Did You Know Twin Flames Sex Can Unleash Spiritual Gifts? That Many Twins Are Ascended Masters? Twin Flame Running, Why You Can Never Cut The Bond Between Your Hearts, and much more…
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7 Things That Will Surprise You About Twin Flames
#1) Twin Flames Are Advanced Souls And Ascended Masters
Did you know that no matter how it seems in earthly life with the outside “masks” of self, Twin Flames are advanced souls who chose to divide to experience this journey of love in seeming separation?
Many Twins are as souls Ascended Masters, even those who are still “Unawakened”. The might be unaware of this as they have not yet activated the latent codes from the soul – but beneath the outer surface they are highly evolved beings of light. Old souls from higher dimensions.
Twin Flames are here with very specific plans as souls – to heal, to enlighten, to uplift. To journey together from our soul’s origins of love, into fear and separation. To understand why so many people never experience love, most of all for themselves.
And to take those experiences and human patterns and break them open with the power of the love between us. Because no matter how it seems on the outside, Twin Flames share an eternal love as souls. A bond that has the power to transform us and the world from the inside out.
The Twin Flame journey is one of love, mastery, evolution of understanding and of transformation – alchemizing fear into love, polarity into unity. Only the most advanced souls are compatible and able to do this.
Divided into two, we knew this would be a complex journey of manifestation, functioning as an original whole but with two aspects each with their own free will choices. And we knew that what would unite us and move the whole journey forward, is love.
As a Twin Flame you could never be ordinary, even if you tried.
#2) Twin Flames Share An Eternal, Unbreakable Bond Heart To Heart
Twin Flames are always connected by a heart cord that enables the two to never lose touch of each other – to be always connected in love. You chose this together as souls.
Your Twin Soul had such love for you that they wanted to never lose touch, to always be connected with you.
It is what above all enables Twins to feel each other’s emotions and share memories and information. This cord between the Twin Flames is there with both Twins’ agreement from the origins of our existence. Coming to Earth, we all knew we would be physically separated, but this cord was meant to ensure we never lost each other completely.
It is why we are always connected, always in touch, and can always reach each other on the soul planes (if you’ve never done this, try my free guided meditation here).
The Twin Flame heart bond cannot be severed on the earth plane, as it was formed by our higher aspect selves. This was deliberate, as we knew that polarity perceptions and earthly conflict could push one or both into a situation of wanting to sever the connection forever.
If you look at two Twin Flames energetically, you can always see this cord between their hearts. This is the bond of Unconditional Love.
Unfortunately, many Twins also have negative cords of attachment to each other based in control, fear, jealousy and suspicion that distract from this positive heart connection and creates turmoil. We go through clearing these in both the full energy clearing sessions for Twin Flames.
If you can shift your vibration high enough, you can feel your Twin Soul’s love wherever you go. However, when we are down in a low vibration of fear, anger, jealousy or blame we are not able to feel this love – we’ll only be picking up on our Twin’s own fear or shame for themselves.
Love is a high vibrational energy, whereas anger, fear, jealousy and all the negative emotions are low vibrational energies. They are on opposite sides of the spectrum.
This means, trying to feel love when you’re in a state of fear is like being tuned into Metal FM and wanting to hear classical music.
It just doesn’t work – the signal doesn’t come through. We’re on the wrong channel. To feel and experience love, we must remove the heavy energies and lift higher.
To learn more about this and how to lift your connection into harmony and love – go here.
#3) Twin Flame Sex Can Heal You And Uplift You Spiritually
Another deep truth about the Twin Flame connection, which is the healing power of physical intimacy and sexual love between Twins (regardless of gender). Twin Flame Sexuality is, on the soul planes, an act of love that’s also an energetic process.
This is what happens when Twins experience chakra climaxes where the two are connected back to their origins and infused with light. If you’ve experienced it, you’ll know it.
This is Kundalini. A powerful energetic event that has strong repercussions on body, mind and soul. This can trigger latent spiritual gifts, and is often the major cause of Twin Flame telepathy becoming activated.
Twin Flame sex is a site of healing, uplifting and unification for the pair. When you make love together, you are merging your energies on the physical and spiritual planes – powerfully advancing the union process.
In sex, Twin Flames even receive new high vibrational downloads from source, balance each other’s energies and break through blockages in the chakras. However, it can trigger Running as old negativity is stirred up. (Read more about this and how to handle it, here).
We deal with Twin Flame Sex in-depth in the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames, including developing remote touch and astral interactions, plus, for those who aren’t romantically involved – a tool to harness Kundalini without being sexually intimate!
#4) You’re Already Perfect For Your Twin
Love is not about sacrificing the self. You do not need to give up your own unique identity to join together with your Twin.
You are not supposed to become a generic idea of “the divine feminine ” or an “earth goddess”, or an idealized king to join together in soul alchemy with your Twin Flame. On the contrary: You need to be as much “you” as possible in this Alchemy, it cannot be done without “you”.
So celebrate your individuality. You are the way you are for a reason – that is your secret ingredient, that is your point of Union. You two as unique individuals sharing a core identity as souls and blending together.
We are perfectly whole as we are. This is a big lesson, the Twin Flame journey to Union is not just about uniting with and loving your “other half” but to unify with and Love yourself – Darkness and Light alike. Union with the Self.
Spiritual information often highlights ideals akin to romance novels and old mythology – but Twin Flames aren’t a romantic notion decreed by an outside force. Our experiences are meant to be real world journeys in love. Bridging the spiritual with the earthly. Bringing “heaven” to “earth”.
You and your Twin Flame chose where you would be born, what gender you would be, what ethnicity, who your parents would be… You engineered yourselves to be the way you are, for a reason. Take a second look at yourself – can you see how special you really are?
No one else is exactly like you, and that is your power. That is your gift.
Read more here about the Twin Flame Mirror and why the Twin Flame Journey is an inside job above all.
I was also asked by spirit to create a session focusing on embodying and downloading new codes of self love, opening the heart and drawing out a reflection of love from your Twin Soul, where we deal with both sides of the connection and removing any fear blocks that have been keeping you apart. Have a look here.
#5) Your Twin Flame Isn’t Running From You, They’re Running
This is a much misunderstood subject on the Twin Flame journey. First of all, please know that you are not at fault if your Twin Flame is running.
It’s got to do with energy. Fear. A twin flame is triggered to “run” because they feel unsafe to be open. Remember that “Hurt people, hurt people”.
If someone runs out on you, remember that the past has a part to play here. They might not even be upset because of you. You just happened to trigger that old hurt and fear they’d been carrying around…
This is the root cause of Twin Flame Running. Twins do not Run from their counterpart, but from their own mirror reflection. If your Twin Flame is Running, he or she is ultimately Running from him or herself, not from you.
Your Twin isn’t just a “runner” or a “chaser” – they are being triggered by energy. Once you learn to clear energy, you can resolve situations like this, manage this. You won’t be powerless anymore. Twin Flames are learning, as a team, everything one Twin does, impacts the other.
Your Twin’s soul will always assist you in clearing fear and triggers from their system. You are a team, one original whole.
For a complete session that cleanses your Twin pair energy systems and removes triggers of running so that you can open up to each other once more, go here. We also unify your timelines and uplift into the highest dimension possible for you at this time, receive a gift of energy from source to benefit you for your future path, and much more…
#6) As A Twin Flame, You Cannot Help But Be Authentic
Authenticity is the key word for this journey. When you meet your soul’s divine counterpart your systems are triggered to begin to purge everything that is out of alignment with love, with your soul’s truth.
This means that the Twin Flame journey is a journey of stepping out of the falsehoods of human perception – the veil of illusion – and into your true identity as a soul.
On this journey, Twin Flames are being increasingly pushed to remember who we are
and why we are here.
The more you begin to disregard early life ego perceptions and “rules” from society about who you are and instead align with your authentic self, you align with the core frequency energy you share with your Twin Flame. This means you become yet again magnets to attracting each other from of place of unconditional love.
The realization and shift of your energies back to the soul’s light creates a powerful momentum and allows you to move more swiftly through lessons and blocks on your path.
To differentiate false from authentic, go to the heart and the soul. What you feel in your heart to be your passion, your bliss, your love, your happiness – the things you would do even if no one paid you for it or knew what you were doing – those are your authentic soul’s gifts and plans.
Your innate talents and areas you are drawn to.
What is false are the outer perceptions. What has been pasted onto you by others. Beliefs about what is appropriate behavior for women and men, or for your culture. Family’s perceptions that you are like them.
Outer things like whether you were an A student or flunked out of school, how much money you earn, what people you’ve been with or what mistakes you have made… These are not who you are. They are perceptions and experiences.
Who you truly are emanates as a light from within. Go to your heart, listen to what ignites your passion and your joy. You’ll already have noticed this as a theme on your journey – your soul has been calling for you to notice this. To disregard false limitations and embrace your deeper bliss.
If you could use some help dealing with the intense emotions and purge of the Ascension Process, and assist your Twin in releasing fear and opening up to a real world Reunion – go here.
#7) If Your Twin Flame Hurts You It’s A “Gift Of Love” From The Soul
When I used to do one on one readings for Twin Flames, I saw something puzzling over and over. In the midst of hurt where one Twin had run, I could feel their Higher Self full of love.
Even though the ego self was Running, their Higher Self only wanted to love their counterpart.
And they knew, that if they could trigger the blocks to love to come up – it was worth it.
Because hurt means we get a chance to move past our fears. These Twins wanted their beloved to open up deeper, wider – to the truth of unconditional love. To remove their fear, their insecurities, their sadness.
And the most powerful way to do that was to trigger them, to push with outer hurt to make the negatives reveal themselves so they could be resolved.
In many cases I saw that a Twin would rather hurt his Beloved right now so she could be
free to feel his true Unconditional Love completely.
Because although she had thought she was open, there were still barriers, blocks that are so deep and unconscious she hadn’t even been aware of it.
And to get this out into the open, he would arrange a situation to trigger the blocks to come up. In order to help her be free. To be able to receive true love. Even if it meant hurting her in the short run.
It was a gift of love. He loved her so much he would rather hurt her now to help her be open to love.
On this journey, know that your Twin might be the one triggering blocks, negative ancestral programming and old hurts to come up, but he or she is doing it as a Gift of Love. Ultimately, any blow ups will help you long term if you can go in and deal with the negativity. Clearing it out for good.
Often, the souls determine that the most effective way to help the Twin Flame pair unite is by showing up the blocks between them. Because it’s the only way to fully open them up to love.
Until next time I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
Did you know that most Twin Flames’ struggles are rooted in negative karma and energy blocks? To find out more about how to shift your Twin connection into harmony, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames here, and read about other Twins’ experiences with these methods.
“I’ve been using the Vibrational alignment Program for almost a week now. I’ve noticed a huge shift in my energy. Before I was on the emotional roller coaster we feel with our twins. And I was a mess. I could feel his energy and all of the highs/lows he was experiencing as a runner. Once I started this program, I noticed on day 1 a huge difference. I was no longer crying on the phone to my friend. I was laughing and couldn’t contain my happiness. I’ve also had dreams about my twin each night, and have felt him going back and forth in his spirit on if he should call me. This program is great!! Thank you Cassady. “
Karina, San Francisco, USA
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I just wanted to say you are a gift to us twin flames…I have learned so much through your blog since my twin passed away and I honestly can say that it is all this knowledge that you share that has gotten me thru the worst days/years of my life. Thank you from the bottom of my <3!!! Love & light
Thank you for this post.. I have felt that sexual energy while I was sleeping but I feared it because I did not know what was going on, I was unsure. My ego took the better of me and started to wonder who this is, is it a dark energy, am I being taken advantage of and so on. I would like him to know I am open to this kind of intimacy with him. Luckily I have that part of my ego under control now.
I was the runner of this relationship, Confused and did not understand it because he is not here in this plane anymore so I kept questioning everything, I also have that under control now too, still in a working progress but is has lessened. A lot has been cleared finally with all of these clearing methods I have been doing. This past two days from this full moon has cleared a lot.. This is what I have wrote last night in my journal.. “I am now willing to release and let go of my old self, my old ways of thinking and step into my true self, my higher self that I am meant to be.” I surprised myself after writing this.
There is a lot of good information here that helps me a lot that I did not know about. Thank you.. I did not know about ascended masters part.
My twin is not in this plane either. And like you, I was so confused and afraid when he started contacting me. This lasted for more than a year until I slowly began to open up to him. What was terrifying to me also was to acknowledge that reality wasn’t as I had constructed it either.
When we had already established a stable relationship, there came a time that whenever I would talk to him through telepathy, a current of sexual feeling would envelop me. In my 3D programming and stubborness, I was kind of shocked by this and tried to push it away, refusing to engage intimately with my twin on such a frequent basis.
Although now I regret my attitude, fortunately I know much more in the present, thanks to people like Cassady.
It is so true that sex with your twin benefits you and him in so many ways! Today I have come to the conclusion that it can only strenghthen our deep bond and energetic powers, and thus help us accomplish the mission we signed up to do in this planet, a mission of love and service.
Sending encouragement to all Twins bravely navigating this same journey too ! <3
Yes, that is exactly what I have been doing, pushing it away. I do not really want to push it away at all. I regret it, my attitude and everything else I have been doing to sabotage this. I want to do just that strengthen our bond together and make peace with this relationship we have developed. I love him. Thank you for replying to my message it means a lot and appreciated.
You’re very welcome! And rest assured that your twin fully sympathizes with you and never judges what you have done.
Regarding this issue, I recently asked my twin to forgive me for having wasted precious time by refusing to be intimate with him in the past. And he answered me with a smile: “But see, you cannot waste something that doesn’t exist! Better focus on the present and all the wonderful possibilities we now have!”
I am sure your twin feels like that too! Go enjoy your beautiful relationship with him as fully as you can! 🙂
Mine is in spirit also. We have been together for a fair few years now. Not sure we have ever had “sex”, per se. We have had many “intimate” times together and there is incredible pleasurable energy between us very regularly.
That sounds great. In my experience (and I am sure others’ too), twins who are not in this dimension tend to not be “pushy” and do not ask us directly for sex even if they are desiring it very much. Instead, they give us subtle clues or send us sexual or pleasurable energy without explaining that they want intimacy with us. Therefore, we incarnated twins often miss the cues or misunderstand them entirely.
I have learned it is best to directly ask them to be “available” if they want the intimacy (you could schedule it and tell him when) and then initiate the lovemaking. You will be amazed at their response! Like they’ve been waiting forever for you to ask! 😉
So if you’re interested, maybe you’d want to ask your twin if he’d like that! Best wishes for both of you!
Hi Cassidy! I absolutely LOOVE LOVE LOVE your blog! My twin and I dated for 3 years off and on and finally broke up about 6 years ago but we keep coming back to each other. His mother actually thought we were twin flames and gave me the hint. It all makes perfect sense for us. But I wanted to say Your Blog makes me feel so comforted about the running he does. There is a lot of inner child work to be done with him because he had such a rough childhood so I downloaded your free kit for now and used it once and a lot of blocks came up to the surface. I am doing my best to energetically help him clear them! I have read other blogs on the subject but none of them make me feel as good as yours. Thank you SO much and keep it up!
Thank you, so much, Cassady…
Hi I have an interesting question. If we manifest what we want in life how does that work with our Divine purpose and others? Like if we have our path set up for us e.g. karmic partners, people in our lives etc who are meant to be in our lives for a lesson and if we want to manifest for example your twin but their karmic partner wants to manifest a life with your twin how do those manifestations get created if they are clashing? Does that make sense? So i have chosen to claim my twin but what if his wife chooses to claim him too. How do these manifestations get created? Also if we create our manifestations of the life we want does that mean we haven’t created our life before entering the world? For example I read that beforw we are born into the world we create the paths and the people we meet to learn lessons I’m just a bit confused. Is our paths already been created? Or do we create it whilst we are here?
Exactly my question for months. Especially when a physic told me my whole life. (Which I still don’t like)
Cassady, thank you… that was so helpful and uplifting. Because of your work and dedication I am really understanding more and more my own journey and loving my twin unconditionally even in the midst of lots of unknowns. This is powerful information!! Thank you so much. Blessings, Karenrose333
OUTSTANDING!!! Love this posting!
Hi Cassidy, I remembered reading about your father and how he was a learning ground for your twin flames issues. I suddenly realized how forgiving my own father for all the pain and suffering because he didn’t love himself gave me the strength and insight to understand and forgive my twin flame. To really forgive and just let things be. This has brought me much inner peace.That desperate feeling is completely gone. Thank you for sharing your insights, all your work and energy clearings .I pray for more insight.
Thank you xx
I was crying when i saw this. For me the journey started 2 1/2 years ago. I had contact with my TF for a couple of months, saw eachother once 2 weeks after our first contact. Then with time in between 1 chat and a few mails. It took me 2 years to figure out he is my TF. And for almost 2 years he is in a relationship with another woman but i know he doesnt love her. Anyways, he told me several times he wanted me to be free. And giving the circumstances that was odd. He has said more things that i thought were strange, like i should take the next step, that he couldnt do that for me and when i found out he is my TF i was thinking its like he knew somehow but that it didnt added up with him being the ‘runner’.. Now i start to think that maybe i was right. I started to use the cleaning tools this week but i am a major control freak, i cant relax and go deep. I will keep trying though.
I definitely experience #7- a lot. Pretty often actually. It can be really painful. I want to know what to do if the male TF threatens to physically harm the female TF? How is that helping to clear blockages? It has only served to make me more fearful of him…
I haven’t made love to my twin yet but we shared some physical intimacy that changed my world, even though it isn’t considered “sexual” but was very powerful for for of us. I agree that it is better to work on ascension and self love and be patient in order to harmoniously reunite with your twin and have it be way better than you can imagine; in that case can having sex together for the first time still trigger running? It would suck if we got so far and were harmoniously reunited but only to have to be interrupted by running.
Please answer me Cassady. This issue is something I worry about from to time. It may just be a misunderstanding but I can’t find specific answers for this.
This article confirmed my idea that only evolved souls/starseeds were on the Twin flame journey. There is no way that a soul that is not highly evolved could endure all the challenges this journey encompasses.
I’ve always seen it as a “shortcut” to negativity-shedding and rapid evolution.
The bright side is that all of us, coming from where we come, are perfectly equipped and able to overcome all the obstacles we face, provided we show the will to do it.
Take heart everyone! It is absolutely possible to accomplish it!
Hi Cassady, I have a question regarding a person (my mom), who I believe to a be lightworker. She has incredible psychic abilities, but is completely afraid of them and is often in denial. She constantly comes to me for help, but I feel that I may be running out of ways to assist her. As one minute it seems she is making progress, and the next she is in denial, constantly at war with herself and refusing to recognize her soul truth or even her soul at all. Yet, I also feel like I am meant to help her. This can be incredibly frustrating for me. How do I help? Any advice on what I should do? Lots of love and light xoxox <3
When my twin flame first left, I could hear her talking to me and shortly after she had left, she phoned and I asked her if she had been talking to me and she cried. I didn’t hear from her again for several months but this line of communication continued on and off. Sometimes I knew it was her in her mind and othertimes i knew it was her higher self/spirit self. It was these experiences that lead me to look up telepathy and in so doing, I found out about twin flames for the first time and recognised all of what I read. I still get a lot of communication, more often from her higher self/spirit than from her, although occasionally, I still receive downloads of what she is thinking. This is three years later. It is truly a comfort when it happens even when it is from her and sounds confused and sometimes hopeless. When I hear from her spirit self, it is more encouraging and surrounds me with love and I feel a sense of peace at these times. This has been the greatest gift on my journey.
How do I contact you for a reading of energy blocks?
I actually cried reading this. Because it’s so true.