Same sex twin flames

This week’s question comes from Tatiana B.: “Do Same Sex Twin Flames exist?”

Thank you so much for this important question, Tatiana!

I have not seen this really discussed much in Twin Flame circles, and I am happy you gave us the chance to be open about this. I realize I might be stepping on some toes when I write this (I hope not, as love is a limitless energy that defies categorization) but there is nothing dictating that the Twin Flame pair must be a woman and a man.

The basic reason for this is that Twin Flames are connected on the energetic plane and belong together in spirit or soul – the physical body is simply the current “house” of the spirit.

Misinterpreting spirit

Let me explain: According to spirit, the idea that Twin Flames must be a man and a woman in a romantic, sexual pairing, is simply a misunderstanding, or a misinterpretation of energy terms. The misunderstanding is based in the fact that male and female energies have been automatically equated to mean male and female biology, or man and woman.

Spiritual terms and energy terms can unfortunately get distorted or misunderstood when interpreted through our physical world, human perspective. Remember that all information that exists on earth from spirit, has come through a channel of information. Therefore we advise you to always listen to your own heart when reading any information about the Twin Flame dynamic.

Ultimately, only you know what is true and right for you. Sometimes you’ll be able to feel this deep down, like if someone is lying to you and you just know they’re not telling the truth – you might not be sure why or how, it just feels like a lie. If something doesn’t resonate with you – leave it, and go with what does resonate with you.

Trying to categorize the unfathomable

We are all energetic beings beneath our names and bodies and families, all our earthly information and experiences, and it’s the eternal soul self that lives on no matter what.

Our souls are not easily defined, nor are they limited. So when we try to discuss spirituality through “real world” perspectives and categories things often get skewed, and sometimes mistranslated and misunderstood. It’s like trying to catch water in your palms – no matter how close your hands are, water always slips through. Energy is not something that can ever be contained in categories – it is flowing and ever-changing.

The meaning of male and female

When Twin Flames are described to be male and female, this is not meant in spiritual terms to necessarily a biological man and a woman. It is indicating the nature of the energies, and the archetypal male and female energies are simply terms to describe two different energies that embody different traits. That is not to say that these energies belong or express themselves exclusively in male or female bodies. It is human culture that has equated one with the other.

We all have a combination of energies, at varying degrees. A man can be of a predominately “feminine” energy and a woman of a predominately “masculine” energy – even without this affecting their sexuality (they can still be heterosexual). If you think about it, I’m sure you have female friends or family members who are more or less “feminine” than each other, and male friends or family members who are more or less “masculine” than each other.

More common than most realize

If you believe in reincarnation, we have all been both women and men and various ethnicities throughout existence. Who we are as a spirit goes way beyond gender and the physical body. So does our connection with our Twin Flame.

In my overwhelming experience and from communicating with spirit, the Same Sex Twin Flames are in fact more common than most realize. Often they are homosexual, sometimes heterosexual.

They are here on earth to break open old paradigms around love and to teach the value of unconditional love by example. We live in a society with set ideas about what love is “supposed to look like” and where people are most often loved “because” of something…

The Twin Flame connection, on the other hand, is unconditional – above all and beyond words, beyond labels. A Twin Flame loves the other both for no reason and for all reasons. There is no limitation to Twin Flame love. And this energy of love is powerful – a Twin Flame pair in love can deeply affect people around them simply by existing in such a state of heightened love.

Beyond words

For those of us who have felt the depths of the True Twin Flame connection, we know that there are no words that can sufficiently describe the all-encompassing, magnetic intensity of this connection. Twin Flames are infinitely varied, and this is part of the very purpose of us being here – to expand the ideas and concepts of love in society. Many face large age differences or contrasting religious backgrounds, or social differences. Having to, and wanting to, embrace love across society’s perceived boundaries is a common thing for Twin Flame pairs.

Just think back to two of history’s most famous lovers, Romeo and Juliet, who most certainly acted and seemed like Twin Flames – their underlying purpose was to build bridges of love where there had been intense conflict between opposing forces; to unify where there had been separation.

Although their tumultuous love and ultimate demise has become one of the most famously sad love stories of the ages, it still provides a source of insight about the depths of true love and that no boundaries can contain it.

Thank you so much for your question, Tatiana! Wishing you love and light on your continued journey <3

Cassady x


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  1. hi am new to this ive been with my partner for a year and a half and find out we were twinflames thats when i couldt go near him i wanted to run it took me awhile to realise that i was his twinflame. things are going good. we are talking about having a child but am worried is it gonna become as one soul been as we are half a soul. been trying to find imformation on babys but cant find anything

  2. Hello, I hate to burst bubbles, and really not to be rude, but the ENTIRE concept of twin souls/flames is Based on Christ Consciousness and Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve, ANYONE writing or referring to the Twins-should know this already, and websites dedicated to this topic should also be Educated. The fact that you have found no basis or “scripture” ANYWHERE INCLUDING YOUTUBE or the entire INTERNET, ( I am not “Religious” I am spiritual and also very Spirituality educated) The internet tells you this: (I am sorry but the LBGT community wants to be a part but cannot be a part of Everything that is meant for a MAN and WOMAN, for the person writing this Blog or website and for the people reading it’s simple, YES lbgt community can have “Soul mates” Twins souls are (strictly) a man and a woman based upon Adam and Eve and the Second coming period, it’s easy to look up and find the diffrence in the meanings, thnx

  3. Dear Cis, thank you for your comment and your email with a similar message.

    If this blog annoys you, as you say, I would honestly suggest not reading it… If what I write about doesn’t resonate with you, you’re always free to completely disregard it.

    There are many perspectives in this world and I don’t expect every single person to agree with me: I respect your right to disagree with anything I write, but at the same time I am free to write the truth of what I have experienced. Please respect my right to express my truth as it resonates with many others.

    I have experienced that the Twin Flame connection is real beyond any shadow of a doubt, both myself and through sessions with hundreds of other individuals and their experiences.

    I wish you all the best in life. Namaste


  4. Hi Amanda, we’ll write a Q&A on children of Twin Flames as soon as possible – you’re right it’s not something there’s a lot of info out there about.

    I wouldn’t worry about this at all, the concept of Twins being “halves” is a metaphorical thing, we really are complete in our own right, but become complete together on another added level when we reunite.

    Think of clouds and how one big cloud splits into infinite smaller clouds – they are still clouds; or the ocean and rivers. Energy and souls are never “incomplete” by definition.

    If you and your Twin Flame decide to have a child together I’m sure it will be a wonderful child. The best thing to do to make sure everything goes well is to stay out of worry and fear, as worrying would just make you uncomfortable and attract more worry.

    Ask your guides to give you a sign to say if it would be enjoyable for you and your Twin to have a baby, and to confirm that it would be a healthy and “whole” child/soul.

    Sending you love and light <3

    Cassady x

  5. Lol ! Well haven’t you fallen for society’s trap 😛 I don’t label my self ‘a lesbian’ but my twin flame is definatly a female as am I. Love just is. And as was said twin flames in same sex have come to break open old paradigms within the limitations of our society which has been formed . Thanks Cassady.

  6. Thank you Cassidy for posting this as it makes me sad that couples who may very well be twin flames are being led to believe that they must forgo or give up their belief that they have met their twin because of what gender they currently embody. This is why it is very important to listen to yourself and your spirit guides and NO ONE ELSE while you are on this journey, as these people that are telling same sex TF’s that they do not exist is the very reason why we DO exist. I do not identify with being gay because I know that this is just another label that the 3D world has put in place to keep us in a lower state of being, however I am here to tell you that who I have come to learn is my Twin Flame is very much the same BIOLOGICAL gender as I and I have been given MANY signs and synchronicities by the universe that I never asked or looked for, to support this. My same sex brothers and sisters that feel as if you too are on this journey, please remember 2 things …1) If you believe you have met your twin no matter who they are or where they are in life,listen to your heart and trust in the universe to guide you and 2) Please DO NOT listen or waste your time arguing with those they will tell you differently on your journey as they’re fear does not want us to merge with our twins as that would challenge their individual beliefs thus shining a light on their egos/shadow selves.


  7. Thank you for writing that twin flames can indeed be same-sex and supporting same-sex twin flames. I am happy to see other bloggers have been doing the same. All it takes is for a few of us to speak up on the subject and same-sex twin flames will not have to feel completely excluded and discriminated against in yet another area of their lives. Thank you, I am very grateful, as a same-sex twin in union myself who refused to back-down when invalidated.

  8. my twinflame is a female and looks exactly like me and sounds just like me. So how did that happen. Her name is Aurora and my name Is Athena.
    We are literally reflections of one another in a mirror. so you are wrong on that. bodies have nothing to do with souls

  9. Hi Amanda, thanks for your questions – apologies for the late response but you might find this article helpful:
    “What Happens When Twin Flames Have Children Together?”

    Sending you love and light <3 x

  10. Sure I do Mer, but first you might want to have a look at some previous Q&As because I’ve likely answered some of what you’re thinking about! 🙂

    Such as the Twin Flame test here: and this article on how I myself met a false twin and what I was guided to share with the collective based on that experience

    Sending you love and light x <3 Cassady

  11. Hi B Abdul,

    The immediate insight I get from spirit is, this person seems to *identify* as straight but the reason they’re becoming triggered is that deep down they’re not so sure. It seems there’s a strong reason from early life that this person feels it’s so important for him to be “straight”. Really, as a soul he seems very fluid and drawn to you.

    Their advice is to go straight to his higher self as you’ll get insights on what’s going on with him deep down and what next steps to take. You can use the free download on this site to do so.

    Sending you love and light <3 x Cassady

  12. I believe twin flames can be same sex. They may share a romantic love, but not always. The purpose is much higher. The relationship itself will challenge you and your beliefs/bias. In doing so, it will raise the collective consciousness. It will awaken you to what you are really here for.

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