Uplifting And Unlocking Your Twin Flame Journey To Its Highest Potential…. What If You Could Leave Running, Separation and Struggle Behind for Good?

First of all I’d like to thank you for being here today – it really means so much to me!

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what made me start this blog in the first place and why I’m still here.

Although early on my journey was fraught with challenges, heavy emotions and changes and it felt like a rollercoaster I had no control over, I have learned more than in my whole life leading up to it.

Along our journey I studied books on psychoanalysis, the inner child, shadow aspects, mindfulness techniques, energy clearing modalities, research on neurobiology and other things I was guided to by spirit… as a way to handle the challenges of the Ascension process.

How I Was “Recruited” To Help Other Twins

I soon discovered tools that really helped me, and shifts began to occur in my life.

Later, spirit pushed me to begin using my new found abilities to help others and I began to coach other Twin Flames… and I realized just how much negativity was involved in the whole Twin Flame connection.

It seemed like every single client I worked with were involved with runners” or experiencing harrowing struggles of separation and difficulty.

And they all seemed to have read about this in articles of books and *believed that pain and struggle was an inevitable part of their journey*.

The Answer to Twin Flame Prayers

I began to read more about these sides of the Twin connection but my guides kept showing me in a different direction.

It doesn’t have to be that way, they kept saying and showing me.

Energy is the key, they said – if your energies are aligned and in a high vibration you’re in harmony, there won’t be any problems. You yourself have experienced this. (I had).

As time went by they suggested I start a blog and write about our experiences so that we could provide an alternative to a lot of the negatively attuned information available out there.

It was made very clear to me that a lot of Twin Flames were asking and praying for help – this blog would be something to really *practically* help them, was the message I kept getting.

I was even “interviewed” to get the job!

“You’re Hired”

One day in the shower, I was asked by a “high up group of spirits”, a lot of questions about my own journey and work with clients, what I’d learned from it, how I’d handled difficulties, and what I would advise other Twins to do to reach a state of happiness and harmony.

It must have gone well, because a few weeks later I was nudged very powerfully to sit down and start writing the Vibrational Alignment Program. They spoke, and I wrote. And I was asked to include the tools that had helped me the most.

I was also guided to create free energy clearing tools and meditations based on the methods I’d learned myself to manage the “rollercoaster”, and to share info on what had been the most helpful for us on our journey together.

Steering Clear of “Cloud Speak”

They guided me to write helpful articles with actionable solutions, rather than what they amusingly called “cloud speak” … mysterious Twin Flame dogma about decrees from superior beings and what the Twin Flames supposedly would have to endure in life through “lessons” and hardships.

The site was very quiet at first and I nearly gave up to start with…

But as the months went by, I would send out a request to the universe every night that those who needed our help would find us – and more and more Twins began to show up.

The Twin Flames 11:11 community now counts over 100,000 Twins from all over the world, and I know it’s no coincidence you’re here today.

Which brings me to the core of the matter.

I want you to know that this blog is here as a sincere effort to help as many Twins as possible experience joy and harmony, like I know we all can!

So I’m sharing what I’ve experienced works. Hands down.

The “Clear Channel”

Mine is for sure a different “method” from most other Twin sites and forums.

My work isn’t based in any prior books or theses on Twin Flames, because that would just repeat existing information.

As a clear channel I was deliberately kept away from anything that could taint my perceptions, so that what I write is not clouded by anyone else’s beliefs or experiences.

I know it was deliberate thing too that I was chosen to do this since I have no “ego” involvement in this.

I have no desire to be a “guru” to Twin Flames or have a following, although it deeply moves me to be able to help other Twins because I have been through this journey myself. Honestly, though, I have desires in life that lie far away from the spiritual scene.

For me the priority is this:

The quicker and more powerfully I can help you, the better. I want you to not have to be here reading this blog.


I want to show you how you can help yourself get to where you want to that place of harmony and love, so you don’t need to depend on me or any other outsiders…

Because that’s the point, right?

To get to harmony and happiness, not to spend the next decades reading articles hoping that maybe “one day”…


My aim is that you’ll take action, learn my methods and tools so you can help yourself, live happily in harmony and not have to think about Twin Flame struggles or lessons ever again…

So today I’m sharing with you 5 of the foundational keys I have discovered that can make or break your Twin Flame connection.

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I know – even though you might have been hiding from this fact – that you are an infinite soul. You came here fully equipped to take this journey to a place of joy and love. Your intuition is there to help you any time you are willing to listen to it.

However, you might have to let go of a lot of limiting beliefs about how the Twin Flame connection is “supposed” to be before you can be open to know the real underlying truth.

Focus inside, listen to your intuition – it will always tell you what’s to your highest good by letting you feel light and happy when things are in alignment, and it will give you a heavy, low feeling when things are out of alignment.

Clearing your energy will help you tune in to your intuition. Begin to listen to it, and it will become your best friend and compass on this journey.

In life, it’s up to us what we make of things. Like in university, there’s no guarantee you’ll get an A just because you enrolled… You can even flunk out and the university will allow you to do that too. It’s up to us to make the most of our time here


The Twin relationship is not a plumbing or software problem we can get straightened out overnight to magic everything into perfection.

There’s no one “secret” that some Twins are hogging while others spend their lives suffering through separation and running and all the rest of it…

Yes, that means also that there’s no “secret” book/meditation/crystal/article/psychic session that can fix your Twin connection overnight.

The truth is there is no “trick” or intellectual “solution” to live in love and joy. This is why there are still thousands of self help books being published every single year on how to find love and happiness. From 80s classic “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” to this year’s latest love and dating fads.

Do these things work? Honestly – if they did, we wouldn’t still be writing about it…

There’s no “trick” anyone has found to magic love and harmony, and believe me: people have been looking for millennia – as far back as Ancient Greece over three thousand years ago people were trying to “figure out” love.


After coaching and communicating with thousands of Twin Flames from all over the world and seeing the connection in action, I know a few things about what keeps people stuck and what makes some Twins’ experiences harmonious and loving.

What determines whether your Twin Soul connection is harmonious or chaotic and fraught with problems, is your energy vibration and your core beliefs.

If you’re heavy with congestion, limiting belief structures and negative karma, this will keep you out of alignment with the Union and Harmony you desire.

This is why you can have read all the Twin Flame info in the world and still be stuck in problems!

Energy attracts its like. Like with a radio, it’s like being tuned into Metal FM and expecting classical music. It won’t happen! You have to change the channel, in energy terms – you have to raise your vibration.

If you’re high vibrational, accepting and forgiving of yourself and others and hold beliefs that are positive and loving, this holds you in alignment with more of those things – including harmony with your Twin Flame.

This is why this journey is “magically” joyous for some Twins – it’s because of their personal energy vibration.

The truth is, you can’t change your energy vibration by reading information.

There is no Twin Flame ‘trick’ you’ll one day read and that will magic everything into perfection for you overnight.

It’s all about energy. If you’re holding onto a lot of negativity you and your Twin will be in a state of dissonance, pushing each other away… If you’re in a high vibration, on the other hand, you’ll be attracting each other like magnets.

I’ve had clients who had been waiting for their Twin Flame for over 20 years to no avail, and it wasn’t because they were doing something “wrong”, hadn’t understood the connection or because it had been decreed that they were “unworthy” of uniting.

It was simply because their energy wasn’t in alignment with it.

The quicker you realize you’re an active creator of your journey and start taking action to work on your energy and mindset, the quicker you can start making progress and positive shifts… (Test your energy with this quiz now to get an idea of where you’re at)

If you keep doing the same things, you’ll keep getting the same results…


The universe is infinite. There are over 7.5 billion people on planet Earth. Your journey and your Twin connection is unique.

No one else has the same exact energy frequency and background as you and your Twin, and your path might look different from others’.

Keep this in mind on your journey. This is why I share *actionable tools that you can adapt to your unique situation*, no matter what.

And on a side note, keep that in mind when you think about how many Twins are unhappy – they might just be the ones who are eager to share it with others … so they can feel better, lighter of their burden.

It’s a common human trait to want to share our horror stories and negativity with others (which is where we get “internet trolls” from).

The Twins who are happily together might just be less likely to want to start blogging about it… It doesn’t mean they don’t exist!

No matter what’s happened before, you can shift your situation into harmony and love. The time it takes will depend on the amount of energy that needs to shift to get you there, but it is possible. Those are the laws of energy.

If you’ve been having a hard time, the first thing to do is accept that it’s possible for things to change for the better!

Don’t buy into the illusion that things will always be hard. That’s just one perception. The universe is infinite.

I was recently guided to create a Complete Energy Clearing Session for the Twin Flame Pair to help Twins cleanse and balance their energies, eradicate triggers of running and providing shielding, protection and new light codes. If you’re interested you can read more about that here.


You came here to be happy. You and your Twin in fact pre-engineered all your life circumstances to fit with coming back together in love.

The so-called Twin Flame “mission” is tied in with sharing love and bringing high vibration energies to earth, so none of us came here to suffer. (Read more here)

We all knew that once we came here it would be our choice what to do with our lives.

Your higher self and your guides will do what they can to nudge you in the direction you desired before you came here, but they can never make you do anything. That’s what the synchronicities and the 11:11s are all about – it’s them talking to you and encouraging you.

But the choice is always yours.

Free Will means it’s completely up to us if we stay stuck in negativity or move up into the joy and harmony our souls knew was possible. And we knew this when we came here – that we would be on a learning experience back to each other. The Key? Love.

The Twin Flame connection is all about Love. It’s that simple, and that complicated.

The reason it’s complicated, is that human beings have a built in pattern of thinking everything has to be complicated. So we try to “figure it out”. It’s in our culture and in our hardwiring.

The truth is: You can have, be and do anything you desire. It’s just a question of shifting your energy. I know it can seem hopeless, but trust me, it’s not.

I’ve seen it happen with so many others – I know how fast things can change once you get going. You can even read about other Twins’ amazing experiences with my methods here.

I want you to know that although I may be further along on my path I’m no “better” or “spiritual” or “advanced” than you.

I’m not superior to you. And neither is any other “Twin Flame expert”, no matter how it may seem

Remember always that whatever information you’re reading about the Twin Flame connection, has been received and interpreted through the person’s human filter, no matter how “spiritual” that person seems.

What I’m happy to say I do have is a joyous Twin Flame connection, fully united in harmony. And I know you can get there too because I’ve seen it happen before, and I have the tools to help you get there.

I believe in you!

I know you can get to where you are longing and hoping to be – there is no such thing as impossible, the most important thing is to get started. All it takes is that first step…

As always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3

Cassady x

“This has been truly amazing, every time I use the energy cleanse my Twin Flame texts or calls me immediately afterwards. It’s really crazy! And then we always get to some kind of different level of communication or we express ourselves in different ways. We are continuing to heal. It’s amazing that I can do this type of thing and my Twin be so affected by it as well!”

– Teresa B., USA

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Want more? For an easy, fun way to manage your mindset, elevate your vibration and harmonize your journey with your Twin, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames.

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  1. Dear Cassady,

    All true. I am now 10 months after starting with your VA course and it took me off to a whole new life. I feel self empowered beyond my wildest child fantasies 🙂 Not just TF wise, in all aspects of life.

    Core of it all is exactly what you describe in this blog. My dominant intent is to feel good, and by aiming for that I allow all good to come to me. I am truly the creator of my own reality, and how great that is!

    Although I still frequently read your blog, already for quite some time I do not “need” it anymore because I have found my inner guidance. I just read it in appreciation and love for you and all you offer to help TFs to change their perspective. And I see how I understand it all from a different perspective.

    I now write this comment just for you, to let you know that it works for me exactly as you have envisioned it (as you write in the blog). It works! So, I really want to let you know one more time that I so much appreciate you and love you.

    All best, all love. <3.

  2. Thank you so much for all you do Cassady and all the knowledge and tools you give us to empower us not only on our twinflame journey but also as spiritual beings. I have just downloaded your new healing program and cannot wait to start tomorrow.
    I am myself guilty of thinking in terms of lacking and missing. And that needs to change. Thank you so much for being such a positive light! Xxx

  3. Wow, that means so much to me, Me, thank you for taking the time and effort to write! Thank you for sharing your experience with the program for other twins to know too.

    I’m so happy for you to know you’ve felt the shifts and are experiencing positivity! And thank you for being here! I know you have a wonderful journey ahead x Sending you love and light <3 Cassady

  4. Thank you for being here, Annie! x I’m so grateful for your positive feedback : )

    Don’t feel bad for thinking and feeling lack/missing – these are such common patterns and we’ve picked them up from somewhere (parents, friends, society), just look around at our culture, most of us grow up with messages about how hard life supposedly is and how there’s always something we have to improve and fix.

    I can’t wait for you to feel the shifts in moving out of the energy that’s been creating those feelings and thoughts in you. Sending you blessings of love and light! <3

  5. I just want to say THANK YOU Cassady for sharing all you know and for taking the time to write this blog and help others…you truly are a gift from god!! I’m so grateful to have found your website…sadly my twin is on the other side so I have no way of communicating with him physically anymore but when I read your posts its as if he is talking to me through you and it is hands down the one thing that has gotten me through the pain of losing him in this life. I really can never thank you enough <3 Love & Light to you! xxxo

  6. Even though I haven’t been in a physical relationship with my Twin Flame (I only met him once) I totally agree with this, the Twin Flame journey doesn’t have to be hard and be filled with pain. And even in midst of hurt and confusion, by silencing those thoughts and be in a neutral minded state, we do know what to do in our unique journey. For me personally, I find it hard to NOT compare my path with another Twin but it is really essential not to do so. I love your blogs and they continue to come at the right time! But one question… do we have to be our best version and be in a high vibration every time when with our Twin (even if the problem doesn’t relate with my Twin and it was with someone else that has “caused” us to feel a certain way?) Thanks a bunch!

  7. What if your Twin Flame is not familiar with the connotations of Twin Flame and/or soulmate?

    And also, is it necessary to see 1111? I have a couple of number combinations I keep seeing and have for years (way before I met the man who I think is my TF – 111 is not one of them) but I have only seen 1111 maybe twice since he has entered my life

  8. Thank you for all of your help Cassady 🙂 You have taught me so much, and while I have learned and do believe that the answers are inside of me… Your site alone has helped myself and many others to find these answers within ourselves. Without you I don’t think I would have recognized my own voice.
    I’m so excited about where I’m headed and in all honesty… I have you to thank for that. You and your twin have been very instrumental in helping me to open my eye. Thank you… and please keep writing.

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