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Today’s article is completely different than anything we’ve done on the site before.

Strange as it might sound – I’m inviting you to take a vacation away from Twin Flames!

Some time to relax your mind and emotions, and allow yourself to rest, recuperate, recharge your “batteries” for a while.

To allow yourself to center into your own self, fill up with love and light, and to allow your energy to realign.

Did you know that when we pursue the Twin Flame connection from a point of needing to control, trying to figure out problems, frustration that things might not be working out – we block love from flowing?

Today’s article is spirit’s very specific suggestion. To be good to yourself above all, to regroup, center into your own life and to find an inner space of peace.



Not only because it’s incredibly powerful for uplifting and opening up your Twin Flame connection, but because you deserve some rest, some TLC.

And unless you allow yourself this time and space and love, you’re forcing it away from yourself energetically. To get love, give yourself love now. That’s how energy works.

Here’s our suggestion:

Please set the intention that you’ll be taking a complete break from thinking about your Twin Flame connection this coming few days.

And do something for yourself this weekend – just for fun! Do something – just because it feels good! Do something that shows love for yourself.



Create a list of 10 things you might enjoy doing right now, just for enjoyment and because you’d feel good doing it.

Whether it’s to go for a walk with your dog by the water, or go for a swim at the beach, or to draw or paint something for fun… write it down now.

Or maybe you feel like a hot bubble bath with essential oils, or to sit in the sun and read a fun book, or to sleep in this weekend… or maybe you’d like to go and sing karaoke with some friends, take a drive out of town, or go biking…

The only “rule” here is that it has to be something you’re doing for *yourself*. This is your self love fun assignment.

To give yourself the gift of some “time off” from the “problem mindset” of the Twin Flame connection.

If you’ve had the “grown-up” mindset for so long, working and being reliable, that you can’t think of what you might enjoy…

Check in with your Inner Child. Likelihood is, they’ve been trying to tell you about the secret power of fun and lightheartedness for a while now.


Your Inner Child knows exactly what you need to feel light and happy. Go here for a session where we check in with them, heal old childhood wounds and gather inspiration for a positive onward journey.



Even if you’re happy with your Twin Flame, it’s healthy to center into your own self once in a while and show love for yourself above all. This helps maintain an inner wholeness and love that reflects positively back into your relationship.

This weekend, it’s all about *you*. You deserve it!

Be mindful of this – put your foot down if Ego begins showing up reasons not to do this! Because it’s to your highest good. It’s to everyone’s highest good.

When you do something just for yourself, you align your energy with deservingness, with inviting in love and appreciation from others too.

But right now, do it for *you*, out of enjoyment. Not because of anything. Show yourself the unconditional love you desire from your Twin.



Did you know, when you take some time for this self TLC and release thoughts of your Twin Flame connection, you also allow it to reset itself.

You’re by default releasing your grip on any frustration, anger, fear, helplessness energies that might have gotten tangled up with your connection. And when you do that, love has room to shine again. The dynamic between you changes.

But it’s really important that you’re not doing this *because* you want to fix your connection. Do what’s fun, because it’s fun.

Do what feels good, because it feels good. Be your own king or queen for a while. Show yourself love!

And if this whole exercise makes you feel icky, or you feel like you don’t have time or resources to do this – have a look at this session spirit asked me to create.


It’s all about opening up to embodying self love, clearing abundance blocks and love blocks out of the way and sowing seeds of positive manifestation for your future – including addressing money issues, feelings of undeservingness and ancestral fear programming.

It’s the most fun and colorful session I’ve ever created – a 50 minute long technicolor journey into the soul, accompanied by high vibration music.

Have a look here for more.


I do hope so much that you’ll accept our invitation today to give to yourself! Enjoy yourself! You deserve it so much!

Sending you love and light for a fun-filled weekend and beyond <3

Cassady x


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  1. This is exactly what I have been practicing, the whole twin flame combined with my Virgo overthinking was driving me insane and exhausting me.
    I’ve tried not communicating with him either physically and or spiritually and I’ve never had success.
    What I have been doing however, is visualising a radio that represents our connection and I’ve been ‘turning it down’. This has worked so well! Perhaps too well as we passed each other whilst both driving today and I didn’t see him! I then got a message from him asking why I didn’t wave! He seemed quite upset which isn’t like him, he plays it very cool usually! But anyway having the dial turned down has been great I feel much more centred and grounded and turn it up if ever I want a little chat. Also I’m not nearly as tired or drained!

  2. I haven’t really focused on mine this past week but I thought of him at times but I have been healing my inner child past trauma that I have dealt with as a child and that was my focus this past week and will be till I am fully healed from that trauma of abuse. Thank you for this blog post. I am trying my best not to focus on him too much and to focus more on me, my well being but I can not help it at times because I love him soo much.

  3. Thank you so much Cassady and Spirit for this wonderful suggestion, invitation accepted! 😀 Not so much to get away from it all, because despite no 3D-contact (yet) for 9 months now, our soulcontact is really beautiful and I enjoy a lot, as well as the journey that is more incredible than ever. However I do notice an increase of thinking about him (and union) in an active way lately and your suggestion really helped to make a bit more of an effort to get my mind of of him and the journey. I always try to do things for myself in the weekend that make me happy or just feel good, but because of your article I made a list of things to enjoy that are a bit more/different from what I usually do and I really like that. So thank you so much for that!!! Have a great weekend everyone! Much love, Monique

  4. Thank you for your column, Cassady. Lately I’m seeing a lot of synchronicity in that I get similar messages from my guidance a day or two before I read your blog…it’s really cool to know someone on the same wavelength, especially in the field of spirituality. This one happened this morning around 7am Pacific Time. I had been meditating on cutting cords and made a difficult heartfelt decision to cut the cord of the man I believe to be my twin at the same time. The message came that if we are to be reunited after almost 3 years apart then we will be like new people with all the growth that has happened in my life for sure and hopefully in his, too. After I felt a huge surge of love flow downward into my heart and my mind became serenely clear on the fact I had just loved myself a whole lot more <3

  5. Wow. 100% alignment again. I was really feeling the need for this. I had an incredibly powerful week around my twins energy and soul. I went deeper into myself than ever before and understood and knew how deep the connection goes. I’m familiar with sacred ritual and know that it requires time for integration. Again, your presence in my life is truly in divine alignment. Much love Cassady!

  6. These articles are always posted exactly when I need them, always describing exactly what I’m going through at the moment. Your insight has helped me tremendously through my twin flame journey. Without, these articles, I’d be completely lost. Thank you.

  7. Hi Erika. There is something about water for me as well. Always dreaming of water. Have not gone into white space in dreams though. I do dream of being in a house with various rooms though.

  8. I don’t know how to NOT think about my twin flame. We’ve recently disconnected by adding distance because it was just too much. I don’t even know if he’s actually my twin flame. I feel an unmistakable attraction to him and we do have similarities. A psychic told me he is my twin flame and he is in fact the One I will be with. But he has NEVER shown passion or interest towards me that would suggest love on his behalf. Yet I was always showing love. The ambivalence got to be too much for me. So we both decided to fall back from the connection. It was a fear of mine. However, in creating distance I am declaring t myself that I will not and don’t have to settle for anything less than I want. Also, this distance has allowed me to notice some tendencies about underlying conditions that have influenced my “conditional” love. I’m at a point now, where I DONT WANT TO THINK about him. I really want to focus on my well being and evolution. But how do I NOT think about him? I’ve thought about him like every day for the past 4 years…any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks!

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