Crystal children, rainbow children, indigos, soul contracts and families. Find out how you’re matched to the “perfect” child based on energy, karma and soul purpose.
This is a question I’ve been asked by so many of you in recent months: “What happens when Twin Flames have children together?”
Before I go on to the answer, I’d like everyone to know I read and receive all your messages and emails but unfortunately there’s just not enough time to answer personally! I appreciate you so much – thank you for sharing your stories, opening up and taking the time to write.
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The “Perfect” Child
I would love to tell you that all Twin Flames have amazingly happy, healthy, talented crystal children who live happily ever after. However, the situation is more complicated than that.
Twin Flames creating a family is not a “magical” situation where they always attract the “perfect child” born with no problems and no challenges whatsoever.
When a child is born, the souls of the child and the parents must be in energetic alignment with one another. You attract the “perfect child” for you and your situation. The soul who is the best fit with you and your partner and your life.
As Twins are in such an intensely transformative relationship energetically, the child soul they attract and who agrees to be their child, will vary depending on what stage of their soul development the Twin Flames are in.
Soul Signatures and Karmic Debt
In order to fully explain this situation regarding the potential children of Twin Flames, we have to first of all (as always) look at how this universe functions, which is in terms of energy. Energy really is everything.
We, the world and everything in it are energetic beings, consisting of masses of tiny particles vibrating and oscillating at particular frequencies in particular formations. We are not solid, but energy in motion.
The Twin Flame “Soul Song”
What determines the exact energetic vibration of our field is a combination of our soul signature but also the karmic debt and energetic patterns we’ve taken on during existence.
Originally Twin Flames share the same core frequency or “soul song”, and the role of Twin Flame Ascension is to purge from both Twins any negativity that’s polluted this core frequency, so that the two may reach back to that pure frequency they share and be as One.
You “Sign Up” Together
I would love to tell you that all children of Twin Flames are amazingly awakened and advanced crystal souls who bring only joy into the lives of those they meet and who will go through life in happiness ever after.
And that could be the case for some Twins. But most often the situation is far more complicated than that. The reality is that children and parents are coupled up based on their energy.
So two Twin Flames who are unaware of the karmic baggage they are carrying, will have a high likelihood of signing up with – on the soul level – a child soul who shares similar or the same karma so that the child may be born into their lives and be a part of the increased triggering for all three to get over and heal this karma once and for all.
In other words, the situation will be different if the Twins have cleared a lot of karma and lifted their energy vibration, versus if they were carrying a lot of baggage and are still stuck in the low vibrations of anger, shame, guilt and so on …
If the parents are carrying certain karma they will attract a child soul who wishes to resolve similar karma in this lifetime, so that they can all be freed from any issues.
The Larger Purpose Of Being Born
So when you were born to your particular parents and into your particular family lineage originally, this was chosen by you in alignment with your earth parents’ souls, because you were a match to them and they to you.
Families share certain karmic baggage that they come together to resolve in this lifetime.
If you visit your Akashic Records, you’ll find that you and your earth parents (and siblings) share significant past lives together. You can learn how to access your Akashic Records and past life information in my Vibrational Alignment Program – there’s even a guided meditation that takes you through it step by step.
Souls always have a larger purpose of coming together on earth.
Every “child soul” that’s ever born onto earth, has soul contracts mapping out their planned circumstances: who the parents will be, what time and date they will be born (astrological energetic configurations map out each person’s energetic background and focus areas for the soul for this lifetime), and so on.
In this way, you and your Twin Flame planned your own early life family circumstances and upbringing situation carefully before incarnating.
The True Soul Gift – Evolution
When a child is born, a multitude of new soul contracts are signed between the child, the parents and any other significant people who agree to be a part of the child’s development and life experiences.
Soul contracts often denote what major lessons we will be learning from and teaching each other.
As souls, we see this as a true gift – a push for our continued evolution, and for Twin Flames another helping hand in the journey back to Union and Unconditional love. However, while on earth, it may feel challenging to have yet another complicated and potentially conflicted individual as a part of the family dynamic.
Children of “Illumined Twin Flames”
On the positive side of this, Twin Flames are perhaps the people on planet earth right now who have the biggest motivation and opportunity to clear their energy and lift their vibration, pushing to understand and dwell in unconditional love more and more – thereby giving life to and nurturing happy, healthy children who can be a positive and loving influence in this world.
In the case of Twin Flames who are harmoniously together and are in a high vibration, sharing the experience of having a child together will likely be a joyous experience – because these Twins, so called Illumined or Enlightened Twin Flames – will have let go of any limiting, low vibrational earth habits of emotional attachment based in fear.
These are the Illumined Twin Flames who have reconnected with their inner light, and are able to live and feel from a place of unconditional love.
Parents such as this, whose energies are of high vibrations, will attract a completely different child soul than a child coupled up with a Twin pair who carry a lot of karmic baggage.
Crystal Children – Born “Awakened”
As an example, one child soul may be coming to earth to free themselves of old heavy karmic wounds, whereas another soul wishes to be born as a “light” (“crystal child”) into our society to become someone who can help and lift up the world during their lifetime.
If you and your Twin have journeyed back to unconditional love together, you are a wonderful fit with the latter – the “crystal child”.
For reference, a Crystal Child is someone who has very little karmic baggage and a strong connection to the higher realms – sometimes this is their first incarnation on earth – a child who is born “awake” to energy, intuition and what is beyond the “veil of perception”
Re-Learning Unconditional Love
Twin Flames may in general attract a very “advanced” soul to help them move on with their journey and teach them the gift of unconditional love, but as with everything on this journey, the transformation from heaviness into light often involves being triggered painfully for the old to be released. The process into learning true unconditional love is not always easy.
If you and your Twin Flame can manage to rediscover your own inner radiance and release any karmic baggage on your journey and open up to unconditional love before having a child together, you will be sure to attract a parenting journey that is filled with wonder and joy rather than challenges.
If you’re interested in discovering how to release karmic baggage, clear and lift your energy with simple, effective tools for day-to-day use – have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program I created for Twin Flames.
Alternatively you can try our Free starter kit!
Are You Ready to Learn New Lessons?
And keep in mind the classic human lesson around starting a family – if you and your partner aren’t happy together, adding a child to the mix won’t fix anything.
I personally grew up with a father who never really wanted a child, and although my mother did everything to weigh up for it, that imbalance was always present and I felt it deeply growing up. It played into my own karmic issues and eventually forced me to confront and get over some deeply buried issues, but it is not something I would wish for any child to experience.
Please be mindful before you start a family:
– Why is it so important to you?
– What do you wish from the experience?
– Is your partner certain that they want to start a family too?
– What kind of child would you like to raise?
– How would you like to raise them?
– How will you handle it if the child is different from you or gives you challenges along the way?
And most important of all:
– Will you be able to love your child no matter how they act or feel or express themselves?
And maybe you knew it already – this is also the biggest lesson to be learned between you and your Twin Flame too. To love each other no matter what.
Keep in mind that Unconditional Love might seem simple as a theory, but in practice it can be the biggest challenge of all…
As always I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
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Hello, I’m wondering about the children that are already born and then one of the spouses are awakened to twin flame. Myself and twin flame awoke late fall in 2014 and we both have children and both still married to others. My little one is quite the “spirited” handful. Is she impacted by not having her energetic twin flame dad in her life?? Or is there not much of a connection to him from my daughters perspective? Thank you!!! I really would love guidance on this!
Dear Cassady, another lovely article thank you! I was wondering, why do miscarriages happen? Xxx
I would think hat the TF relationship would be enough. Enough to handle, enjoy, create a future.
Also, i am aware that we have already done that in other circumstances.
Hi Cassidy: Excellent article, thanks. What if children come into your TF’s life through adoption & you feel like they are your children from the moment you meet & your own child, without any encouragement, loves & treats them as siblings? Is this more proof in the pudding that this family is meant to be together even though there are various factors keeping them apart? Thanks for your guidance.
I met my Twin Flame in college 22 years ago but didn’t know it then. We met by divine plan in a completely unexpected way 1.5 years ago. We had 18 blissful hours together and I haven’t seen him since but I know we will be coming together again soon. It triggered a life-changing awakening in me which also opened my understanding that my 8-year-old daughter is a Christed-Crystal child. I know there are really big things in my life purpose that are beginning to unfold already but that I’m but paving the way for my daughter, and other children like her, to do even bigger things. Interestingly I have had two other friends brought back into my life who also have Crystal Children and have recently experiencing Awakening themselves. We are all marveling at the gift we’re given in these children. My daughter and I have had many past lives together and even though my TF is not her biological father, she is in the same soul group as him of course too. I really think all these things are connected and as I continue to live one day at a time and learn to be present, I am thrilled to see things unfold for a higher purpose.
Is it possible that some of us that have found our way to this website are actually crystal children? I was born with a certain clarity and didn’t have baggage as a child. I’ve always had certain abilities, but they weakened over time. When I got older, that changed. (I’m still only 20)