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Feel like the Universe has forgotten about you? Twin Flame Struggle all around? There are hidden factors at play – find out why your manifestations aren’t happening, and how you can fix it.


This is an issue many Twin Flames come to me with every single week, so I felt it was time to address this once and for all. Many Twin Flames work for years to try to get together harmoniously but it seems like no matter what you try, it’s not working.

Reunion or Union just isn’t happening no matter how much you wish or visualize or pray.

First of all, let me say it’s not something the Universe or your Guides are doing to test you or to teach you patience. Once your energy is in alignment, things can happen almost overnight. The true reasons things aren’t happening the way you want are both simpler and yet more complicated than that:

It’s Not the Universe or your Guides’ “Fault”


My guides tell me this is one of the biggest challenges they face when working with people on the earth plane and they’re eager to spread this information so we can get the things we need and pray for.

The tricky issue here is that we here on earth are blocking the help, love, positivity and “miracles” the guides and the universe are working to bring us. They are working to get you exactly what you ask for, but you yourself might be blocking their every attempt.

Here’s how it works: When we send out the intention that we want something, this is energetically transmitted to the universe and the universe sends us the response – the fulfillment of our wish or desire.

But what happens more often than not is that although the answer is returned and the “gift” is on its way – once it reaches our energy field it can’t get through. It’s being sent but we are incapable of receiving it.

Your Invisible Block to Love and Miracles

Let me explain. Imagine there’s an energetic screen door between you and the universe. You yourself have unconsciously set up this door to keep flies and mosquitoes (problems, danger) out.

But what the screen door actually also does is keep out the butterflies and the fireflies (miracles, solutions to problems, love, energy gifts, synchronicities). As you can see, this is a pretty big block when you’re asking for things from the universe.

The truth is that you yourself might be the reason love or abundance just isn’t happening. You might be unconsciously blocking the very things you’re asking for. 

Opening Up to Miracles

I was asked by spirit to do a special intensive clearing session on this to help Twins open up to new energy vibrations and move towards increased Harmony and Union, and most of all to help everyone receive all the good things the universe is working to bring us all.

We are meant to live in love and abundance and to be connected in positivity in order to lift the energy vibrations on earth, but often we don’t experience life that way. It’s time to rewire our energy filters to finally allow in the good stuff.

Imagine all the things you’ve been working on manifesting, all the intentions and wishes you’ve sent out. The results and answers are out there in the ether, waiting to reach through once you open up. So let’s open you up once and for all so miracles can finally reach you.

You can download the Energy Clearing for Twin Flames here 


#1) You Can Only Receive What You’re Open to Allowing in

The truth is that the Universe and our guides are constantly working to bring us the things we’re asking for – but in so many cases those very things are being blocked by default by our energy field, and we never receive. 

Notorious blocks to receiving are things like lack of self love and lack of self acceptance (if you’re in a vibration of self doubt and shame, you’re on the opposite end of the scale to accepting someone appreciating and loving you).

Most of us also have our energy field wired with varying degrees of disbelief, fear issues, skepticism, cynicism and fear of disappointment, and these things keep us out of receiving the positive things we’re asking for.

This is why our soul often answers our prayers and wishes by bringing up the negative blocks so we can clear them and thereby receive our answers and our gifts. For us, though, this just feels like negativity coming up for no reason and often it’s incredibly disheartening to us. The soul’s logic is: you want this, great, let me help you get rid of what’s blocking it so you can have it.

#2) Your Reality is Literally Wired to Block Your Wishes

My Twin showed this to me once: We humans have a kind of filter around us, like a screen door shield around our “reality field”, which only will allow in a certain range of frequency to our space.

This is something that’s “wired” into us from patterning the reality fields of people around us growing up. We match our parents energy fields because living closely with others means unless our energy fields match, there’s dissonance. People automatically do this through sympathy and interacting emotionally – we match each other’s energies and form cords and attachments.

So if your parents were worried about money and didn’t feel loved by people around them, if they felt that their dreams would never come true, this is something you’d have copied unconsciously into your energy. If they operated mainly from the lower energies of conflict, fear and survival modes, you would have matched yourself to fit into their “reality field” – the shared energy field around them and you.

Now when you’re an adult yourself you might believe differently and have done your inner work to realize you can manifest your desires and that your life can be wonderful – but this deeply engrained patterning can still be causing blocks to you receiving those wonderful things you’re asking for.

This is deep stuff that was formed before we were old enough to realize what was going on and that this wouldn’t serve us in life, but the great news is we can shift and alter our reality fields with energy tools.

#3) You’re Not in a High Enough Vibration (yet)

In order to make something happen energetically (and remember the whole world is energy in motion) we have to match our energy to it. The most basic laws of energy work in a simple and predictable way. If you want something, you have to be able to match your energy to it.

Sounds easy, right? This is why so much of the spiritual community and psychology talk about belief. Because believing something helps you match your energy to it, drawing in the thing you believe in.

So when it comes to attracting, manifesting and receiving those dreams we have – getting to Twin Flame Union, being happy together, landing the dream job, losing weight – our biggest problem is that we’re often not in a high enough vibration to really attract the results we want. Often we don’t really believe it can happen.

If we’re not able to really get into the energy frequency of love consistently, Twin Flame harmony will be something you’ll only experience fleetingly, if at all. Manifestation and attraction are processes that often take some time – and in order to secure positive results we have to stay in a positive vibration, in order to be in alignment. That’s not always so easy.

The great thing is that Twin Flame Ascension is designed to help you attract your ideal outcome with your Twin Flame – this whole process is meant to release and clear from you anything that’s been holding you in a low vibration. So that you can be in alignment with all good, all harmony, all love.

In other words, it’s just a question of time. If you keep doing your inner work and lifting and clearing your energy regularly – eventually you will get into alignment with what you’re desiring. Anything else would be impossible.

You can begin shifting and uplifting your energy right now with the powerful cleanse tool in my Free Help Kit for Twin Flames.

#4) You’ve Got Hidden Counter-intentions Working Against You

When we send out a conscious intention or a wish into the Universe, the signal gets transmitted and starts the process of attracting what’s a match to this. Sounds simple, right? Know what you want, place the “order” and receive your “gift”.

The issue for human beings on earth is that we don’t just operate on a conscious level. Our psychology is so multifaceted and complex that we can have a multitude of different and opposing intentions working and sending out signals to the Universe at the same time.

This means we’re subconsciously sending out mixed signals – and you guessed it, this means we get mixed results. Fear, doubt, disbelief, skepticism are notorious counter-intentions that mess up our plans. 

What happens is that, say you want to come back with your Twin Flame who’s been a Runner for a long time. You’re sending out the intention and wish to the Universe to come back together with your Twin in Love. However, underneath the surface there are a number of counter-intentions brewing.

Subconsciously, you fear that he will never really change, and you’re worried about what hurt might be waiting for you if you do come together, plus you’re concerned with what made him Run in the first place and whether it had something to do with you not being enough or you acting in a way that made him Run, and deep, deep down at the pit of your being there’s a core fear of the ultimate terror of no one loving you.

This sounds extreme, but once you start looking at people’s energy and get insight into the subconscious material (I’ve seen this in hundreds of sessions with Twin Flames) there are always some potentially illogical yet pervasive counter-intentions present.

On this journey, therefore, it’s helpful to get to know ourselves and our innermost feelings because this is how we’ll get to weed out those patterns and beliefs that are working against us.

Try writing down your desires and “listen” to the objections that come up in the way. These objections are what’s been blocking you. Once you find out what they are, you can clear them with energy tools.

#5) Other People’s Energies and Intentions are Getting in the Way

Because we’re energetic beings, when we interact with others we inevitably take on their energies and patterns and they ours (unless we protect ourselves and clear our energy regularly).

This means that well-meaning friends and family members who’ve been hurt in love could be unconsciously sending out intentions into your future field, with their beliefs and blueprints that True Love is Impossible or that Love Hurts or Miracles Don’t Happen. Needless to say, this doesn’t help your own hard work to stay positive and have faith. 

A few ways to remedy this is: Clear your energy regularly and cut cords to others, spend more time around positive people (or read books or listen to audio tapes by people whose positive outlook you’d like to emulate), and work on recognizing limiting beliefs at work in your life.

Get to know your intuition better because it will always lead you to the truth, and help you see past illusions and negativity.

If you really want to make a lot of changes fast and open yourself up to receiving all those good things you might have been blocking – here’s the Clearing Session again.

As always, sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3


Cassady x


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  1. Cassidy, hi it’s Devin again. Lately I’ve been working on my angel card reading skills. I’m honing in and giving very accurate, insightful readings over messenger and texts. I was wondering if you would like a reading. I realize that you have your own network, but I feel drawn to do this for you. You give so much to me and others that I’d like to give back to you.

  2. Wonderful information Cassady! I may do the energy clearing you’re offering this time but if you honestly want to know the truth don’t think I really need to but it can’t hurt.. will pay as soon as I can…

  3. Thank you, Cassady! I will be at the clearing, it helped me a lot last time.

    I recognize what you describe here, but I am wondering: doesn’t that take time as well. I mean, I experience a lot of changes due to clearing (with the help of your tools, clearing and course), but it need time as well. To get rid of a belief, you have to recognize, accept and then clear it. Although it is a matter of weeks, when you mention ‘it can happen overnight’ , I feel like I might be doing something wrong. Or is it normal it takes time? (I mean psychologically seen that makes sense, energy wise as well?)
    Love and light for you, thanks!

  4. Yes it does but you can clear up a lot with the energy clearing I found that last time.. the results come over time.. I also do violet flame meditations it helps.. it depends on how deeply buried this ”belief” is.. with her last energy clearing I had results of feeling clearer in about 3 days and much more balanced. I intend to listen to it again.. soon

  5. I just hope we won’t have issues like last time when I go to get the replay lol if so I’ll contact you

  6. Dear All, It has been only several weeks that I have come across this site and blog and it has been an immense help to me. Thank you Cassady but also all of those who have posted invaluable advice and shared intimate experiences. This is the first time I am writing a post here or anywhere else! I am following the Vibrational alignment program and regularly practice meditation as well as Cassady’s. I have met my TF 18 months ago. The most wonderful experience of completeness I have ever had by total surprise, so many strange experiences I was blown away. We had a brief but intense encounter/relationship lasting less than a year. He then ran whilst I chased. I feel I am ending the chase and entering into a welcome separation where I need to heal from this emotional roller coaster. He lives in the same town but I rarely see him and do not actively contact him anymore. We are both in relationships. Today after 3 weeks I bumped into him by chance !?! He looked at me then turned his head away as if I was a total stranger. I am hurt by his indifference. Is this normal? What should I do? Thank you for reading this. I cannot use my real name unfortunately as I’m afraid people might see this however this is a very personal post. xxx

  7. Hi there,

    Thanks for the question: the time required to clear something is varied from individual to individual and from issue to issue.

    It depends completely on how much energy you have around a certain “problem”, how deeply it goes and how many other things are affected. Our energy field can be described as a bit of a spider’s web where interlinking issues might get brought up so the pattern and issue gets cleared for good.

    Sometimes it literally can be the case of changing something overnight, that’s correct. I’ve seen it happen before and it’s happened for me many times. You “click into” a new space beyond the pattern, back to pure source energy.

    Sending you love and light <3 x


  8. Hi Hope, yes it does, the Twins share a collective energy field so any work you do will positively impact the both of you!

    Have a look at the link – there are testimonials from the last clearing call: several twins experienced runners getting in touch right after the call… Crazy right? But it really works <3

    Cassady x

  9. Hi NewLight,

    What a wonderful experience to have, even though the ego self showed you negativity – I’ll explain why this is actually a good sign for you. When Twin Flames become in a strong attractive energy alignment with each other, they begin to literally attract each other physically where they meet by “chance” and bump into each other out of the blue repeatedly. I’ve had clients before where this happened over and over on the way back to a harmonious reunion.

    The fact that this is happening means your souls are working very hard to get you together. Please don’t be disheartened, because what you experienced was ego, not your Twin’s true soul self and feelings for you. The ego is temporary and the Ascension process involves releasing a lot of ego patterning, especially recently with Mercury’s Retrograde – a lot of negativity and ego stuff has come up for everyone. (Mercury is turning direct today, which will lessen this push considerably)

    Ask your Twin’s soul to help him realize who he really is deep down, and don’t give up. Keep interacting with your Twin through soul methods, and you’ll be drawing each other back together. I know it’s unpleasant what you experienced, but from you and your Twin’s souls’ perspective it’s just a necessary part of getting to that harmony and love you both planned before coming to life this time.

    Sending you love and light <3 x


  10. Hi KJ there’ll be no issues – that was a new technical system last time (and you got the replay eventually right?) 😉 <3


  11. Hi Devin, that’s so kind of you! And well done for working on your skills and your intuition <3 x

    Thank you! Will you please get in touch about this on email? <3

  12. ear cassady, thank you so much for your blogs and this site. I started reading a few days ago and also go through your breakthrough meditation daily. I do have one question though….i am not sure if i am the runner or chaser. My twin is married. In July he started running. I let him run and he came back a few weeks later. Now 8 weeks ago i ran as the situation was too painful. He kept saying he can’t leave his family and cannot live without me either. I told him to contact me again only when he is sure that he wants to be with me. Since then no contact. Am i running or he? And who is blocking a reunion…. Me or him?

  13. I am really excited at another clearing! I can tell you that the last one shifted an enormous belief in one night for me. I would wake up in middle of night and start tossing and turning and feeling not worthy, my twin doesn’t think I’m good enough and so on. That has not popped up once on me since that clearing! More was cleared but that was the one that so noticeable and helpful for me. Thank you!

  14. I’ve been out of touch with him so I have no idea. Sorry! He and I always got the same info and would somewhat compare notes of same thoughts/feelings so I would imagine so but can’t confirm.

  15. This really makes a lot of sense, I know I am still working on clearing my blocks and clearing the negative energy that is present where I currently live so to read this really resonates with me and reminds me to stay focused on my intentions, my path, my well-being and my future happiness. Thank you again for an amazing article!!
    *Much Love*

  16. I was with my ex for 4 yrs ending 37 yrs ago. we lost contact 28 yrs ago. I was told recently he was my twin flame after I had located & contacted him 5 months ago. We have talked about our relationship in depth & affection & our lives since then but I was told he is fearful of me. He refuses to meet with me so far and continues to put it off constantly. I am spiritual and pray about this but he comes very close and intimately but then recoils & is distant. My prayers are not being met no matter how much he has owned his feelings & stated future situations. What is happening since he talks of the future but no action?

  17. Many thanks for you reassuring words Cassady. By soul methods do you mean the meditation on the alignment program?

  18. Hi Sunrise, spirit’s answer is it doesn’t matter whether you call it running or chasing – the ultimate issue is that there is an imbalance which is expressing itself outwardly as pushing each other away.

    The advice is to start working with addressing karmic issues and resolving any past life basis of this tension. You can try the Energy Clearing Audio with Q&A or the class on Karma and Karma clearing in the Vibrational Alignment Program xxx

    They say “don’t give up” – you really can turn things around <3 x

    Sending you love and light,

    Cassady x

  19. I’m so glad Amber! Did you see lots of Twins had runners get back to them after doing the last clearing? Very exciting to see!

    Cassady x

  20. Hi Debi,

    Blocks regarding pushing things into the neverending future are very common in people both on the Twin Flame journey and otherwise. I would advise you to try the Energy Clearing Session I created for Twin Flames (link up at the right hand corner of this blog) as it will clear out congestion and negativity for you and your Twin. Twins’ energy fields impact each other so much that one twin can shift the whole dynamic by clearing.

    Your Twin’s true feelings are of closeness and intimacy – any recoiling is due to fear patterns and karmic wounds triggering fear of being hurt. Good news is this can be cleared and resolved. I teach how to do this in the Vibrational Alignment Program.

    Don’t give up, Debi. Things really can change more than you’d think x

    Sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

    Cassady x

  21. thank you for your reply Cassady. I would like to participate at your next Clearing session on Nov 3rd. Would that be sufficient? I also do your breakthrough Meditation regularly.

  22. i just purchased your energy Clearing Audio :). Will do it tonight and give you some Feedback tomorrow 🙂
    Thank you so much!!!

  23. Hey there I feel like shit to be honest. I met what I thought was my twin flame in a spiritual realm. We both have done work and continue to work on ourselves. We have even created a lot of good for the planet – coming together to bring balance to the earth by starting a charity and funding many projects ( in a very short time ) that support the planets healing. We are often acknowledged for the work we do. In fact I am living my dream – being in service to this planet and doing things I love , except I am in a personal hell as my love is unrequited. All the signs appeared – we both saw 1111 everywhere after we met. We both have experienced rapid almost miraculous growth since we met and yet …. Nothing. I am the chaser and she is the runner – except we spend every day together working and living with no intimacy. Like a force field is around her. I have given myself self love over and over again yet I am questioning if this person is my twin flame. I feel heart broken and sad. Any advice or assistance will be appreciated. Your blog as helped me understand so much , except I am not seeing us in Union. Thank you and I love you ! My prayers are with all twin flames going through difficulty – it is the hardest thing I have ever experienced.

  24. Hi Cassady, just thought I’d say that I bumped into him again…by chance. This is working. thank you. xxx

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