Major developments for Twin Flames as the Masculine is pushed into “spiritualization” and the Feminine is rattled to let go of blocks in the form of outdated perceptions of “Perfect Love” – the aim? Equalizing the scales and Uniting the two “Halves”
Our second week of the New Year is an eventful one for Twin Flames – we still have a lot of energies in Capricorn, denoting creation, industry, responsibility. The Sun conjunct Pluto early in the week asks us to do some depth work and to look within, especially to benefit our intentions and manifestation process.
Many people are more focused on what they don’t want in life, than what they do want – and life becomes all about avoiding pain and struggle. The problem is that this is still creation.
As Abraham Hicks has said, worrying is using your imagination to create what you don’t want. So work at finding out what you truly desire, and live from this positive active polarity in order to make the most of your time.
Who are you really? What do you want out of life? And importantly – where are you headed right now – towards what you want, or what you don’t want? Pluto prods us to ask ourselves some tough questions, with the aim of not answering with the mind and our habitual thoughts and beliefs, but with the deepest heart and the soul.
I’ve been reminded by spirit lately that the focus is still on for humanity to learn to listen and “think” with the heart rather than the head – because the heart never leads us astray: the heart reads energy expertly and energy never lies. Words and thoughts can be inaccurate and distorted, but energy can never pretend to be something it’s not.
Confronting Love’s Illusions
The feminine is being challenged this week as Venus and Saturn square Neptune – the classic interpretation of this would be that old illusions in love are being dismantled:
In order to get to the next step of the Twin Flame Journey and to Union, the Feminine must give up a lot of outdated, old attachments and limiting beliefs.
Anything from family ties that are keeping her away from her soul’s truth, friendship circles that are positioning themselves against her Twin Flame connection, or negative beliefs about Love or Masculinity or even Herself, which have become blocks to Unity. These are being shown up and pushed up so she can confront them and clear them for good.
The indication is that this may be forced on her by sudden events or blow-ups, through the influence of Uranus – this is ultimately for the highest good, to get the feminine to release the old and outworn which have been keeping her from the Union she desires.
These energies also support sudden insights from “up above”, realizations about what was really holding her back all along, and sudden help arriving in the form of new and nontraditional methods and information. It could feel like there are insurmountable problems right now, but there are solutions – it just requires a shift of perspective.
Masculine Uplifting
Meanwhile, the same planet that is challenging the Feminine, is supporting and assisting the Masculine. Again – this is a part of the equaling of the scales – returning to equilibrium and vibrational alignment.
The Masculine is being supported by the free flowing energies of Neptune to be uplifted into “higher perspectives”. At the same time, there is a sense of the Neptunian energies pushing the female to rid herself of illusions of what Higher Love entails – because when we focus strongly on one version of events for the future, these can become “perfect pictures”, energetic patterns that make us exclude other options that might actually serve us better.
So while the higher realms put some pressure on the Feminine, the Masculine is now actively assisted by these higher energies to actually open up to higher visions of what’s possible and what Love can be, because he’s been “too earthbound” and “rigid” in his perceptions of Love.
On both sides, perceptions of Love have been warped – we are now experiencing a universal balancing act to rectify this in order to prepare the Twins for Unity.
2016 – Ascension of the Masculine
This stimulation of Mars by the higher energies is a precursor to the major overhaul of the Masculine which is set to happen later this spring and all into fall 2016 – a purge of the collective male energy fields, to purify and uplift in terms of sexuality, power and self acceptance.
A journey of the intense release of negativity and confronting the darkness in the Masculine lineage – all for the purpose of readying “him” for Unconditional Love and Union. To read more about this and how to deal with the intense energies at hand, have a look at the full forecast for 2016.
Positive Flow of Energy
Right now, we also have a positive current of energy opening up with Jupiter and the collective soul point North Node supporting the Sun, Pluto, the Moon and Mercury (which is going retrograde now).
There’s a sense of things opening up and flowing swiftly in a positive direction – the message is that Twin Flames are receiving extra support now not just for our own sake but for the role Twins have to play in the collective development, in the Ascension of the planet.
This can feel like the current of life suddenly changing direction and you finally feeling like you’re swimming with the stream rather than struggling against it.
Mercury Retrograde is putting a slight dampener on the swiftness here, and you might find your thoughts a bit chaotic over the coming weeks, but it’s all for the best – you must know truly where you want to go before you can let the stream of life take you there.
Use this time to your advantage. When we attune to our intuition, we can make the most of the energy currents like this – if you just tune into your heart, you’ll always know what the best next step for you is. Practice listening to your heart, not just the mind.
We’re taught growing up that logic is king, but from an energy perspective it’s only a small part of who we are, and relying solely on our thinking can actually be a huge block.
Expanding Into Your Full Capacity
If you’re struggling with decisions or your sense of direction now with Mercury Retrograde, begin at least by re-diverting your attention slightly – write down a list of your mental perceptions in the matter, and then write another list of what feelings you have around the situation. Feel with your heart and don’t judge what comes out. Don’t be surprised if these impressions from the mind and the heart are quite different.
The more you can do this exercise, the more you’ll realize that your soul and your heart are speaking to you all the time. It’s just that you might not have been listening. Because the mind has been running riot. And if that’s the case, don’t feel bad, it’s how our whole society operates and how we’re taught from childhood – to be lead by the mind.
Your True Compass
However, the message from spirit is – now is the time to start listening to and utilizing our full capacity, to use our inner compass on the journey the way we’re meant to. This is a major theme for the upcoming year.
If you feel like you could use some help in connecting with your inner compass and your soul, as well as deal with negativity and heaviness, and resolve any issues from your Twin Flame connection, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program I’ve created for Twins.
On my own journey, it took just 18 months from my first encounter with my Twin to us reaching Union – the course contains the tools we used to get to that place of harmony and togetherness.
Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
Cassady x
PS: The Complete Twin Flame Energy Forecast for 2016 is out!
More than just a forecast, this is my full roadmap to the coming year – something to guide you each step of the way to make the most of the high points and to navigate the low points and pressure tides of the coming 12 months.
These are different, more in-depth forecasts than the weekly ones from the blog.
Includes over 70 pages of energy forecasts, plus intuitive insights and practical hands-on advice on how to deal with the collective lessons with ease and speed.
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The last 3 days , including today i felt a little down about the twin connection , thanks for your post casssady =) <3
As I read the line, “insights from above” I got a drop in of insight of a question I wanted to ask today! Amazing!! I just noticed over past couple days that how I used to be interested or love/crush on a guy would consume me and lots of thoughts of “picture perfect” moments and daydream on our past moments. It has all left! All gone! Which was so confusing to me because I started to ponder again what my actual feeling is and if I am even interested which really threw me! After reading this I realize the old ways were actually setting me up for failure or cause me to run. Nobody can live up to that perfect setting and most of all myself included. It was a way for me to step out/block before something ever began. Now I can just bring me and not this energy of expectation in! This is so much better and allows space for the real stuff to flow in. Thank you!! Unbelievable!!!!!!!
Hi Amber,
How cool that you noticed this! Yes, sometimes it can feel strange that our old thinking modes and patterns and ideals leave, and we wonder what’s “wrong” because we got used to them – but if something fades away on this journey it’s to make room for what serves us better! <3
Spirit often reminds me that the human idea of "perfect" is a generalized idea of "perfect" – what's "perfect" for each individual always varies, so let the universe show up what's perfect for *you* <3 🙂
They want you to know this is a big step, and well done, letting go of expectations and control is a tricky thing for most of us on earth and they commend you for being open and for expanding like this x
Sending you love and light!
Cassady x
Oh my goodness, it’s HUGE!!! I like this quick way with the cosmos, there is no amount of therapy that ever would have got me to this place!! Thank you!!!
Wow, thank you, this is on the spot (as always 😉
Recently I started to realize that with keeping the twin flame union (as in both being enlightened) as an ideal outcome, it became a block of us being together in the physical. It made me realize that part of the journey we will do and have to do together, in particular when we understand how the negativity that rises between us is actually a blessing to heal our selves and clear our energies. Together that is possible, very well. That is such an eyeopener!
Your blog now confirms that. And it makes me so happy. No more perfection demands on myself or my twin, just be, try to follow the truth withing, and love and then be whole, alone and together. 😀
Thank you! Love and light <3 E.
Right on!! Ditto!!!! Huge block I built on my own self and us together, who can live up to that?! Nobody!! Such freedom to resonate and make that realization! Yay us for taking down another block!
Yes!! Happy to hear that you recognize it dear Amber! <3
I have been thinking about this as well how we seem to think we need to be perfect before we can have physical connections. It simply isn’t true! Being able to actually talk about what is happening will be so helpful to the whole process! I am open to and ready for that step. Love to you, Me. <3
<3 love to you Avendesora! X
Alot of your posts have resonated with me, but this is the one I’ve resonated with the most. About a week ago, I asked my higher self to bring forth all blocks that are separating us. It hit hard. Since I’m back in communication with my twin ( and his wife), we are in the process of clearing a big issue that’s been pending for a couple years now. My twin is being really stubborn, I was too but I compromised. I can say for sure in my situation, that the energies you described for both male and female are being felt with us. This is painful but I keep telling myself it’s for the best, that I am on the right path, and that i am brave for confronting the issue. Thank you Cassidy!
Hi Lotusflower,
You might want to ask your higher self to present you with all lessons and blocks in the gentlest way possible – when we ask to know the blocks it can be really tough because all the energetic “gunk” and patterns are turned on so we can feel them and then clear them out. If we ask for the gentle version, however, our higher self will help us learn and understand what’s there without it being like a brick wall coming up! <3
I've often had my higher self and guides show me visions before I fall asleep at night, to show me blocks and patterns so I could clear them right there and then without experiencing the negativity directly (clearing your energy of congestion etc helps to be open to seeing visions and receiving info this way).
You can ask your higher self right now to help you deal with these things in a way that is fun, even, or … enlightening and peaceful. Your higher self will always adjust these things to whatever you ask for.
Cassady x
Thank you! I will definitely keep that in mind for next time haha. Sometimes I will have dreams of upcoming issues, kind of like letting me know what I’m about to deal with haha. And it’s not so painful now. We have been using open honest communication and it actually made me feel so much better. And my twin now acknowledges his negativity, his blocks, ect. He has been working to clear his negativity and his harmful patterns. I’m really excited for him!
I definitely feel the feminine push right now! I had a huge push yesterday and had to isolate myself so I did not blow up. I did my clearing work all day and finally it lifted and released. Thank you for this because I was afraid I was just going backwards at first. I got the same message that it is a deeper push to dredge up the last of what is holding me back after it was all done. I have asked for that and I am grateful for it happening. It made me look at it and again insist to myself that enough is enough. I am ready, I am worthy and I deserve a happy union! I feel that shift in the flow and will do whatever it takes to let go and flow with it! We cannot fully understand this with our minds. My Twin and I had a heart merging recently and I am reminding myself to focus on that instead.
Oh my goodness… you just described my female Twin to a tee when you referred to social circles that are holding her back from Union. She also has a “perfect picture” of what Love should be and she keeps avoiding red flags in her current soulmate relationship to try and achieve this perfect picture. So yes… that’s her in a nutshell. She’s quite a handful. 🙂 I really hope these Uranus energies can shake things up a bit and start breaking down some of her illusions. Scott
Sounds very right as for what i’ve been going through lately. Since it’s a weekly forecast, 1 question: could it be that these feelings started already a week ago? I recognize everything you say as something i’ve just been through very deeply (like an acute depression), while this week i’m finally able to understand the patterns and deal with them.
The timing of these posts are uncanny, Cassidy! Your piece about focusing on what we want really resonated with me. Just this afternoon, I was engaged in a class discussion about identifying what is “working well” in every aspect of life versus what is not working and/or where the “deficits” are. For the first time in my entire life, I was able to focus on what is working well with ease! The professor then facilitated a discussion about what it was like for us to focus on the “well.” As I scanned the room, I noticed so many people struggling with this concept. They all seemed so fixated on what is not working or what needs improvement.
Thanks so much for your guidance and insights! I look forward to your blog every week!
so after 8 mths of no contact, my TF and i exchanged a message and it was cool, then for the next several days they proceeded to block/ unblock me a lot of times on social networking. I was not using this method as contact so it was there own struggle playing out – any advice Cassidy on what type of clearing i can do to aid my TF’s dilemma for contact/ energy? Thank you. Overall, it was positive to see they reinstated me of there own accord initially etc.
I’m just curious, I know these updates are for twins but is this how women and men that aren’t twins being affected too? A lot of my intuitive friends seem to be stating the same feelings??
Cassady I have a question; since everyone has both the feminine and masculine sides, how does that relate with this post? For example if I am the female in the relationship would only the feminine sections of this post be relating to me, or are both the feminine and masculine sides for me to work on?
Thank you, I am a tad confused.
Hi Mel,
“Masculine” and “Feminine” as terms used in this forecast don’t exclusively refer to male and female *biological* sexes. Most human beings have a varied balance of masculine/feminine energy – however, males often have an emphasis on the Masculine polarity while females often have an emphasis on the Feminine. Most of us have both polarities present, but at varying degrees.
Each of us is unique, but if you’ve chosen to reincarnate as a female you are absolutely focusing in this life on learning about the female energy and physicality.
Cassady <3
So, as usual, Cassidy, everything you post is spot on with what I’m experiencing. I have some questions though. Several weeks ago I had an unexpected event occur and I have repeatedly asked the universe why that would happen to me now at this station in my life. At this point, I feel that it was more things coming up for me to heal and work on in honor of self love. I feel that using these tools to clear old patterns daily, I manifested what I asked for. Although a seemingly very unfortunate event, I feel that it has propelled me to release and change.
In regards to my twin, I am having questions currently about what I’m currently experiencing in regards to he and I. How do I determine if what I’m feeling is this feminine redefining love and what is just fair and balanced and me getting my wants, needs, and desires met. How do I determine what is what here? It was spot on timing- wise with this blog post because it was a sudden eiphany for me. I feel that I went from this major love feeling to disappointment because he has not been speaking my love language for quite some time and I just realized it.
Sometimes I feel like I’m really trying to hard with all of this and maybe it is indeed just a romantic fabrication of my mind. Can you give me tools to determine what is real and true in these situations?
Thanks
Me and my TF have united quite a few times when been out in public places (we also have quite a few mutual friends) we are inseparable at the time but it seems as soons as we leave each other nothing seems to come from it. It’s so confusing. Last time we meet we both knew we was going to meet but still nothing came from it leaving me ever more confused. What is that I’m doing wrong it makes me question if he is my TF?. Reading these blogs have helped me though so I am grateful I’ve come across this page so thank you !! 🙂
Hi Cassady, thanks again for your post. I just had the craziest experience. After reading your post this week and some of the comments, I have been asking for reassurance that he is my twin flame and that I should remain patient instead of giving up. My twin recently separated from his wife and we aren’t talking right now. It’s been really hard but I think he needs time to process and to heal. I was on my computer earlier today and I got a CAPTCHA (usually random words/characters that confirm you’re not a bot) but instead it said “(his name) come back.” His name is sort of common, but I couldn’t believe my eyes. Out of all the phrases in the world to say? I asked my roommates who are in tech and they both said CAPTCHAS aren’t based on any data from your computer. If anything it would be from their servers. So I guess that is my sign… I’m not quite sure what it means, but I’ve read that spirit sometimes communicates through technology. Would you say this may be the case?
This all makes so much sense to me!
I wanted to thank you for creating this blog and the free vibrational alignment meditations, I have been doing these and have seen such an immense shift on him… I had him come to me in a dream where we came close and held each other and shared so much passion… A few days later he and I shared an amazing hour of reconnecting, he and I hugged goodbye and wished each other a Merry Christmas, he opened up to me in ways he had not for a long time, he had never even hugged me! Isn’t this amazing?! What a great way to close 2015.
The beginning to 2016 has been rocky, the past few days I have been in contact with my twin but not by his doing but by mine and this depresses me because I wish he would reach out to me more. Also, there has been so many issues within my current relationship that I had to stop and take a step back and observe what was happening… Anyways, this article explains my feelings and I believe what my twin was referring to as well.
Thank you, Love and Light to you Cassidy.