Ego vs Emotions battle on the Twin Flame journey – intense reform and detox of the Masculine begins, and Twins are pushed to face up to their Karmic Responsibility to each other.


We’re entering into a highly significant time for Twin Flames and the planet alike – this year we are facing a rare Mars Retrograde period for several months, signalling a strong overhaul period of the collective male energy fields and the Masculine Twins.

Mars rarely goes retrograde, but when “he” does it impacts the collective energy fields of earth massively because history is full of the shadow sides of the “Mars”/Masculine energy polarity – power abuse, sex as a weapon, violence, oppression, force.

This is what is set to be brought up to the surface to be filtered from our planet this year – not all at once, but it’s a huge part of the earth and the Twin Flames’ ongoing Ascension. You might remember last year’s Venus Retrograde period (July-August 2015) – this year is set to mirror in some ways what went on back then – a continued balancing.

The Karma of Abuse

With severe negativity lodged in the earth’s energy fields through human beings living and funnelling energy unwittingly into their surroundings since the dawn of time, the Masculine is directly “tapped into” the karma of abuse – and we are now taken through this detoxing period in order to open earth up to more high vibrational influxes and the Twin Flames to Unconditional Love.

Consider the karmic and ancestral energies present between a female Twin and a male Twin when history’s lineage flows through them energetically. The old paradigms were all about contrast, separation and survival.

This is where we get most of our modern ideas from, of what a woman is, what a man is. It’s the past speaking. Twins are being asked to shake loose these old templates because they constitute blocks to reunion.

It’s interesting to note how 3D and old ego paradigms aren’t just theoretical, abstract ideas and beliefs. This stuff has been passed on energetically and in the cellular structures and neutral pathways embedded from generation to generation. This is why the healing and purging is an ongoing process. To turn the Twin pair from Opposed to United. To embody Love instead of Conflict.

The Wounded Healer

Mars goes retrograde in late March, but these themes of purification of the Masculine are already stirring. This theme of “reform” for the masculine’s highest good continues on 9th February when Mars in Scorpio trines Chiron (“the wounded healer”) in Pisces.

Take it easy on your male Twin around this time – this is a big one, relating to healing the old wounds that reside in the heart of the so-called Divine Masculine as a result of the damage done through domination and abuse through history. 

To hurt someone, hurts. When someone inflicts pain and damage, the energy of pain and damage impacts both the victim and the abuser. The proverbial “getting blood on your hands”. There are many subconscious wounds coming up for healing now.

Although each male person hasn’t played a part in these old events, we sign soul contracts to be karmically connected with collective energy fields of “male” or “female” when we choose to be born into a male or female body. Meaning that we are tapped into the karmic lineage of our physical body’s gender.

It’s Not Just “Twin Flame Drama”

With Pluto currently stimulating Mars, who’s “visiting” Pluto’s home sign of Scorpio, we get another strong reinforcement of this detoxing theme of past negativity and karmic baggage around sex, power, control, and violence.

This can be a challenging period, with ego flare ups and power struggles relating to sexuality. Due to the unconscious nature of the wounds and blocks coming up, many Twins will mistake this for ego battles and “the usual drama”, but there’s a much deeper reason behind all this.

Your Twin isn’t just a “runner” or a “chaser” – they are being triggered by energy. Once you learn to clear energy, you can resolve situations like this, manage this. You won’t be powerless anymore.

Twins’ Karmic Impact on Each Other

Take a detached approach to any “drama” in this period and refrain from judging based on surface appearances, however you can. Remember that this is for the highest good long-term. The Masculine energies carry a long history of darkness. This must now be cleared and transmuted before the Twin Flames can fully reunite from a place of Unconditional Love.

Another issue right now, triggered by this reform of the Masculine, is themes of responsibility between Twins. Another long-standing issue for the masculine polarity, where we have a history of complete dominion for millennia on earth – an imbalance that’s being rectified now.

As the dominant sex in patriarchal cultures for millennia with the power of decision and freedom of will no matter what whim, the masculine energies are now being challenged to consider the repercussions of actions.

What impact do certain actions, thoughts, feelings, words carry energetically? This is a lesson of karma – everything we do sends out ripples into the universe. The masculine is now being challenged to learn conscious creation, responsible management of energy.

Twin Flames are now learning this about each other – as a team, everything one Twin does, impacts the other. This is a huge lesson for Twins stuck in repeated cycles of problems – it’s not just your Twin who’s the “problem”: What beliefs and expectations are you yourself projecting into the universe and onto your Twin?

Send out Love, and you reap more Love.

Seeing Beneath the Surface

Be kind to your Twin whenever you can – there’s a lot going on beneath the surface right now. We have an added challenge between Mars and the Sun – the old Ego Facade might feel like it’s about to crumble, and this is can be frightening, especially for as yet Unawakened Twins.

We’re reminded by spirit that throughout history, there’s a been a huge wall in front of the inner self in terms of the masculine. We live in a culture of “fronting” that can be very demanding. This creates dissonance between ego self and soul self, in many cases it is as if two separate personalities are embodied together.

In our society, there’s a constant demand for being “masculine”: strong, capable, unwounded, unemotional. This can be harsh and repressive, not allowing freedom for the complexities of the human psyche. The classic ideal of “masculinity” is a story.

The inner self and the outer mask self are now in conflict. And when boundaries are torn down and vulnerability is exposed, some people react by shielding themselves and lashing out. Be aware of this now.

Are You In “Isolation” For Your Own Good?

While the masculine deals with this, Venus (representing the feminine) has now moved into Aquarius, signalling a theme of independence – the feminine getting to know herself above all.

There’s a sense of deliberate isolation of the feminine, for “her” own good. A need for self love, self acceptance. If you find yourself apart from your Twin right now, do what you can to nurture yourself. If this is something you know you should get better at, make an effort now so your soul won’t be pushing you again to learn this lesson.

Remember that you’re not incomplete without your Twin… As long as you approach this connection from a lack perspective, you are unfortunately funnelling negativity into it and blocking your union. If you find it hard to shift out of patterns like that, it’s most often because you have it as an energetic program in your being.

Learning karma and energy clearing tools will enable you to shift you out of these negative loops like running, chasing and intermittent separation for good. It really is instant, pain free.

Love Is Not About Sacrifice of Self

There is a sense of romance being put on the cosmic back burner for a short period now while we’re asked to focus on the bigger plans – Ascension of the planet, purification of the Twins’ energies. Focusing not on romantic love, but love of all. Love of the planet and of humanity – “service”. For the feminine, this means getting in touch with her own inner self and her own personal desires and aims in life.

Love is not about sacrificing the self, is the message I get from spirit. You do not need to give up your own identity to join together with your Twin. On the contrary: You need to be as much “you” as possible in this Alchemy, it cannot be done without “you”.

So celebrate your individuality. You do not need to become a “generic idea of the divine feminine” or an “earth goddess”, or an idealized king to join together in soul alchemy with your Twin Flame.

You are the way you are for a reason – that is your secret ingredient, that is your point of Union. You two as unique individuals sharing a core identity as souls and blending together.


Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x


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  1. I love all of it! What beauty and perfection in how all of this is coming together. Also I can see all of this coming to pass in my own life. It is magic. Divine! <3

  2. Thank you, dear Cassady.
    It resonates, struggling to clear the energies since one and a half week, which came as kind of a surprise after months of relative lightness and being able to clear negatives coming up asap. Now suddenly it goes deep and feels significant, but hard to put a finger on it. But, I am grateful for the opportunity to heal myself, that keeps me going 🙂
    Two things:
    1. I have question about this: “Twin Flames are now learning this about each other – as a team, everything one Twin does, impacts the other.” How does that work? Do you mean that twins, even when physically separated, are dealing with the same negative energies at the same time (although each in their own way)? Is e.g. the energy that might stirr up in my system related to the energy my twin is experiencing at that moment as well?
    2. Thank you for this: “So celebrate your individuality. You do not need to become a “generic idea of the divine feminine” or an “earth goddess”, or an idealized king to join together in soul alchemy with your Twin Flame.” Sometimes I feel that I need to become an ascended master (which feels like too big of a task in one lifetime) before reunion is possible. You showed the perspective that I tend to forget: be complete with yourself, and I guess that is what it is all about (enough task for this lifetime 😉
    Love and light <3 xx Me.

    1. Hi Me,

      It’s all about the fact that twins share the same core energy frequency – it means that we are entangled in a way that other people rarely are. Like it says – everything we send out into the universe, impacts the other somehow x

      As far as I know you can become an “ascended master” in a lifetime but spirit is always keen to remind me and others to enjoy life while we’re here, to approach our life experience like a fun game and an adventure with learning along the way : ) <3

  3. Thank you so much! Your today’s post has helped me understand and deal with what I am facing in being alone and not have a wholesome relationship, rather being away from the one I love. My heart very clearly has recognized my twin flame and I know we came together and clicked so well together but then suddenly I do not know what went wrong or distanced us, as he just blocked all communication between us. I tried understanding and making up but in vain. However, my faith is strong as ever….

  4. Your messages are always timely but this one more than ever. Although I had a very blessed weekend filled with activities and interactions that helped keep my focus on the good things in my life, last night I went through another brutal challenge and subsequent clearing. After letting it all out, messages from Spirit came through and I found peace and understanding. Then this beautiful deeper dive into the cosmic currents and themes coming up gave me more clarity.

    Last night it came to me that there are reasons for the perceived separation I’m experiencing than what’s just between the two of us. The Mars retrograde coming up and especially the Venus in Aquarius really makes sense in our situation. There is so much interest and attraction between my Twin and I that it is difficult to understand “why” we’re apart. There really is no other explanation than that the Universe has its hand in it for our own good and it is comforting to know that I’m in loving hands of protection for my own good. I find it becoming easier every time to ride on top of the waves instead of having it engulf me.

  5. Thanks, brilliant, absolutely spot on for what my Twin Flame Union in Separation is going through at this time – good to be forewarned and aware of the planetary phases and dynamics – the last Mars retrograde in April 2014 started a chain of events which were definitely a purging of old Masculine patterns. Am hoping the upcoming Mars retrograde will bring this to a completion once and for all.

  6. Dear Cassady,

    Thank you for this post especially about the part of celebrating individuality and not having to become the “generic divine feminine or masculine.” I’ve been feeling uncomfortable with being the “generic idea of divine feminine” and “masculine”. Your post helped me understand my “gut feelings” about it.

    Also, thank you for the reminder to be kind to our twins. Sometimes things get unclear and foggy and that reminder just helped me realize that being kind to my twin is my deepest desire.

    Thank you.

  7. I finally had a vision of my TF’s trauma as described above (past and present) and want to reach out to him. Should I do so? We are currently separated but I want to help heal him.

  8. this week i feel completely happy, high vibe and really productive although i don’t feel my twin much. i guess i can resonate with the “independence and time for myself” part 😉

  9. Just want to say hello Cassady & thank you for the wisdom and kindness you share on this site. I stumbled across it a few weeks ago whist seeking answers to my TF relationship. We had a chance for reunion, but both blew it, neither of us were ready to offer up our scars for healing, well that’s what I ‘feel’. Now, just as I really understand what my scars are and how they have impacted on my life and feel ready to let the hurt go, he is dating someone else. Perhaps he is working out his issues with her first..?! Anyway, your energy updates have been incredibly helpful and are keeping me positive when negative energy takes hold. I seem to have stopped dreaming bout my TF though. I had been having incredibly insightful dreams but I guess fear and negativity have blocked me, so must work on that… sending positivity to all who read this. Stay strong! X

  10. “….and Twins are pushed to face up to their Karmic Responsibility to each other….” what does that mean exactly please? Does it mean: if they are in separation without any contact whatsoever due to one running from the other/not wanting to acknowledge that the other exists/won’t communicate and ignores all attempts at communication, the runner will stop running/contact the one they are avoiding in entirety? (Contact ignored since October 2015.)

  11. Dear Cassady,
    I’ve never posted to a blog before (seem to be having a few technical issues!) Anyway, just wanted to say thank you for your site. I stumbled upon it a few months ago whilst looking for some answers and your honesty & wisdom has been so helpful. You’re weekly energy updates are spot on. Some weeks I can sense what topic will be highlighted and they ‘click’ instantly with me. Other posts take a while to digest but by the end of the week the information really resonates!
    This week’s, very much so. I had a dream last night (the first for a while) that I was giving my TF a tarot reading & the card that came up read ‘damaged heart’ and it helped me understand why he is where he is in his life. Patience and compassion is what is required of me.
    Like everyone here, I absolutely want union with my TF. I read an excellent quote that if your ship doesn’t come in, swim out to it! So have made a decision to be proactive. I have downloaded the free kit and owning up to my scars will work hard to clear my energy of negativity.
    So working on myself, which in turn will help my TF and with the support of the universe, I feel more positive. I am worthy, we are all worthy of love. We are all stronger than we know.

  12. May I suggest meditating & listen to your inner voice. Your gut instinct will never do you wrong. If you feel you should reach out physically, then do so in a way that is gentle, kind and not overwhelming to him. Maybe a card with a funny or positive message ‘just because’! Keep it light to begin with and maybe he will open up to you when he is ready…. does that help? What do other members of this community think?

  13. Thank you very much for this article! It really resonated with me, and the timing was perfect. I’ve even started doing exercises to be kinder to myself right before this article came out. 🙂

    Sending lights and love to all Twin Flames and throughout the universe. <3

  14. Thank you Cassady for another great post. They are always helpful. After being separated from my Twin for 6 months, we were reunited this weekend. It is very challenging not to get caught up in the past hurts and negative behavioral patterns that we were in. We both know we have a mission together, however he is very against anything other than friendship and working together. I believe this is very fear driven, but all I can do is continue to work on myself. It is very clear that we trigger some deep emotional garbage that needs to be cleansed away. I was planning to move out of state to be with him to work together, but I am having doubts. When we were separated, your tools helped me a lot to get through it. I have to use those again to help clear the mind. I hope that we will eventually evolve to a state of union. It seems so far away now. Thank you for helping all of us.

  15. This is amazing! I have so many questions. Where to begin? I reverently discovered my twin flame. It had only BM a few months after I met once of my soulmate which was during my seperation and divorce. My twin and I live 4 hours away from each other and we have only been face to face 1 time. we have attempted 4 other times . There always seems. to be an emergency that keeps is apart. Is this normal? Any suggestions on how to overcome this?

    Thank you

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