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Pushing The Hand Of Fate By Getting Serious With Someone Else, Threatening To Shut Down The Connection. Free Will Choices – Solutions to Ongoing Frustrations…


Before we start today I want to reach out and say thank you to you for being here on the blog. Twin Flames 11:11 has grown to be such an amazing group of Twin Flames from all over the world.

I’m so grateful you’re here today!

I appreciate so much everyone who writes to me with kind words, questions and insights – unfortunately I’m not able to answer everyone personally but I want you to know I read your messages, comments and emails and it means so much to me!

If you’re struggling right now, please know that things really can change for the better. I’ve seen it happen time and time again.

Download the Free Twin Flame Help Kit here, use the cleanse tool to clear and uplift your energy so you can feel better and shift your Twin situation into increased harmony.

Or, to get to grips with deep karmic blocks to resolve recurring Running and Separation cycles – go here.



Today’s question comes from Jenna, who asks about something I know is on the minds of many Twin Flames out there – especially those with an Unawakened Runner Twin:


“Do more Reunions happen at a certain age or period of life?


Can doing something drastic in your own life – such as moving overseas, or deciding to get serious with someone else – ‘wake up’ your Twin Flame?”


– Jenna


Thank you for writing in Jenna! These are some very interesting questions, and important issues for so many Twins out there.

I’m asking spirit to answer with me today to give you as many deep insights as possible.


#1) Do More Reunions Happen At a Certain Age Or Period?

No, not significantly. Most often, Twins schedule ample time to “live under the illusion” as a regular human being – so most are fully grown up when they “wake up” to the connection.

The waves of Twins that have been triggered to Ascend in recent decades have nearly always been adults by the time they recognize the truth of the connection.

This is so that the Twins can experience the fullness of the human experience of separation and the polarity paradigms, in order to then “break these open” with their awakening and journey into Unconditional Love together. (Read more about the Twin Flame Mission here)

Awakening usually happens through a “dark night of the soul” followed by a spiritual awakening triggered by a significant event, or experiencing increasing synchronicities such as the 11:11 awakening code which causes the person to seek out significant information, or connecting with their (as yet Unawakened) Twin Flame in a way which triggers them to click back into their inner soul’s knowing.

As sexuality most often plays a key role in the Twin Flame connection, many awaken after Kundalini Triggering caused by a sexual interaction with their Twin – even if this has happened during the dream state.


Why Sexual Maturity Is A Common Key To The Twin Flame Journey

This is another reason why young adulthood is such a common time for Twin Flames to awaken, as this is the peak of sexual activity for human beings.

However, there is no “set age group”. Looking for these kinds of standard answers are in honesty trying to bring a spiritual journey into human limitation. Time as we perceive it doesn’t exist for souls. 

For Twin Flames and others who wake up to their Soul’s nature during life on earth, it’s all about energetic alignment. Being opened to the truth of the soul, moving past the human “reality” of perceived separation and limitation, and instead reaching a state of love and unity.

Some are born closer to this than others and journey quickly to unconditional love for one another, whereas some Twin Flames never reach this level of “illumination” due to their Free Will human choices.

You can read more here about the so-called Twin Flame Stages.



#2) Can Doing Something Drastic In Your Life – Such As Moving Overseas or Getting Serious With Someone Else – “Wake Up” Your Twin Flame?

In some ways, yes. But there’s a huge caveat, so keep reading.

Yes, it can stir them to action – because they do feel your feelings to some degree even if they are “Unawakened”. BUT: any reaction you get will be coming from a fear polarity, and this fear will unfortunately really serve to create negativity in your connection.

If you want to move, move for your own sake because it makes you happy.

If you feel that your Twin connection is causing you unhappiness and that you’d be happier with someone else – choose that person from a place of love and happiness, not because you want your Twin to be jealously triggered to pursue you.

Following your own happiness and being true to your passions in life is “magnetic” to your Twin Flame. It activates very strongly your shared “soul song” – like an energetic clarion call they pick up on.

Because you as your true self is magnetic to your Twin Flame, as they are to you.

To learn more about how to strengthen the Heart Bond between you and your Twin and clear out any blocks on both sides, plus receiving supportive energy from source to uplift your connection into love and harmony – go here.


Why Being Happy Is A Miracle Worker For Your Journey

When we peel back the patterning of our human lives and discover our true soul’s gifts and passions and live our bliss, we return to the Twin Flame Soul Song – becoming irresistibly attractive to our counterpart.

In fact, from what I’ve experienced: being happy no matter what, spending time on your own passions and enjoying your journey, is incredibly powerful in drawing out harmony and unity in the Twin Flame connection.

Many Twins discover that when they decide to focus on their own happiness, the Twin connection “mysteriously” opens up more than it ever did when they were desperately focusing on it and worrying about it.

This is because they have raised their vibration and are now open to a higher “version” of the connection.


Switching On The Light From The Inside Out

If you wanted to be tough with your Twin, you could send the message to their higher self that you’ve had enough and unless something changes dramatically you will be choosing not to open up to them again as a person on earth.

This will do the same “trick” as what you mention.

With this ultimatum you might draw in new support, shifts, assistance in opening up the situation – but again, make sure you’re doing it from a place of self love and self respect. Set your foot down because you are choosing to prioritize your own happiness, not out of fear.

Your Twin Flame’s Ego self will feel your energetic intent to pull away unless something changes, and may also react by opening up when they feel afraid of losing you.

Opening Your Twin Connection With Their Free Will

Spirit shows us that by far the most effective way to “wake up” your Twin Flame is to interact with them on the soul planes and strengthening the bond between you from a place of happiness and love.

This is like switching the light on from the inside out for them.

Spirit asked me to create a special session for Twins whose counterpart is Unawakened – the channeled “Higher Dimensional Anchoring and Awakening Session”.

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As soon as I sat down to meditate one day, the transmission of this session began – and I knew instantly that it was an answer to prayers sent out by so many Twins.

In this session we gently go through the process of rousing your Twin to full knowing by activating their own system’s deep seated light codes to begin opening them up from the inside out.

This was requested by me as so many Unawakened Twins have become so entrenched in 3D “ego” energies and identity systems.

This session will gently push the energetic button to help them remember and begin to step into their true self, and to recall and feel their deeper connection with you.

The wonderful thing about this session is that their soul is doing the work all in alignment with Free Will – they’ve been waiting for you to help them with this.

We also cleanse both your systems of ancestral negativity around love, sexuality and relationships, and anchor you both into the highest dimension possible for you right now, deleting old karmic “issues” which then allows your souls to pave out a new collective timeline for the two of you to come together harmoniously.

I’ve had so many amazing responses to this session. Have a look at a few here:

“After I did it, he messaged me! Someone actually bought it for me! Just like that – got the meditation, did it, and there he was.” – Indi, New York

“Thank you Cassady! It was AMAZING and HUGE. Back home, on track in 9! And we spoke finally again!” – Daisy (via instagram)

“The absolute most intense healing I’ve ever done – it completely blew me away. Not only did this seem to impact me on an enormous level, I saw my Twin Flame completely change overnight. The change in him was the biggest change I’ve seen in him to date. I’m so grateful for your tools, and I’m merely without words on this latest one. It really was the answer to my prayers.” – Sarah (via Facebook)

 Learn more and get the session here.


What Determines When Someone Awakens?

Most Twins have a “scripted in” alignment set for their awakening. However, there is usually no guarantee that the person “heeds the call” and actually embraces this.

If you look back at your own journey, you’ll remember making the choice to open up to your newfound experiences. It wasn’t imposed on you completely. You yourself followed the path, opened the door so to speak.

Many Twins are afraid of opening up, of letting go of their earlier Ego identity and 3D worldview. This is why helping them clear old programming and energetic congestion can make such a big difference.!

It removes what has anchored them into that “old” reality, in a gentle way. So they themselves feel safe and good to open up to a new and higher reality and interaction with you.

Why You’re Never To “Blame”

Above all, please know you’ve not been doing anything “wrong”. Your Twin Flame isn’t staying asleep because they don’t love you or don’t want to be together.

Overwhelmingly, Twin Flames stay “unawakened” because they unconsciously fear letting go of the safety of their established 3D reality and identity.

You can help them shift out of this fear so they themselves are ready to open up the way you have. However, do know that you’re not to “blame” for them not waking up yet.

The fear they’re feeling is most often due to ancestral programming and early life experiences with being hurt when they opened up, it’s not because they don’t want to be with you.

By helping them elevate their energy vibration and cleanse out old fear and stagnation, you can help them awaken in a comfortable and safe way – from the “inside out”.

Thank you again for these very interesting questions, Jenna!

To read more about Twin Flame Awakening and how to deal with “Sleeper Twins”, you might want to have a look at the following articles too:


5 Ways To Raise The Subject Of Twin Flames With Your Unawakened Twin (Without Scaring Them Away)


Soul Vs Ego Self – How Do I Help My Twin Shift Out of Ego?

Dealing With Dissonance – Awakening Sleeper Twins and Dismantling Ego. How to “Unlock” their Inner Knowing and Help Them Remember Your Eternal Connection…

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Twin Flame Conflict – Why Do I Have To Do All The Work?

Did You Know Even The Most Unawakened Twin’s Soul Is Busy Behind The Scenes Pre-Paving Meetings, Info and Timelines for the Two of You? Resolving Imbalances, 8 Spiritual Keys


As always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x

“I started with your free toolkit and immediately felt results so much that I had to get the full program and wow! I’ve been doing it consistently and I love the energy clearings and exercises. I feel lighter and my lover and I are so much closer. Every day gets better and better. And since my vibration has become higher and higher, I’m attracting in wonderful opportunities and amazing abundance as well. I’m so grateful for your work, Cassady. Thank you!”

– Jessica N.  California, USA

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  1. Hi! Cassady and Everyone ,

    This is really awesome forum, feel like i am not alone, this feeling is amazing. And about twin flame , its twin soul afterall always connected. My journey started 2 years back when i denied his love because i was already married and then when i realized i met him and expressed to talk to him, he was so confused with his present relationship. I come to know about this twin soul concept just 2 months back , before i was just thinking what is , why it is , why it neverending and why i am so attached to this feeling.Now my question is We work on negativity, blocks internally everyday . So what about external things like marriage , relationships, i mean how to deal with it ? how to make people understand (who are attached to us presently) about this relationship and make everything easy for everyone?Or is it like this- if we work internally and then our surrounding things will change magically to our favor ?

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