ago. It’s been hard for me to continue sexuality with my husband. And he is aware. But, when you say “the male is taken to task”, does that mean my twin will have to deal with his issues of those regards? One thing I’ve thought about quite a bit, is if he having similar issues? I feel like my soul only wants to be (and is) committed to him, expessially in regards of sexuality. It feels wrong to give my sexuality to someone else which is weird for me, considering I’ve been with my husband for 11 years, and to me, i should only feel like towards him. Anyways, my twin is very promiscuous. He associates love with sex. I know things changed for him after our connection, but I am wondering if he experiencing the same thing. Like, does he feel like its wrong to give himself to others like I do? I’m not jealous or angry. But Ive been concerned that alot of this has been one sided. My marriage was almost ruined over it. I was sending him love, putting forth alot of effort in reaching out to him, clearing negative blocks for us, ect. And he just ignores me. I just don’t want to keep putting in effort if it’s one sided. I don’t want my marriage to get ruined over someone who doesn’t want anything to do with me. Now, he never said that, but the lack of effort on his part says alot.
I posted about a dream just days before this post came out, that I wrote about below. For me, I’m getting a big expansive view of the male being put to task. It’s a world view of all the mistreatment that women have been burdened with for centuries in all ways but with my dream mostly sexual. So, the collective masculine is being taken to task. So I think personally it will show up but this this twin flame thing is so expansive, we are clearing all the negative energy that has ever exsisted and transmuting it out and up to love, just like the clearings we do but we’re doing it on a massive level, massive scale. So, eventually and hopefully more personal but I can tell you it’s not just your twin were healing, it’s for all the wrongs that have been held against the feminine. I remember very quickly feeling like it was hard to be with my husband and I asked my twin how it was for him, he at that time said he could still be with his wife and wasn’t effected that way. So, I’m still curious too bc almost a year later I find it almost impossible to be with Hubby and find myself avoiding it. It’s like my body shuts down, it’s so strange but makes sense. I hope this helps in some way.
So there is definitely something up this week! Yesterday I suddenly was overcome by a wave of anger. I had the realization that many of my relationships, of any kind, are rooted in my fear of abandonment. So my perceived twin has little to no reaction to this. he has removed himself farther and farther from me. He communicates less and less with me. He says he will text later in a day and I dont hear from him for 5 days or longer. I think I need to set boundaries and let go for awhile, work on myself and find things and people that make me happy. Perhaps then, we can reconnect, Do you have any thoughts on this?
Hi Cassady,
I have read that there is a meaning for the sign 11:11. But I would like to know what does it mean if I keep seeing no like 10:10, 11:11, 12:12, 13:13 etc whenever I look at the clock.
Thank You
Hi Cassady,
I have read that there is a meaning for the sign
11:11. But I would like to know what does it mean if I keep seeing no
like 10:10, 11:11, 12:12, 13:13 etc whenever I look at the clock.
Thank You
Hi dear all. I just feel the need to share something and this forum feels like a safe place to do so. It seems relevant to the forecast as well.
I’m pretty sure that last night i had telepathic sex with my twin. “Pretty sure” meaning, being pretty sure that it was not just my fantasy running away on its own. It just happened and was a very energetic experience. And i thínk he knew. I think he was conscious of what was happening. Which is quite a big thing since we haven’t spoken in 3 months and I’m the most conscious, sensitive and aware one of the two of us. This telepathic experience is not entirely new for me, but feeling that he’s consciously in it definitely is.
Afterwards it kind of made me feel used. Not in the sense of him consciously forcing me to something, but rather like “Oh so in this way you can connect, but opening up your heart is too much to ask?”. I read the weekly forecast after this happened, and i see that it makes sense now. The “being used” feeling as a reaction to him pulling away again, certainly looks like balancing masculine and feminine energies, clearing out the historical hurt of women being used in all sorts of ways.
I think he’s confused today as well. That’s what i’m picking up at least… And it would make sense, if this was (one of) the first conscious telepathic experience(s) for him, to be confused afterwards. Could also be one of the reasons for him to refuse connecting further right now.
So with all these feelings together (my own and his) i’m feeling knocked out of my center today. I’m trying to be very conscious of that and focus only on my own needs. I will go into nature, meditate to find myself again, and if the opportunity arises, try to go into the hurt that came up that makes me want to push him away for self protection.
As i said, i just really felt the need to share. Thanks for giving me that opportunity.
Love x
Hi Tilia,
This is very possible, and you are not crazy! Keep in mind that the feelings of being used is related to energy blockages and patterns… there are solutions to this – everything negative that shows up is a signpost to the issues that it would benefit you to clear. Your twin might have patterns of feeling safer to open up sexually than emotionally, this is a common pattern for people.
Consider that the fact that he’s trying to open up to you at all is a good thing, and you can help him clear the karma making him feel unsafe to open up emotionally. There are tools for how to do this in the Vibrational Alignment Course. Everything can be resolved, I’m happy to say. I worked through a lot of issues relating to love/sex on my own journey and it is so good to be able to put aside that old ancestral and karmic baggage, let me tell you!
Cassady <3 x
Thanks for your reaction Cassady. In the past few days many blockages for the both of us came up spontaneously, apparently triggered by that sexual connection. I don’t know what’s happening in his life, or if he’s conscious of releasing those things, but energetically there’s been a lot moving and going on at several chakra levels. Last night i wrote down everything i’ve felt coming from him and changing in myself lately, and i was surprised that all this evolution took place in only a week. Especially the clarity. I developed more compassion because i could so clearly feel his pain.
Today seems to be again a day of feeling a bit less connected to him to be able to focus on myself more. A little scary but i’ll work with it 😉
x Tilia
This post really spoke to me, Cassidy! I was wondering if you could elaborate on the “false twin” concept, specifically regarding the issues that arise from that situation that are a reflection of the issues that you need to understand and forgive in your “twin flame.” I am involved in an interesting “false twin”/”twin flame” situation in which my “false twin” is my ex and my “twin flame” is a friend of his (more of an acquaintance) that I never met while dating my ex. It was as if the universe was intentionally keeping us apart until we reached a high enough frequency to recognize each other’s souls. We are currently not together and currently not speaking as we are undoubtedly experiencing a lot of the push/pull that occurs during the running stage. That being said, another interesting layer surrounds the group of friends these two men have in common in conjunction with the fact that a mutual friend of these two men who has passed away comes to me in spirit and actually lead me to my “twin.” I never met this friend (at least not in this lifetime) yet he communicates with me more strongly than any other soul. I fee like all of the layers involved in this situation are so complex it’s hard to understand just how many of these layers we have to peel away before we can truly reach harmony and union.
Hi Lee, there’s actually a previous full Q&A about false twins, if you search in the search box on the right hand side : )
Cassady x
Hi Cassady,
Could you do a Q&A soon on the topic of the Twin Flame mission? I’m curious to know what that might look like and what “counts” as a “mission”? I know we say that the love is the mission and that a Twin Flame pair can emit overwhelming love and light just by being together (too true!— definitely felt this when my twin and I were together before) but what else might it entail? Does it need to be on a grandiose scale? I feel like this is one of those facets of the TF experience we always hear about but don’t hear much in the way of details. Thanks!!
Hi Renegade 1122,
I’ll for sure look into this but there’s a whole chapter/class about it in the Vibrational Alignment Program – including how to get a clear idea about what your individual twin flame mission is. Put simply, it’s mapped out for you from before birth, so there are telltale signs of how you can figure out your own particular “mission” <3 xx
Cassady x
Thanks!
Hi,
Your guides are telling you that they’re around, that they’re with you and assisting you! <3 Especially if you've asked for help or support.
xx
Hi Cassidy,
I am so glad I have found this blog, it really resonates with me and gives me hope and is helping me clear the fear that may be keeping us apart.
I have had so many doubts about our relationship and what it could mean… We are both attached with children and families that we love. I met him about 3 years ago and knew that he was something special… He was not “the perfect” guy at that moment but there was something about him that made me feel different. I can so clearly recall the day he and I shared our first glance, I noticed his glorious blue eyes and it was like life made sense, it made me wonder why I had never seen his eyes like this (we never spent more than a few mins together before) since then I have been in such a high with him. I reached out to a psychic in March that explained to me he was my soulmate and we have shared much, but I feel deep down that we are far more than that! I truly believe he is my twin, when he’s around the type of energy we share is extraordinary, I see 11:11 everywhere I go, I have instances where he’s confirmed things I’ve spoken to my psychic about, and I have asked the universe for signs about our connection and they’re always answered within minutes. Anyways, we got close to union a few months ago but he got scared and ran… I believe our union will happen and that the universe will help us achieve this while maintaining our families in a good spot, this incredible connection can’t possibly hurt others but create more love. He’s unawaken, and I’m just beginning my spiritual journey. I feel like I’m constantly doubting myself because he can be so distant and I’ve not had many instances where he comes to me in dreams. But this article helps me in the sense that I now realize he has always been there… he looks like all the guys I’ve been attracted to, I most definitely have a “type”, he is a lot like my current partner, same interests, same personality AND despite having not many current dreams… THE most vivid dream I’ve had in years was of this man (whom I thought at the time was a celebrity but was not sure) who walked into my room while I was sleeping and gave me the most amazing, soft kiss then left the room… amazing part of this story is that my TF looks a lot like this particular actor and it was right before I met my TF, now I’m 100% positive it was him. I’m moving past the stage of thinking I’m insane or feeling shame and I’m so happy and thankful for this amazing connection that has taught me about unconditional love.
Thank you,
Marie8182
Answers a question I have had about the feeling of sexual aggression of the most indelicate kind being directed at me from “somewhere”, actually made me slightly paranoid even in ‘real time’, but I also considered it might be something being brought up to be released. Your article is most reassuring that it isn’t necessarily as bad as it feels and might be good even.