You Need To Read This… Discover The Underlying Factors Responsible For Pushing Twins Apart, Plus The Secret Lessons Your Soul Is Waiting For You To Learn So You Can Move Forward Into Love


Every week I’m contacted by Twins who are experiencing the struggle of being apart from their counterpart, so today I’ve been guided to provide a special message and information for this situation.

There are so many myths and so much (well-meaning) false information out there about the Twin Flame journey, and in a period of separation it’s often tempting to read everything we can find on it, searching for answers, to watch videos of others’ opinions…

However, I would hazard against aligning with others’ negative experiences and belief systems above all. (Read more about why in this article)

Do your best to anchor into your truth as an infinite soul, to keep connecting with your Twin Flame on the soul planes

Go within, as this is where you’ll find the truth and the real solutions.

For assistance in connecting with your intuition, cleansing away the negative energy that might be pushing you and your Twin apart and to rise up into a higher state of love – You can experience a Free Energy Healing Here

I get so many emails from Twins whose situation has changed dramatically for the better after using these tools. You can have a look at some of their comments and experiences here.


So, onto today’s message. If you are currently in a phase of “Twin Flame Separation”, there are some important things you need to know:


1) Separation Is Not A Set “Stage” Of The Twin Flame Journey

It’s often presented as if Twin Flames are “decreed” to come together or not by an outside source. I want you to know that no one has decreed that some Twin Flames will be forced to stay apart or go through periods of separation.

This might be something that happens to many Twins but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Please do not expect it, because the expectation and belief that Separation is a necessary stage of the Twin Flame journey will only attract it to you!

Love is the fundamental truth of the Twin Flame connection – do not let others’ ideology get under your skin and mess with your experience.

Accept and acknowledge that it’s fully possible for Twin Flames to share a journey of happiness and togetherness.

This will open the door to this possibility for you, no matter what has happened before. And so it is.

Above all, things are not out of your hands – you’re not MEANT to be apart. Begin to look deeper and you will discover the factors that have been creating Separation in your experience. Now, you can begin to uproot the division, making room for love and reuniting once more.

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Is Your Twin Flame Unawakened? Are They “Running”?

Have a look at this channeled session where we cleanse you and your Twin Flame’s systems of underlying fears and blocks to Reunion, including ancestral negativity around love, sexuality and relationships.

We anchor you both into the highest dimension possible for you right now, deleting old karmic wounds, which allows your souls to pave out a new collective timeline for the two of you to come together harmoniously.

We also gently rouse your Twin to full knowing by activating their own system’s deep seated light codes to begin to open them up from the inside out.

The wonderful thing about this is that your Twin Flame’s soul is doing the work all in alignment with Free Will – they’ve been waiting for you to help them with this…

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“After I did it, he messaged me! Just like that – got the meditation, did it, and there he was.” – Indi, New York

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2) You Are Never To Blame For Separation

Please do not hold yourself in blame for what you are currently experiencing, as this will only hurt you. Know that Separation is a “neutral” energetic process.

It’s about negativity, energetic “baggage” pushing you apart – you are not to blame. You are not doing anything “wrong”.

(To learn more about what this negative “baggage” pushing Twins apart really is –  have a look at the video here)

But you can take an active hand in facing the inner shadows that might be pushing you apart, and removing the negative “baggage” that’s causing an energetic repulsion between you.

You don’t just have to “wait it out” – in fact I would encourage you not to, as I’ve had clients who had been waiting for their separation phase to end for decades with no change.

Negative energy won’t just leave on its own accord, we must face the root of the issues and neutralize the negative charge.

If you’d like some help with this, have a look at my Step By Step Roadmap to Twin Flame Union, or the first complete Energy Clearing Session For Twin Flames here.


When we resolve old hurts, heal karmic wounds and clear away the heavy “baggage”, the dynamic and the energetic state of our connection changes dramatically.

When the Twin Flames are in vibrational alignment, Reunion is the natural state. Separation stems from an energetic repulsion pushing you apart.

You can test your energetic vibration here – discover whether you are really a match with the Unity and Love you desire.



3) Separation Can End Faster Than You Might Think

The spiritual truth Twin Flames are being asked to consider and that can and will change things between you, is – you are not actually in separation. It is an illusion.

Your souls are always together, there is never true separation between Twin Flames.

This is an often tough and challenging lesson to learn, especially on earth where we grow up being taught about categories and borders and separation – to see ourselves as separate people.

But once you learn and take in this understanding, trust me when I say that suffering will more and more become a thing of the past.

At this now moment, please open up to this spiritual truth – that you are always together, that you are always connected!

This will begin to change everything between you.

Stop looking for evidence of separation, and start looking for evidence of your souls’ unity. Set the intention right now.

This will create a completely different energetic dynamic between you, and it can and will change everything. If you keep looking for separation, you will find more and more of it. Begin to look for unity, for solutions, for ways and reasons that you are already together.

You will be surprised at how quickly this can revolutionize your physical experience also.

In the Vibrational Alignment Program you’ll find a specially created Affirmations Audio to help you re-wire your belief system and energy to open up to harmony and reunion. Have a look here for more

Or alternatively, get a sample of the program with my Free Guided Meditation to Connect with your Twin Flame on the Soul Planes to fuel your experience of togetherness and invite in unity into your physical experience also.

Plus, have a look at this intuitive article:What Is Your Twin Flame Trying To Tell You? Discover What They’re Really Feeling And Wanting You To Know”


4) Separation Might Be Due To Your Unconscious System
Secretly Trying To Protect You

It’s estimated that up to 99% of our thought processes are unconscious. The unconscious mind houses a lot of fears based in the belief systems we’ve been exposed to in life (“love hurts”, “life is hard” and so on)…

It also houses past experiences of hurt, betrayal, abandonment, feelings of rejection, fears that others might leave or that things might go wrong…

To this unconscious part of your being, the Twin Flame connection is TERRIFYING.

Because your Twin Flame has the “power” to hurt you more than any other person you have encountered. The Twin Flame connection pushes us to be vulnerable, to be open, to risk being hurt…

So for many Twins, the unconscious faculties are unwilling to enter into such a risky connection. This is why so many Twins “run”. They expect to be hurt in the connection, therefore they withdraw…

And the biggest problem with the unconscious is… It’s unconscious! These are the shadows, the inner fears we are unaware of. Most often they go unnoticed.

So we can think we’re open to Reuniting when the opposite is the case deep down.

Many Twin Flames pray and ask to reunite with their counterpart while simultaneously being terrified of what will happen… Say you want to reunite with your twin but are afraid they’ll run again and you’ll get hurt – you’re sending double messages.

It’s like driving left and right at the same time. It doesn’t work!

It means nothing can happen because we’re cancelling out our own intentions. When and if your unconscious faculties are hitting the brakes behind the scenes, it means deeper work is needed.

To find out more about this, have a look at my article on the Twin Flame Mirror dynamic and shadow work: “Why The Twin Flame Journey Is An Inside Job”


In order to open up to Reuniting, you have to face the shadows and figure out what’s really happening. The deeper fears have to be uprooted. And yes, you can help your Twin Flame do this on a soul level if they’re the one “running”.

(However, don’t be too fast to look to your Twin: If you’re apart right now, it’s most likely due to your own inner fears too. We all have underlying fears. There is not a human being on the planet completely free from fear on some level. Some of us just bury it deeper or deny it altogether.)

In all the readings I’ve done tuning into Twin Flame runners, it’s never because someone else makes them feel more passion or love or is more exciting. It’s because of fear.

Fear is an energy, and when we feel it it’s always because somewhere in the past we got hurt. So in order to prevent future hurt, our system triggers fear to block us from “making the same mistake” again…

Inner child healing can be incredibly transformative on the Twin Flame journey, especially in terms of discovering and uprooting unconscious fears. Have a look here for more.

5) Separation Could Be Your Soul’s Attempt To Teach You Important Spiritual Lessons

If you’re experiencing physical separation with your Twin Flame right now, ask yourself what you might be asked to learn or work on yourself.

What is the lesson in this situation? Are you working on an important project and actually would benefit from focusing on this fully? Are you resolving early life soul contracts with others?

Are you in a state of geographic transition, looking to make life changes? Are you in need of finding deeper self acceptance and inner wholeness?

Your current physical separation could be “arranged” for your benefit. And if this is so, know that it’s not permanent, and it’s to help you long term.

Your old beliefs and patterns might need to be reevaluated and past situations to be resolved once and for all. It serves the purpose of reflection and being given the opportunity to see things from a different perspective and move on into unconditional love.

So that when you do reunite, it will be in a state of unconditional love, in a higher consciousness connection without struggle and conflict…

As always it is up to you whether to do this work, to resolve the “lessons” and release any old baggage, or to remain where you are… it’s always your choice. And in that choice, there is never any rush in getting to the best choice for where you are and where you want to be on your Twin Flame journey.

Your soul is always supporting your highest good and your learning experience of life. Sometimes its priority is not to bring you physically together with your Twin, but to uplift you where you’re at right now.

And with the Twin Flame pairs, everything is double sided – we are both learning lessons and balancing our inner energies as individuals, but also learning and balancing our dynamic between us.

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Cleansing you and your Twin Flame’s systems will assist you in lifting into a higher expression. In the Complete Twin Flame Harmony healing we clear both Twins’ chakra systems of congestion, negativity and limiting ancestral programming…

We also cleanse the cords between the two of you to remove triggers of Running/Separation (and so you won’t feel residue of your Twin Flame’s intimacy with others)… And we provide you shielding you as a pair,an energy gift of assistance from source,we clear your Akashic records and uplift your shared timelines into the highest vibration possible at this time…

A complete healing session to uplift your connection and remove triggers of hurt and separation.

6) Separation Could Be You And Your Twin “Getting Some Space” To Deal With The Intensity Of The Connection

You and your Twin Soul’s higher faculties could be creating separation in periods, to give you space to deal with your own personal “stuff”, to relax, to find your own inner space of peace and self acceptance, to connect to your inner state of wholeness before attempting to come together.

Has the connection been intense for you? It’s possible that you’re actually being given a “break” so you can relax. So your energy can shift into a higher state. (Read more about the Twin Flame Journey and self love here)

If you want to know what the situation is with the heart connection between your Twin and yourself, here is a simple exercise:

Take a moment to close your eyes and relax, then visualize you and your Twin Flame moving to embrace each other. As you embrace, feel how your hearts react to each other.

When there’s a block I’m often shown one Twin being “repelled” by the other, as if there’s an invisible wall between the twins, and there’s a distinct feeling of the heart being shut.

Is your heart really open? In order for the Twin Flame connection to open in unconditional love, the heart chakra must function healthily and energy must be able to move freely through our system. When there are blocks and wounds in the heart, the Twin Flame connection becomes restricted.

To open your heart and help you and your Twin Flame shift into a higher state of being where your energies will relax into a smoother journey – opening to reuniting – have a look at this Higher Heart Transformation Journey.



I hope you found this article helpful. There is so much love there for you. Please don’t get discouraged, you are infinitely capable and there really are good things in store for you – try to focus into that positivity and don’t let fear based thoughts drag you down.

As always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x

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  1. Thanks for this blog entry. It’s quite timely because yes, my (deceased) Twin and I have been disconnected from each other the past few days. It happens occasionally. He’s still here, but at the same time not quite here. It’s hard to describe… I can’t feel the energy, but he’s still talking to me. It’s like he’s taken a step back in distance, basically.

    Just before this all happened we had a very intense night where he told me all about his feelings for me, over and over.

    As this separation has been happening, I’ve been seeing and dreaming of things he got up to in his life, if you know what I mean… 😉 thing is, though, that I have already accepted all of this! I have been through hell getting to that point! So I’m not sure why I’m seeing it. Maybe he’s doing some healing at his end so we can progress further. Yet, at the same time as *that*, I’m seeing him for the whole person he was, and I’m feeling quite awed by how much I respect, admire and adore that person.

    Anyway I’m viewing the separation as some kind of lesson I need to learn, while continuing to work on my own life *down here*.

  2. My twin flame died… i don’t know what to do. I’m lost. It will be 2 years in january but the pain isn’t getting better, or easier to deal with. Its getting worse.

  3. I totally agree. For me, it was 3 months ago yesterday. Thankfully, I still feel his presence. Its like he’s just in the next room…..but I can’t reach him. The missing him part is a terribly sharp heartache that, even on my best days, is just under the surface. When it gets to be too much, I just go find a quiet spot, let the tears come and talk to him,

  4. I’m just learning about the twin flames.. my twin flame I have known him for 10+ yrs but just realising he’s the one.. currently married help

  5. Sorry Confused22 I only just saw your reply! Yes, it is weird and hard and frustrating and good all at the same time to be in a completely different frame of mind from one day to the next. I will take note of the next time I have a hard day and see if its the 11th day! That is very interesting! Stay strong lovely, you are doing great xo

  6. What do you do if both twin flames are with other people and entrenched in separate families and lives? Even if we would be happier together how can separation end?

  7. Human life is just temporary. My TF is ‘on the other side’ but with me 24/7. So yes, they/we die but are still together for Eternity

  8. Hi Cassady,

    Would you please elaborate on #5 in another article? It made a lot of sense me.I have always felt we have chosen to stay apart because there are so many lessons we are still learning, resolving issues, and focusing on personal growth. I personally believe that every success we each have is for the other.Thanks for your wise words.

  9. Being in the same situation, my only advice is to let go of any outcome and work on the highest good for all involved. Also, work on easy and smooth transitions for all as well. Our twins come into our lives often when we are in other relationships/married to shake up what society believes to be acceptable. We stay in situations even if they are not suitable because society and our limited beliefs tell us we have to do. It shows us unconditional love and forces us to face ourselves and our fears. Fears of the unknown, fears of change and fears of the future. Focus on you and not on the outcome and watch everything unfold.

  10. Is it possible to only know your Twin Flame in your mind…??? I'm so in Love with my Twin.. But we have never met…! I think of them everyday all day long…and have done so for years…I know what they look like…what they do for a living…I live my Life with them in my mind…I have a very beatiful life with them in my mind…Is this possible…? This is so hard to understand…Are there other people like me…?????

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